A DAY IN "THE LIFE OF RILEY"

It’s still Fashion Week! ( www.mbfashionweek.com/newyork/ ) Today, Ant and I attended our new fav designer R. Scott French (www.rscottfrench.com/) who presented his new Fall 2008 line of men’s suits and casual wear. He was happy to see us afterwards and wants us to come to the showroom to see everything up-close-and-personal. Of course, I will walk out with half of it. (Well, probably not, given my budget… but I might take a piece or two). The troop of models looked familiar. This guy Jared Cotter – a Top 20 finalist from “American Idol” ( www.americanidol.com/contestants/season6/jared_cotter/ ) – was one of them. Remember his “Let’s Get It On”? (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kspgDt1Mvyk) And a handful of them were plucked from “Make Me A Supermodel” (www.bravotv.com/Make_Me_A_Supermodel/). Afterwards, we saw their mentor and the show’s host Tyson schooling them on perhaps where they fell stiff. He took took a moment to pose with me. Tyra, on the other hand, couldn’t stop to pose, but was happy to see me as I approached her with the cliché of all clichés when you run into a supermodel you’ve met before (and interviewed before) but are not sure if they remember you: “Do you remember me?” (“Uggh!” I say to myself. “Why did you say that?”). She said “Of course, I remember you! How are you?” As her crew, glam squad, security, and entourage cradled her out of the tent, she waved. Another VERY PRESENT diva for my list of PRESENT DIVAS – including Diana, Beyonce, Janet, and Kimora. Also in attendance: Miss Chrisette Michelle ( www.defjam.com/site/artist_home.php?artist_id=611 ) or ( www.myspace.com/chrisettemichele ) with a short cut that contrasted the shoulder-length locks she was sporting when we saw her perform a few months back. She was very sweet and approachable. She was sitting next to Trey Songz ( www.treysongz.com/ ). He too was warm and full of hugs and smiles. I liked him a lot. Just an all-around good guy. Also, stylist and actor with the most Phillip Bloch (www.phillipbloch.com/) was in the house (recently seen in the film "The Unseen" - now on DVD - www.morofilms.com/theunseen/). He sat next to former model/photographer/hottie, "America's Next Top Model"s Nigel Barker (www.cwtv.com/shows/americas-next-top-model09/cast/cycle09-nbarker), who posed across the runway for me. And from HBO's "The Wire" (www.hbo.com/thewire/), J. D. Williams was in the house - sporting his R. Scott French (as I sported as well). He was seated next to us and quite nice. I got a pic of he and Ant. As we left the Salon, we stumbled into Robert Verdi (2^nd time for our 2^nd show thus far - http://www.robertverdi.com/). He was doing his fashion coverage on the American Express Fashion Network (http://www.americanexpress.com/style). We opted out of the After Party which was scheduled nine hours after the wrap of the 11:00 am show. But it was scheduled to be held at Equinox Fitness ( www.equinoxfitness.com/ ) on 10^th Avenue (between 16^th and 17^th Streets). Tommy ( www.tommy.com/ ) is next for us on Thursday; however, a litany of potential assignments came in today that may prevent me from attending. But if all pops off with this particular project, I might be able to walk out of R. Scott French’s showroom with half of the line after all.

On this Sunday morning, Anthony and I are basking a bit in the glow of a wonderful dinner we had last night with new friends celebrity hairstylist Ted Gibson ( www.tedgibsonsalon.com/ ), his partner Jason, and a mutual friend (between those two and Ant and me) Dr. Shirley Madhere ( www.thenewaesthete.com ) or ( www.drshirleymadhere.com ). You’ll recall, Ant and I met Dr. Shirley at an Amy Dubois Barnett party last fall at the SOHO Grand ( www.sohogrand.com/ ). We hit it off with her immediately. Ant invited her to my birthday party in November and she came. Around that time, my fellow Scorpio Ted, Jason, and I met in Chicago. I knew that they would be BFFs for Ant and me. Up until last night, we only had the chance to hang out at his salon one evening. But finally, we “Big Willies” got in our dinner (with the synergy of an awesome “Amazing Grace” to boot. Jason just knew we’d hit it off with Dr. Shirley. When all the names were put on the table, we amusingly uncovered that we already knew her and had already hit it off). Now, in my zone of unpredictable assignments that can show up at a moment’s notice, I was originally scheduled to be in DC for a shoot. Since it took a minute for us all to get a date and time that worked, I wanted to make sure I could get to DC and back to NYC in time for dinner. Fortunately (and conveniently so), the shoot was cancelled. Unfortunately (for revenue), the shoot was cancelled. But most importantly, what reigned supreme was the opportunity to call joy forth inside of great friends and good people (at a time when Ant and I could use a boost). And latest addition to the Meatpacking District “Bagatelle” (www.bistrotbagatelle.com) was an optimum backdrop. It’s an upscale French bistro with an intimate candlelit interior that shines on top of a white canvas that is the trim throughout the dining room. The people bring the color and we watched as the room of white turned into a kaleidoscope of many faces - including our dining neighbor, film director Oliver Stone. From roasted chicken to cote de boeuf (made with grass-fed beef), we all found ourselves ‘comforted’ by this cuisine. Specialty cocktails like “Le Blues de Manhattan” (made with Makers Mark, muddled blueberries and blackberries, Chambord and sweet vermouth) gave me a tasty excuse to graduate from my standard ‘kir royale’ as I sipped on Jason's drink of the night. But I regressed to the 'kir royale'. A friend of Jason who is a critic for “Wine Spectator” magazine (www.winespectator.com/) recommended “Bagatelle” and recommended he drop her name to get a reservation at this new hot spot. It worked and now this recommendation will keep on giving as I spread the word. We too got a character of a waiter named Aaron. He not only shot a picture of himself, but joined us for one of our group pictures. Dr. Shirley and I got to practice our French with him (mine - of course - the more literate, elementary version. Dr. Shirley is quite fluent... and chockful of French and English inspiration and wisdom that has left us all motivated for 2008. Thanks Ted, Jason, and Dr. Shirley for providing us with a wonderful evening.

As it is fashion week, surely Ant and I are in the mix. We’ll be attending our favorite “American Chang” (www. americanchang.com/) and “R. Scott French” (www.rscottfrench.com/) tomorrow. And Tommy Hilfiger is on Thursday (www.tommy.com/). But the most popular MODEL in my world right now – no SURPRISE! – is my Anthony. YES! MY ANTHONY! He booked – as a MODEL – a photo shoot with Erykah Badu (www.erykahbadu.com/) for ESSENCE Magazine (www.essence.com/). Her new album “New Amerykah” is coming out soon and this layout in which he stands right next to Erykah as her bodyguard will be on newsstands by the end of this month. (This means Erykah has touched my DIANA when she honored her last June for the BET Awards - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L98RMa3fqnM .

And now, she's touched my Ant. I'm also reminded that she too pays homage to Diana in the video for her latest single release "Honey" in which she sports Diana-esque hair and does a mock take on Diana's "Blue" album cover by recreating its likeness (among other iconic albums from Grace Jones, Nas, De-La-Soul, Ohio Players, EPMD, Minnie Ripperton, LaBelle, Olivia Newton-John, etc. - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HNJt5ADHzIY). So the iconographic synergy between Erykah, Diana, and ANT is just kismet to me! I’ve always LOVED Erykah Badu… and still). I’m so proud of Ant as he navigates – in forward motion – to establish himself in this new place called New York City (He’s only been here since March but has attracted some great opportunities including a small part in Terrence Howard film “Fighter” [out this summer]; lots of production work; art projects-in-progress; credited and paid fashion stylist [including his favorite “Ken Doll” (his words): ME, and still maintaining a grasp on the temp market which he does when things are quiet on the media/art tip). With ALL OF THAT, both he and I know (from our respective experiences as freelancers who are truly about using our GIFTS inside of our PASSION), the numbers don’t always add up (more "accounts receivable" in waiting than "accounts payable" right now). And it can be frustrating as we battle the challenges and – in tandem – unapologetically choose to live these ABUNDANT and JOYFUL lives. As the LAW OF ATTRACTION goes, I know we are destined to have each and every one of our dreams come true – even when it may seem too dire to show up that way. And the evidence is not just in our knowing that we can survive the struggle, but as Anthony puts it, it’s in knowing that it is a “Beautiful Struggle” – a line lifted from rapper Talib Kweli’s 2^nd solo album from 2004 (www.talibkweli.com). And for what we are experiencing of the good, the bad, and the ugly in this real life, it’s truly ALL GOOD and building our character to BE POWERFUL and UNSTOPPABLE in our pursuits… and COMPASSIONATE and VULNERABLE in how we show up in the world. Of course, both Ant and I learned this in our course MOMENTUM EDUCATION (www.momentumeducation.com) but LIFE keeps on teaching us new lessons around these very insights.

With that, our good girlfriend Adrienne Stewart who is National Sales Manager for all things Kimora Lee Simmons – Baby Phat and KLS Collection ( www.kimoraleesimmons.com/ ) invited us out to witness the unveiling of the Fall 2008 collection from Baby Phat by Kimora Lee Simmons and KLS Collection. The Roseland Ballroom ( www.roselandballroom.com/ ) provided the backdrop. And of course, there could be no Kimora Lee Simmons party without a slew of A-to-Z-listers in the house. And Ant and I were excited to see them all. On the day her Tru TV show was cancelled ( www.trutv.com/ ), Star Jones Reynolds wore a brave and confident face amidst the clamoring media to support Kimora. She (and her friend Lisa Raye [ www.lisaraye.com ] – actress and the first lady of Turks and Caicos [ www.turksandcaicostourism.com/ ]) graciously posed with me on the runway before the show began. And the fashions - by the way - were awesome. The KLS couture - in particular - was beautiful. There were some romantic, classic silhouettes on the gowns that reminded me of old-school Hollywood icons like Katherine Hepburn, Bette Davis, and Joan Crawford. And of course, Kimora and the girls came out for their bow.  I also got to ki-ki and cut the fool with Miss J ( www.cwtv.com/shows/americas-next-top-model/cast/jalexander ). He was seated a stone’s throw from Miss Tyra Banks ( www.tyrabanks.com/ ) with whom I didn’t get the chance to photo op. But we did get a moment with Miss Amerie ( www.amerie.net/ ) who was sporting a lighter color of hair which I complimented. She says her mother likes it better. Also, my National Association of Black Journalists’ (www.nabj.org) buddy who we met in Las Vegas, Jacqueline Williams, came from Milwaukee to be in the mix. It was good to see her. Afterwards, we all went to the after-party at Suzie Wong ( www.suziewong.com.cn/ ) in Chelsea which is party central. Many were in the house. Though I’d heard about the Brooklyn shop “Pieces” (www.piecesofbklyn.com), I had not met its owner Latisha Daring. Adrienne introduced me to her, pointing out that Latisha was the first boutique in New York City to embrace Kimora’s KLS Collection. Additionally, Andre Harrell was in the house. Some exotic dancers provided a sexy backdrop for the party. Miss USA 2007 Rachel Smith who I’ve met before struck a pose with me. Our current “America’s Next Top Model” Victor/Victoria Jaslene ( www.cwtv.com/shows/americas-next-top-model ) also gave us some shine. Also at the party: TV personality and style expert Robert Verdi alongside whom I’ve had the chance to audition for some spot TV projects; Also, Piper, the ‘sistah’ from Tyra-Banks-ANTM-spin-off “The Shot” ( www.vh1.com/shows/dyn/the_shot/series.jhtml ). My buddy from BET’s Black Carpet Miss Beverly Smith ( www.bet.com/OnTV/BETShows/blackcarpet/ ) was in the house. And Miss Vivica A. Fox was there too. As Kimora’s folks B.J. and James held down the fort, Kimora actually called me to walk even further into her velvet-rope zone to visit for a minute. I've had a chance to interview her before (as well as Russell). So, she knows me (though I must admit I'm always impressed with how present she is with people - including little ol' me). Seated atop the lounge headboard that aligned the wall, Kimora posed with her man Djimon Hounsou, Jaslene, and others. Then, she and I did a run for the camera. As Ant took the pictures, he said he got it (just so we could ease on out of what was becoming a mad- house). But Kimora knew he didn’t get it and generously said “Have him give us the camera and someone in here will take it.” He handed it over and we got our pic. But he too got a couple of good ones from his angle as well. Also, NYC party photog Johnny Nunez captures us as well. Kimora wanted to be sure. I love it!

From there, we went to support my new MY SPACE friend Dominick San Juan ( http://www.myspace.com/dominicsanjuan). He was selected to perform in this national competition sponsored by SHURE Microphones and Sam Ash Music. It took place at “Blaggard’s Pub” ( www.blaggards.net/ ) in Manhattan. Of course, we ran into many of our usual suspects – like Diaz (who alerted us that he was sporting Latino Royalty again - www.latinoroyalty.com), Toyce, et al. And we posed accordingly. But the night belonged to Dominick who blessed us with his talent – great voice and original songs.

Speaking of supporting the arts and expression, Ant’s friend Marcos, who hosts OPEN MIC MONDAYS ( http://www.myspace.com/onemicnite ), allowed us to use his event, which he holds at East Village’s Hacienda, as a backdrop for interviews I was commissioned to conduct for Remy Martin ( www.remy.com/ ), which is celebrating the launch of its LIMITED EDITION bottle of cognac designed by celebrity photgrapher David LaChappelle ( www.davidlachapelle.com/ ). We talked to folks all over New York City (Harlem, SOHO, and Lower Eastside) on their thoughts of this uniquely designed bottle and LaChappelle’s work and the synergy of art, spirits, and fellowship. The interviews went very well and the artistic folks that flowed out of Marcos’ set made for great soundbites as well. Oh! And Anthony was so inspired by the organic evening (for which my Tata and her fiance joined us), he graced us all with an awesome poem that was totally well-received. The folks were truly snapping for “the kid”. Now, Ant is pushing me to go up one night and sing. Someday. Oh! And my Morehouse brother Khalid came by to support as well. Thanks Khalid! This was a fun project on which to work and reflects some other lucrative, thinking-out-side-of-the-box directions I can go in as far as attracting creative work. Though I’ve always attracted new and exciting fare for my work plate, I can also identify those points in which I can play it safe. Now, I’ll reconnect to those pieces of me that – at the beginning of my career – would produce morning TV news by day and act in a friend’s student film by night. In fact, a reminder of that time came to me via a former Air Force roommate of my Savannah buddy and film/commercial director Maurice Marable who I’ve written about before (http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2007/3/4/-weve-come-a-long-way-baby.html). Well, this guy Les G finds me via the BLOG as he was searching to find his old Air Force buddy Maurice. Les G writes to me: “ Hello Patrick,

I stumbled across your blog as I was searching for some information on Maurice Marable. Upon seeing your picture I realized that you and I had actually met years ago. Before I go further let me introduce myself. My name is Leslie Graham or Les for short. Maurice and myself were friends and roommates while we were in the Air force stationed in Oklahoma. We also hung out a little in Atlanta upon leaving the service. You and I met during Maurice’s filming of one of his student projects. Realizing that I was in the company of some soon to be great talent I took a few still shots that I still have to this day…”

Of course, I couldn’t resist asking Les to send them to me. And here goes. I starred in a few of Maurice’s student films as he studied at Georgia State University ( www.gsu.edu/ ). Since that time, Maurice has gone on to do amazing work as a writer/producer/director at HBO (for many of its big shows). Currently, he is the director and producer of a high-profile campaign that Coca-Cola ( www.coca-cola.com/ ) has launched for Black History month (He’s featured in it too). The ad, entitled “What Do You See?”, is just one element in a comprehensive African-American plan for 2008 that focuses on connecting with African-American consumers. It features three African Americans – including Maurice –

who are writing modern African-American history through their accomplishments. The other two are professional skateboarder Kareem Campbell and businesswoman and founder of Carol’s Daughter skin care Lisa Price ( www.carolsdaughter.com/ ). They all appear in “my” Maurice’s commercial asking the question: "What do you see when you look at me?" The "What Do you See?" television commercial will be accompanied by radio advertisements that will air during Black History Month in six markets including Atlanta, Birmingham, Philadelphia, Detroit, Houston and Memphis. (I’M SO PROUD OF MAURICE!!!!). The Company will continue its sponsorship of “African American Lives” with this year’s special, “African American Lives 2”, airing on PBS stations on February 6 and February 13 ( www.pbs.org/aalives ). The special profiles 11 notable African Americans by using genealogy, oral history, family stories, and DNA science to trace their roots. Tina Turner, Chris Rock, and a host of others are on the docket this go around.

Ant and I want our roots traced – “African American LIVES”-style (so we can find out where exactly we hail from in Africa). We recently got the chance to celebrate the LIFE of another friend, Jamar, who may want to use this technology to piece his interesting story (which I’ll share another day). You recall, Jamar is my buddy and personal shopper/stylist at “N” – my favorite boutique ( www.nharlemnewyork.com/ ). We always have a great time, but as we celebrated his birthday at “Harlem Lanes” ( www.harlemlanes.com/ ), it was a funky good time! Ern and Ant came ahead of me with their bowling averages... but I did master some impressive, spot strikes throughout my game, which just came in a few points under Ant (and Ern for that matter. He’s seen a better game). My buddy Ryan, who is always an enthusiastic spirit, came to support. And our loving Tasha and Q represented as always. Of course, all of Harlem and “N” was there. My Earth Angel/buddy Rafael, the French artist, came by to hang out for a bit (www.rafaeldezayas.com).

On this journey, there are so many who continue to inspire me with their words, but most importantly, with who they are.

1. I met publicist/social activist/author Terrie Williams (www.terriewilliams.com) in the mid-‘90s as she was in Atlanta promoting her debut book "The Personal Touch: What You Really Need to Succeed in Today's Fast-Paced Business World" ( www.terriewilliams.com/ptouch/about.html ). This book changed my life and informed – in large part – how I’ve come to network and navigate within this industry. She’s published a couple of inspiring books for adults and teens between that first book and her current tome "Black Pain: It Just Looks Like We're Not Hurting” (Scribner), a wake-up call to Black folks on depression. March 18 is a day to mark on your calendar as she will be hosting a “Day of Healing” at The Apollo ( www.apollotheater.com ). Actresses Mo’Nique and now-Oscar-nominee Ruby Dee are scheduled to participate along with “Good Times”-own John Amos. They will all join together and artfully read stories of people in the book. For more information, go to: www.thestaystrongfoundation.org. Terrie recently sent me a note: “…your blog is so live –one feels your energy.” What a compliment! Thanks Terrie! And keep me posted on all you are doing around this effort as my own emotional well-being is a piece to which I stay mindful because I am aware that mental health still carries a stigma in our community. And if I scar on my body, I get treatment for it. It should be the same for our insides. And for me, it is.

2. My girl Candi with whom I’ve been friends since our days as students in the National Association of Black Journalists (www.nabj.org) is doing some amazing things all around this industry, but one thing I can talk about: “It's Hip Hop, Baby!” - a children's DVD for ages 2 to 6 (which I’ve referenced before here in the BLOG). But as news goes, “… it was a big hit with many celebrities at the "Boom Boom Room” at The Golden Globes pre-awards show swag suite, at the Beverly Hills Hotel. Celebrities like Angela Bassett, Tori Spelling, and other Hollywood Parents with their kids, babies and their families smiled when they received the new educational dance DVD. It’s Hip Hop, Baby! was one of the hottest products for little ones of celebrities thanks, to Erin Gutierrez President/Founder of http://cottonseedclothing.com/ who is also a big fan of “It’s Hip Hop, Baby!” This educational DVD that features child-friendly dance routines that help your child develop listening skills and the ability to follow simple directions. Your toddler will experience the joys of learning their ABC's, animals, body parts, and numbers through fun-filled musical performances and interviews with the hip hop kids. It's Hip Hop, Baby! the DVD and CD are available at http://www.itshiphopbaby.com/ or http://www.amazon.com/.”

3. And Miss Yolanda Young – writer/columnist extraordinaire who I met through Candi (Years ago) came to town for business… but I’d say she came to inspire me. We broke bread at my favorite spot “ Houston ’s” ( www.hillstone.com/ ). She was such a breath of fresh air as she validated all that I am aiming to do with my career not because of what she’s doing (and she’s doing amazing things. Check out her video blog on www.yolandayoung.com ), but because of her uninhibited courage with moving forward and making things happen. On this day, I realized that I was “inside my story” and she continued to reinforce “possibilities” at a time when I needed to hear it. Yolanda, too, says that – despite my “blahs” that day – that I “convicted” her on several fronts and breakdowns in her own life. So, our chat that day meant more than networking. It was bonding and real connection. For that, Yolanda, I say THANKS!

4. I have spoken about my Listening Experience group that my best friend from Morehouse Eddie put together some years ago. We’d annually gather and share our latest and favorite music finds. One of our members Nyasha reached out with the following that I want to share with all of you. Nyasha wrote:

LE Alums! :)

I hope that your 2008 has begun exceedingly well!! A dear friend of mine out of Philly has launched a virtual music community (somewhat like myspace, but specifically geared toward music lovers and progressive folk. I have been working on my page, posting to it my songs, videos, images, and things that bring me joy. I invite you each to take a look and join the community…The site is: www.soulgen.com . In love and music, Nyasha

In closing, on December 1, 2005 , Anthony and I met. You’ve all heard the story before. It was at the opening night of Broadway’s “The Color Purple”. He was covering it for STARZ, his Denver-based employer at the time. I was covering it as well. We were introduced at the after-party and the rest is history (or our present) as not one day has passed that we haven’t been in contact (whether I was out of the country on assignment or he was away on a family vacation in The Bahamas). Since we started out long-distance, we made monthly commitments to see each other and not one month passed without us honoring that. Then, last March, he moved here and we began the next, on-going chapter of our life and love (inside of huge adjustments, breakdowns, and challenges) – some of which has been chronicled here in the edited “A Day in the Life of Riley: Pop Culture & Possibilities”. Well, last week, the producers of THE COLOR PURPLE ( www.colorpurple.com/ ) announced that the show will play its final performance on Sunday, February 24, 2008 at 7:30pm , after playing 30 preview performances and 910 regular performances at the Broadway Theatre. Now in its third year on Broadway, THE COLOR PURPLE recouped its entire $11 million investment in its first year on Broadway, having grossed over $103,000,000. And after that opening night, Ant and I would hold "The Color Purple" close as our muse for love. Because Tony-award-winning LaChanze (who created "Celie") is a friend, I got the chance to share in the celebration on the night she won the prized Broadway nod. Ant and I even went to see “The Color Purple” again together with Fantasia (for his birthday in 2007). Additionally, we got to check it out on the eve of its closing announcement with new stars Chaka Khan, BeBe Winans, and Lakisha Jones (of “American Idol” fame). And we’re still together. Though “The Color Purple” wraps later this month, Anthony’s and my show goes on…:

LIKE A BLADE OF CORN,
LIKE A HONEYBEE,
LIKE A WATERFALL,
ALL A PART OF ME.
LIKE THE COLOR PURPLE,
WHERE DO IT COME FROM?
OPEN UP YOUR EYES,
LOOK WHAT GOD HAS DONE!!!!

My belly is still bubbling at the unknown and – for now – the numbers aren’t adding up. Still, I am stepping powerfully into my NOW! Though still steadily being dispatched for assignments here and there (An interview with Tommy Hilfiger here [www.tommy.com/]. A behind-the-scenes of “The Color Purple” (now with Chaka Khan and BeBe Winans) there www.colorpurple.com/), I have been attracting a mix of work that will keep me afloat (some network morning TV assignments) and further promising work that compliments my brand and is placing me in the zone of pop culture and possibilities. And I love it!!! You’ll recall a shoot I did as on-camera personality earlier in this month at my favorite boutique “N” ( www.nharlemnewyork.com/ ). “The Hugh Thompson Show” (www.techchannel.att.com/) assigned me to upgrade two “geeks” (sweet folks who spend lots of time in the math and sciences vs. fashion and style). Fast forward a couple of weeks to Martin Luther King Jr. Day, we revealed the new looks in-studio for the show’s taping. Ant styled me for the field shoot and this studio reveal as well – pulling our look-of-late “American Chang” (www. americanchang.com/ ) and “R. Scott French” ( www.rscottfrench.com/ ) – both of which will unveil their new Fall 2008 gear on the runways of Fashion Week next week ( www.mbfashionweek.com/newyork/ ). (And we’ll be front and center). According to Ant, I did a great job – feedback I welcome as I do more on-camera work. Moreover, this show is taped in the New York City-based “Maury Povich” studio [www.mauryshow.com/] and Adam the director, who is loaned over from “Maury” said “You are great on-camera! We could use you at ‘Maury’!” Don’t worry! Not for any of the ‘paternity dramas’, but when they do features and makeovers and may want a fun and unique energy in the mix. That’s me, he says. So, I’m excited at the possibilities before me.

While backstage at “The Hugh Thompson Show”, Ant and I met someone from whom we’ve been receiving lots of joy. His birth name is Adam Bahner. His stage name is Tay-Zonday. He’s known for “Chocolate Rain” on www.youtube.com (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EwTZ2xpQwpA). With lyrics like “Chocolate Rain.
Some stay dry and others feel the pain. Chocolate Rain. A baby born will die before the sin. Chocolate Rain. The school books say it can't be here again. Chocolate Rain.
The prisons make you wonder where it went… and four-more-minutes into the song, you experience these abstract-yet-symbolic lyrics pouring bombastically and deeply out of the mouth of this cute kid (who – by the way – is really 25 years old). With his brother/manager Damon in tow, Ant and I enjoyed our waiting time in the green room as we all chatted about the significance of us preparing to do some cool TV – in front of the camera - on Martin Luther King’s holiday.

Though we four brothers were in the house, we were watching our wallets and man purses when these three white people – in particular – walked into the green room. It was Ryan Oakes, Dani Marco, and Apollo Robbins – the team of “con artists” who demonstrate on their new TRU-TV show “The Real Hustle” (www.trutv.com/shows/real_hustle) how easily we can be relieved of our assets when they or someone who means it maliciously are around. Before they went on to talk to Hugh, they did a few quick tricks for us. Very impressive! And they are the nicest folks you'll ever know. Lots of fun! (But I still kept my wallet in my hand!).

As other shows that support my branding as personality, “Our World with Black Entrprise” hosted by Ed Gordon ( www.blackenterprise.com/mediacenter/ourworld.asp ) has been nominated for an NAACP Image Award in the Best Television Talk Series category. I’ve weighed in as a pop culture pundit on the show, which is booked by my “Amazing Grace” Nichole and dear friend C.J.. It features news, entertainment, roundtable discussions, and everyday heroes from all walks of life -- from Hollywood to the corporate suite and everyone in between (including me). CONGRATS TO ALL OF YOU!

I too am excited for my friend Herve (who I’ve referenced often in the blog - http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2006/11/15/tired-of-me-talking-about-dreamgirls.html) has a new single “The Seven Seeds of Love”. Its video follows: http://youtube.com/watch?v=M2_64T3-AsI KEEP INSPIRING, HERVE!!!!

Meanwhile, my friend Barney Bishop (www.augustbishop.com/) is working with a program that is INSPIRING young men all over New York City . “TIED TO GREATNESS” (www.tiedtogreatness.com) is an important organization changing the lives of inner city high school young men through the power of positive male role models and fashion. It’s an initiative designed to reconnect young Men of Color to their rich history of men who dressed well, carried them selves with dignity, and accomplished great things in society. Under the guidance of its founder Alexis Ellis, “TIED TO GREATNESS” is launching a national tour beginning February 1, 2008 at the Abyssinian Baptist Church in Harlem . It starts with the Pass It On Tie Ceremony. Each young man is presented a tie, and is taught, by an older man how to tie his own tie. Each tie is donated by sponsoring corporations and businesses. Thus far Brooks Brothers and Men's Warehouse are on board. They’ve asked me to participate as a mentor for the ceremony and I’m excited to be a substantive difference via the prism of style.

For the “grown and sexy”, responsible man who these boys may one day become – appreciating a luxurious aperitif (in moderation, of course), my friend Lamar has signed me up with Remy (www.remy.com/), the world’s leading producer of Fine Champagne Cognac, to find the “mavericks” on the streets of New York City – men who live a full and eventful life in style. They (or we) work hard and play hard and will love to partake of a spirit that pours out of a Limited Edition bottle that is designed by celebrity photographer David LaChapelle ( www.davidlachapelle.com/ ). We’re looking for this type of guy on Monday, January 28^th. Hit me up on my BB, if you fit the bill and would like to be interviewed. We’re in the Harlem/Uptown area in the morning and in SOHO/Downtown in the afternoon (patarack_riley@yahoo.com).

Ant and I saw a lot of these guys the other night at our friends Collin and Austin’s party to promote the new pop-cultural-inspired images on their line of novelty T-shirts “MINORITEES” ( www.minoritees.com/ ). As you know, we’ve been wearing these great Ts for over-a-year now and more-and-more are catching on. The SOHO Grand was the elegant and popular (of late) locale for the set ( www.sohogrand.com/ ). In the house: my friend Scott Nevins ( www.scottnevins.com/ ) – who can legitimately claim many of our favorite divas i.e. Liza Minelli, Melba Moore, etc. – as his personal friends (or – at least – associates). Check out his site as he’s always promoting and hosting some great events for those of us who love music and drama. And Ant and I were excited to walk out with our new “MINORITEES” which we are even more excited to wear. They are HOT!

Well, great to share with you – as always! I have to pull myself together and hit the streets. WHAT WILL I WEAR? Oh yeah!!!! One of my MINORITEES!!!!!!!

“BRING ON THE STORM. WE’LL SEE IT THROUGH…” – another metaphor that lyrically places Diana Ross (www.dianaross.com) in the rain. Might have been a lovely encore to her recent sold-out concert in my residential state of New Jersey. On a day that released its share of sprinkles from the sky, we hear that Miss Ross let her audience at the Borgata have it. And they reportedly LOVED it! Unfortunately, I missed it. Just couldn’t swing it all this go around. You, too, recall it is she who historically sang in the New York City rain during her historic 1983 Central Park Concert. There, “… the raindrops that fall (had) a meaning…” To me, they represented that “(We) Won’t Melt” when there’s a torrential downpour as ‘The Rain is for the flowers. It’ll only help us grow’…and then some. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9VuZMIOYMcQ). Perhaps the sentiment is best captured in another Ross hit “It’s My Turn” when she sings “I’ll let it rain ‘cuz the rain ain’t gonna hurt me!” (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LbRIiu5fPqc).

The symbolism of rain -- and the pessimistic/optimistic paradox that it can play on our emotions -- has tested me all week, perhaps most profoundly the other day. Both Ant and I are counting our pennies in addition to our blessings these days as he searches for full-time work and I am on the market to expand my freelance plate in the wake of some client shifts. This past Friday, I left my short deck of credit cards at home as my intention was simply to go to the bank and retrieve a few $20s from a particular account in my ATM. With that, I left all other useful debit cards at home as well. As I got off the New Jersey Transit (www.njtransit.com/) bus that picked me up in my hometown of Ridgefield Park and chauffeured me through West New York, New Jersey through the Lincoln Tunnel and into the New York City Port Authority, I took a quick-but-high-energy walk over to my bank. This particular account in which I expected some recently-direct-deposited funds to be available showed me that I only had $18, and this particular machine only gave out $20s. Now keep in mind, I left the card to my other account with checking plus at home. I also left my other credit cards at home. And I only had $10 of cash on my person. After I made calls to find out why this money wasn’t in place (where I was certain it was supposed to be), I found out the date I expected these funds to show up was the following Friday – coming up (not this past Friday). What would I do? I still had to get to the upper west side (more immediately) for a meeting (regarding some new work possibilities). Then, I had plans for a chemical peel at my favorite dermatologist on the upper eastside Dr. Lisa Airan ( www.lisaairan.com/ ). Well, I symbolically (a la Ross) took my walk through Central Park (from the 72^nd Street entrance through Strawberry Fields and ultimately to 5^th Avenue, the corner of which placed me at the destination of my skin regimen sans any funds). I stopped in to say hi, retrieved a few applicable samples, and scheduled a rain-date on my lunchtime procedure. A brisk-but-assured walk from the 70s down to Union Square gave me a much-needed workout and I made it to the corner of 16^th Street and Union Square West, where the framework of an uninviting scaffolding is erected for some new construction. As I ponder that I have three hours before my 3:00 pm meeting, it starts to rain. One call comes in. It’s my Amazing Grace Nichole. I explain my plight, but perhaps not desperately enough for her to rescue me from the comforts of her home (She was inside of her own crisis). Ant finally called me back from home as he had just wrapped an exhaustive assignment. Though I’d called him earlier, I knew he wouldn’t get the message until he awoke. In this moment, he’s telling me that he will come with his money and rescue me. But I’m telling him not to bother as I will be fine as long as I have the $3.40 to get back home. And I was down to $7.00 as I did pick up coffee and white, buttered toast before the morning meeting. Feeling unusually inhibited (around limited funds), I almost want to cry – knowing it will camouflage as it rains cats and dogs around me. Then, I get a text from my Morehouse brother Mario’s French buddy Rafael de Zayas (www.rafaeldezayas.com) who I met at Mario’s holiday affair in Harlem before Christmas. He’d asked me the day prior what I was doing and – quickly (in one text) – I hipped him to my plan: “Morning meeting on upper west side. 3pm meeting near Union Sq. Might have lunch or coffee window between 12:30 and 2:30.” On the night before, Rafael replied “… may meet you around that time…”. Fast forward to ‘around-that-time’, Rafael writes: “… I’m in Union Square in front of the Virgin Music Store…” ( www.virginmegamagazine.com/ ) I text “… I’m on 16^th across from the Coffee Shop…”(www. nymag.com ). Next thing I know, Rafael is approaching (in the rain) with an umbrella that he had just purchased from someone on the street. He hands it over at which time passerby Mario Van Peebles says “… Now that’s a good friend…” This, as he himself is reaching for the $5 or $10 he will need to buy his own umbrella from a man who was set up in front of me. Initially, I just reply to the stranger “… He sure is a good friend for bringing me an umbrella...” – another thing I left at home (way in Jersey). With a second take, I realize “… That’s Mario Van Peebles!!!!” In the spirit of my pop-cultural enthusiasm, I ask him if he’d take a picture. Rafael shoots it before taking me to the Coffee Shop for lunch (and coffee). I vent to him my conundrum – only from the space of “I’m so happy I ran into you as you saved me from having to be stuck under a scaffolding for three hours without food, drink, or an umbrella…” In his generosity, he spotted me an additional $20 to ensure I could get home. Now, of course, I will pay him back (already tried to, but will have to push harder as Rafael considered my appreciation “overly dramatic” and “not a big deal”, but the way he showed up (and when) gave me some comfort and joy – in all its modesty. I’ve been on the Rafael end many times and – too – am used to footing the bill, helping somebody out because they’re out of cash, buying the rounds or five. So, I consider it a total blessing to see someone I barely know show up so helpfully and with no judgment. Through the rain, this blessing showed up, letting me know I can make it (Right, Mariah?). This divine moment armored me perfectly for my 3:00 pm meeting (also about a documentary project with which I may join forces). From there, I got to get on home to enjoy Italian take-out and some wine with Ern and Ant.

More rain showed up a couple of days later as Ant and I walked out of Schnack in Red Hook, Brooklyn ( www.schnackdog.com ). It's the comfort food with the most. It was raining again and as we exited the hole in the wall. As we looked to the East River, we could see fireworks off in the distance. Not sure why, but we watched and posed with the magical explosion in the background. It’s these nothing moments that Ant and I have to remind ourselves about when we get a little cranky. Today was one of those days. But with some mutual silent treatments, our day landed with him taking me to my favorite restaurant Houston’s for what would become a make-up dinner. And off in the distance of our love, I know the sun will soon come out to our “… new day!!!!!”

Meanwhile, I must acknowledge that “… when it rains, it pours…” And so many of my folks are doing amazing things. I must let you know. While at our friend Craig and Mario’s 2^nd Saturday party PLUM (in Washington Heights), we ran into some folks we’ve not seen in a minute as the December holidays pulled us all away from the circuit. We made up for lost time the other night. Our favorite couple Jason and Marqice were in the house. Their friend Craig who I last saw – happenstance – in Atlanta over the Christmas break. There was Raymond and Toyce and Antar and Derrick and Marlynn and on and on I could go with my peeps’ names. One of my BLOG fans and world renowned makeup artist of the stars Sam Fine ( www.samfine.com/) was there and alerted me he is going to be on his good friend Tyra’s show during February sweeps (www. tyrashow.warnerbros.com/ ) alongside my Chicago friend Vince’s partner Earl Nicholson. There was also my actor buddy Erich who Ant and I recently saw in a regional production of “Dreamgirls” (He was Curtis). Well, he alerted me he just did a spot on NBC’s hit sitcom “30 Rock” ( www.nbc.com/30_Rock/ ). Go Erich!!! One of the dancers I booked for Ant’s 2006 B-DAY party was in the house. We said “Hi!” Several of my college mates Jason, Charleston, Michael K. Watts, and – of course – Mario were in the house. Charleston announced that he’s preparing to do acting full-time, which is exciting (to see our folks go for their dreams).

Actually, two more of my Morehouse brothers are doing great things. I sang with them both in the Glee Club and the news comes from the wife of one of them. Korey Washington’s wife Tracey reads the blog and hips me to things I should know about as our mutuals go. Korey – who I’ve stood by in the glee club for years - designed the set for this year's Trumpet Awards ( www.trumpetfoundation.org/home.htm), which will air later on TV One ( www.tvoneonline.com/) this year. Then, another of our brethren is leaving Atlanta for New York City. According to the Atlanta Journal Constitution, “Georgia Public Broadcasting’s announcer-producer Terrance McKnight, whose voice might be described as a lyric basso profundo, was recently hired away by WNYC-FM, one of New York’s flagship cultural institutions. The 44-year-old Morehouse College graduate will take the 7p.m.-11 p.m. shift once held by Margaret Juntwait, who left three years ago to become the host of the Metropolitan Opera’s radio and HD theater broadcasts. He’ll also host occasional live performances.” To read more, click on: http://www.accessatlanta.com/blogs/content/shared-blogs/accessatlanta/atlarts/entries/2007/12/21/new_york_hires_georgia_radio_h.html CONGRATS TERRANCE! When you get here, let’s have a toast… for the good times!

Speaking of toasting, my friend Jerry McCormick hipped me to a friend of his who he says “… is like a B. Smith in the making.” Her name is Maria Hunt and she's got a book coming out about wine and entertaining. Jerry says this woman knows everything. Though she’s appeared on local TV stations in San Diego (his base) and she’s been a food critic for 12+ years, he’s excited to see her reach a national audience. She's a wine sommelier and was named San Diego's most eligible bachelorette by Forbes.com. Her website is http://www.thebubblygirl.com/press.html.

Speaking of bubbly girls – well, bubbly may not be the best description of her, but she has a most positive outlook on life and I love her and have loved her for more than ten years now. Her name is Tracey Moore-Marable and her Spirited Actor course (www.thespiritedactor.com) is known as THE PLACE TO GO to get enrolled in the craft of acting. Utilizing her many lanes as casting director, celebrated Acting Coach (to many stars – including those musicians making the transition), writer, and director, she merges her experiences to shape the best our business has to offer. Like she does everyone who comes into her path, she empowers the person inside. So, her work with actors is no different.

Talking about going deep, my friend and NABJ colleague Kai Wright has a new book on the shelves. It’s titled “Drifting Toward Love: Black, Brown, Gay and Coming of Age on the Streets of New York”. (www.DriftingTowardLove.org). You can also read about the book in a wonderful review in this week's Washington Blade: http://www.washblade.com/2008/1-11/arts/books/11867.cfm And Kai will be reading at Harlem's Hue-Man Bookstore (www. huemanbookstore.com/ ) next Tuesday, Jan. 22nd at 6 pm. CONGRATS KAI!

Speaking of books – a term often used for ‘magazines’, I was so happy to get a release from my friend Ra-Fael Blanco that of his many clients, one of my favorites BLEU Magazine (www.myspace.com/BLEUMAG) is coming to a newsstand near you very soon. America's Next Top Model JASLENE graces the cover. And available at all Hudson News, 7-11's, Barnes & Nobles, AVENUE REPORT Magazine - THE NEW VOICE IN MEN's MAGAZINES - is focusing on everything from the hottest cars, gadgets, politics, entertainment, sports, health and fashion (www.myspace.com/AVENUEREPORT). This month, its 3^rd issue, will feature Actor/Activist/Author HILL HARPER, who I got to know a bit when he was in New York City many years ago doing the off-Broadway play with music “BLUE” and the Public Theatre’s “Dog Eaters”.

As debunking stereotypes go, the NAACP announced its Image Awards nominees ( www.naacp.org/image.htm ) – including our good friend Maurice Jamal’s cinematic treasure “Dirty Laundry” ( www.dirtylaundrythemovie.com/ ). It’s the little engine that could and it has so many wonderful engineers driving it – like our buddy – Richard Pelzer III who – along with his colleague La Rivers – was a casting director on this project and the soon-to-shoot “B-Boy Blues” ( www.bboybluesthemovie.com/ ) which will still have a part for Ant and a cameo for me by principal photography time.

Then, new friend (a la MY SPACE) Dominick San Juan ( http://www.myspace.com/dominicsanjuan ) was selected for a gig on February 1st sponsored by SHURE Microphones and Sam Ash Music. It is a national competition and he’s one to hear I hear. Come join him and me as we experience some good music.

And of course, all good music leads back to our friend Ledisi (www.ledisi.com). With that, I must point out that my Ant has been working alongside her over these last few weeks – working on one of the music video treatments she submitted to her record company for serious consideration. It’s for “In The Morning”, her second single. In the end, they went with another idea. But as he navigates through the thick of this industry, he is making moves and getting closer everyday.

As his talents have no end, Ant too is a credited stylist on a project for which I serve as on-camera talent. We’ll share more with you once we tape, but in addition to styling me for the field shoot (which I blogged about before), he chose and pulled the ensembles I will wear on Monday for the two tapings. "American Chang" (www. americanchang.com/ )

and "R. Scott French" ( www.rscottfrench.com/ ) will be the centerpieces of my look. Ant will work his secrets (something old, something new, something borrowed…) to round it all out. This, as we also anticipate American Chang/R. Scott French’s tent show during Fashion Week ( www.mbfashionweek.com/newyork/ ).

And so, for all the times I feel like things aren’t happening quickly enough, I can reflect in my BLOG writings and know that I am fine and Ant is fine. And even in breakdown, we can breakthrough towards the goal. Sometimes it’s hard though. And when it gets to be too much, I ask for God’s grace and mercy to lead us on...and to keep it kind (but that's usually after something horrific slips out of my mouth). Through our muse choreographer Ken Roberson, Ant and I got a big dose of inspiration as we ran into him and another friend I’ve not seen in a minute, Chris. We stopped by “No Parking” in Washington Heights for a nightcap ( www.queenofnewyork.com/bar/no-parking/ ). As I always alert you with Ken, he’s making things happen in 2008 and there will be something to report very soon.

Meanwhile, as I head to Chicago for an assignment, I better pack my umbrella. Just in case.

Today Ant, one of his Denver-based Amazing Graces (best friend) Manivone, and I got the chance to attend a meet-‘n-greet with the cast of Tennessee Williams’ “Cat On A Hot Tin Roof” (http://www.cat2008onbroadway.com/), which has a limited Broadway engagement that starts February 12 and is scheduled to close (for now) on April 13. I blogged about it once before: http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2007/12/16/cat-on-a-hot-tin-roof.html but today, an intimate circle of arts and entertainment press got photo opportunities and an engaging press conference to present this piece that is fully African American-casted and directed by Debbie Allen. This will be the first African-American production approved by the Williams estate for the Broadway stage. And today is the first day that the cast got together to do the table read at New 42^nd Street Theater (www.duke.new42.org/) on the classic about greed and lies in a Mississippi family. And lead producer Front Row Productions’ Stephen Byrd ( www.frontrowvideos.com/ ), African American, has brought together an impressive collective of African American co-producers, like my friend, the fierce and fashionable [READ: Yves Saint Laurent - www.ysl.com/ ] Nicole Kidd (who – like me – considers the often-BLOG-referenced ‘fabulous Carl Nelson’ and ‘my Chicago Carl’ close buddies). Byrd offers: “…This revival of Cat is not only making Broadway history, it is making American theatre and black theatre history too! …” Today’s gathering brought in lots of my colleagues and friends in the business like Carl, who accompanied Jacqueline Lee, who is the Senior Multicultural Brand Manager at Diageo ( www.diageo.com/ ), a premium liquor company. My buddy Karu Daniels was there ( http://blackvoices.aol.com/black_entertainment or http://www.blackvoicesblogs.com/category/entertainment-newswire ). He is the Entertainment Blogger/Producer/Reporter-extraordinaire for AOL/Black Voices and mastermind behind “The Bridge” with our girl Ledisi and Broadway babe a la “Color Purple” Chaka Khan (http://www.blackvoices.com/thebridge); Director of Photography for “Access Hollywood” ( www.accesshollywood.com/ ) Darryl Henry, a friend from back-in-our-days at CNBC ( www.cnbc.com/ ), where likely I last saw him in the late ‘90s. There was also my Marcia Pendelton with Walk Tall Girl Productions (http://www.walktallgirlproductions.com). Pictured above with producer Stephen Byrd and me, she is responsible for our invitation to attend this special gathering. Michael Musto of “Village Voice” fame (and my fellow co-host on the pilot that didn’t get picked up, “tvQ”) was there. For the second time in as many weeks, I ran into buddy Patrik (without the “c”) Henry Bass, Books Editor at Essence Magazine ( www.essence.com/ ). And my Morehouse brother Michael K. Watts was also there. Then, there was this amazing cast – each of whom gave me a moment to reflect on ‘how I met them’ or ‘where I interviewed them before’. After that 30-seconds-to-a-minute, I get my snapshot and excuse myself as they are greeting so many people, I don’t like to bombard them without end. And they were all on board and excited to play with the press, including what I hear is a “Vanity Fair” Magazine shoot ( www.VanityFair.com ). Now, let me just break this down – so you understand the impressiveness of this theatrical effort. I’ll say it again. The incomparable Debbie Allen is directing this project. Manivone shot my pic with Debbie. Later, I wanted to get one of she and Ant. With camera in hand, I called her over “Miss Allen? Can I get a picture with you?” As she’s extending her arms around the small of my back, I’m gesturing for Ant to come on over as I wanted to take the picture of them. The moment was milliseconds, but on a busy day like today, the sassy Miss Allen doesn’t have time for us to figure it out. She exclaims “Well, do you want me to take the picture?” Knowing she was joking, but also trying to keep it moving, I nervously stay in place – holding onto her. Ant jumps to the other side of Miss Allen to bookend her, I hand the camera to Manivone, and Ant got his picture (although with me). We thanked her, she received our thanks, and she continued on towards her next interview. Meanwhile, we all laughed at ourselves – feeling like we were one of the “Fame” kids – taking instruction from Ms. Lydia Grant.

During my chat with Tony-award-winning Phylicia Rashad, I remind her that – like her son – I am a Morehouse Man ( www.morehouse.edu/ ). She received that tid-bit with much enthusiasm. Then, there was Academy Award and Golden globe nominee Terrence Howard whose great grandmother Minnie Gentry was a successful New York stage actress ( www.cinemorgue.com/minniegentry.html ). But if you read this entry of “A Day in the Life of Riley: Pop Culture & Possibilities” - http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2007/9/27/is-that-me-i-dont-recognize.html, you’ll know that Ant has a small part in Terrence Howard’s upcoming film “Fighting” (scheduled for August 2008 release). When Ant reminds him that he was a day-player on the film for three days, Terrence asks “Which role were you?”. Ant responds “Man in cow-hide suit”. Terrence immediately recalls “… at Marquee…”, which is the hip, Chelsea-club where they shot the scene ( www.marqueeny.com/ ). So, he remembered Ant and we can’t wait to see what of his part makes the cut in August. Stay tuned. Another Tony-award-winner (“Caroline or Change”) Anika Noni Rose, who received international exposure via her role as Lorrell in the hit film “Dreamgirls”, was total joy. Ant and I had the chance to meet her on our 2^nd anniversary at the Brooklyn set which featured our Ledisi as the featured entertainment for the night, but Anika was comfortably dressed with no fuss. Today, she was letting them have it. Elizabeth Taylor’s “Maggie” had nothing on FAMU grad Anika, whose take on the classic character we are excited to see. Then, there was James Earl Jones, who I just LOVE – especially as the garbage man from “Claudine” with Diahann Carroll. He was so pleasant and kind. As Brenda Braxton and her husband Anthony Van Putten extended lovely gifts from their Harlem pride “B Braxton” Grooming for Men (www. bbraxton.com/ ), I let Mr. Jones, who said he didn’t have a New-York-City barber, know that I am a client. Then, we got to meet some of the supporting cast. There was Lisa Arrindell Anderson, who I have loved since she played Debbie Allen’s boss in NBC’s “In The House” (with LL Cool J). Remember? Then, two cast-members who are pop-culturally responsible for my going to Morehouse or some historically black college or university: Lou Myers (from the Den in “A Different World”) and Giancarlo Esposito (“Big Brother Almighty” from Spike Lee’s “School Daze”). And remember Miss Barbara Montgomery? She is best known for her role as Casseita Hetebrink on the NBC sitcom “Amen”. She was there. I love my sitcom actors, hear? The "strictly limited engagement" of the Pulitzer Prize-honored drama “Cat on a Hot Tin Roof” will run at the Broadhurst Theatre. Tickets are currently on sale through April 13. For tickets, visit www.telecharge.com or by call (212) 239-6200. For more information, visit www.Cat2008onBroadway.com.

The 42^nd Street space is a stone’s throw from my friend the New Professional Theatre (NPT), which is a performance/rehearsal space for work-shopping new plays and musicals ( www.newprofessionaltheatre.org/ ) This past Monday, there was a -reading of Katori Hall's latest play "Hurt Village" ( www.briconline.org/pdf/bricstudio/Katori_Hall.pdf ). Ms. Hall's "Voodoo Love" recently played at the Cherry Lane Theatre in The Village to wonderful notices. Ms. Hall is being mentored by Lynn Nottage (“Crumbs from the Table of Joy” & “Intimate Apparel”) and is a hot new playwright to watch. CONGRATS NPT!

My friend Gwendolyn Quinn (gwendolynquinn@aol.com) is publicizing an event scheduled for Monday, January 21^st at The Blue Note Jazz Club (www.bluenote.net). Producer and songwriter Barry Eastmond will be honored by special guests Freddie Jackson, Elisabeth Withers, Kenny Lattimore, and Gordon Chambers. Barry has been in the business for 25 years – earning over 60 gold, platinum, and multi-platinum albums on some of the most important contemporary artists in music history. His creative magic has been responsible for mega hit records by some of today's top recording superstars including Anita Baker, Aretha Franklin, Brandy, Britney Spears, Whitney Houston, Tamia, Chaka Khan, Gladys Knight, Yolanda Adams, Kenny Lattimore, Michael Bolton, Freddie Jackson, Al Jarreau, Will Downing, Vanessa Williams, Regina Belle, Barry White, George Benson, Peabo Bryson, Gerald Albright and newcomer Elisabeth Withers, just to name a few.

My friend Greg Dunmore, who I’ve reference here before, came to town for New Year’s. He took Ant and me to dinner at our favorite Houston’s last week – just after we rang in 2008 ( www.hillstone.com/ ). It was there he shared with us that he is producing an event in Detroit called “A NEW KIND OF GLAMOUR: NO BLACK TIE BOW WOW GALA” which will benefit the Michigan Humane Society (http://www.pulsebeat.tv/ or call 313.861.7804). The Gala will take place on Friday, January 18, from 8 p.m. to 12 a.m. at the Former Mark England Store on Woodward in Downtown Detroit, which is known for many-a-formal-gala. This event, however, is targeting a younger, trendy audience that seeks to redefine gala fashion protocol through abandoning black ties, tuxes, and traditional evening wear for a more personalized creative glamour statement. There will be lots of music, art, and dance while guests enjoy hors d’oeurves and refreshments. Noted performance artist Ziam, my spiritual Diana Ross soul mate, will highlight the evening with his highly acclaimed Liquid Silver Show, an electric mix of fashion, song and movement, which I’ve talked about before (http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2007/11/12/manifest-destiny-destination-manila.html). Greg, who is my co-Chair for the National Association of Black Journalists’ Arts & Entertainment Task Force (www.nabj.org), has covered so much of the entertainment business and seen so much via his roles as journalist, columnist, artist manager, artist, etc. He once managed 90s group Hi Five and spin-off soloist Tony Thompson. He told us of how he introduced the guys to the legendary jazz chanteuse Nancy Wilson and how they received her warmly and with much reverence, though initially had no clue who she was. Greg reminded Ant and me that A&M executive John McClain (son of jazz legend Dorthey Donegan - www.dorothydonegan.com/ ) is responsible for connecting Janet Jackson to Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis – so they can record “Control”. And here 21-years-later, she’s open for “Feedback”, the video of which premiered tonight on BET (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lVHJmJVI88) – showing Miss Jackson in her own world.

After McClain and Janet parted ways a few projects into her hit-making groove, he helped launch Shanice inside of a Janet-esque template (http://tw.youtube.com/watch?v=x97aSuscGro). Though not-as-many-sold records later, Shanice is still quite a talent. Check this clip out of she and Justin Timberlake performing one of my more-recent Shanice favorites from the late ‘90s “Yesterday” (http://tw.youtube.com/watch?v=vqLyaL1LH7Y). Oh! And on the subject of my divas o’the day, Jody Watley (my MY SPACE friend - www.myspace.com/jodywatley ) tells me she’s got a #1 in London (“I Want Your Love” – the CHIC remake) which is the first song I put on my own MY SPACE page (http://www.myspace.com/thelifeofriley2k), after my Diana pulled the title track from her current album “I Love You” off of it (www.dianaross.com).

Ant’s and my last few days have been filled with our pursuit of new work. As I continue my existing workload, I’ve also been balancing the consideration of several new freelance possibilities. Nothing firm yet. But lots of calls are coming in. For that, I am grateful. And I know that when I need to make a decision, I will (and God will order my steps and guide my feet as I do so). With all of that, we got to host the aforementioned Manivone who came into town for a few days. We were excited to host her. It started on the subways of New York City. We met her at the Port Authority and transitioned uptown on the train. We then had dinner with Anthony’s other Denver native friend (and “Amazing Grace”) Lonni Byrd, who recommended “809 Restaurant” (www.809restaurant.com) in Inwood (NYC) – North of Washington Heights. Lots of tasty and elegantly-presented Dominican cuisine to soak up our post-dinner/welcome-Manivone-to-NYC karaoke set at – you know where? – ( www.karaoke17.com/ ). I must confess that earlier in the week, Ant and I stopped by the spot with Greg as we awaited my driver, friend, and Godchild’s father Owen to pick us up. But Owen also popped by to say HI (and toast our respective November and December birthdays along with the Holiday) on this particular night. Ern (who rapped to Sugar Hill Gang's "Rapper's Delight") was there. His co-worker Tina and a group of her friends also joined us. And Mario’s buddy Rafael de Zayas (www.rafaeldezayas.com) – French artist I’ve mentioned before – came, pointing out that my voice is beautiful (with French accent to boot). With that, he can join us again anytime for karaoke. SMILE! Another night (Sunday), Ant’s New-York-City-based girlfriend Lonni invited us all – including her friend Robert – out to The Village Underground ( www.thevillageunderground.com/ ) for Ron Grant and Friends’ Open Mic Night. I didn’t get on the mic this time. But we enjoyed a number of artists in their own way. One woman gave her best Anna Mae Bulloch (a la Tina Turner) impersonator named Lady Laura perform. She was on fire! Watch her at www.chittlincircuit.com. Then, there was Harry (www.myspace.com/favorheartmusic.com) who stole the night with a beautiful song “Stay on your Knees and Pray”, which sampled Cyndi Lauper’s “Time after Time” and left us really entertained and stimulated. I had to tell him after that he made my evening!!!! Afterwards, we all went to The Monster ( www.manhattan-monster.com ) which has a great frozen margarita. Mario joined us as he’d just returned from his home of Los Angeles. It was great to see him. Yesterday, Manivone, Ant, and I enjoyed a lovely meal in Brooklyn. It was Teeda (www.teeda-thai.com). The food was excellent. On the heels of our “Cat On A Hot Tin Roof” event, we also gave Manivone the Harlem treatment – inclusive of some soul food at Amy Ruth’s (www. amyruthsharlem.com/ ) and – you know the drill – “N” (www. nharlemnewyork.com/ ). It’s always great to get to know better the folks in Ant’s life… and though we’ve had wonderful times together before this trip she took to see us, Manivone and I – for sure – bonded on this trip inside our Scorpio synergy. She is inside of a WHAT’S NEXT that may bring her to the east coast one day soon. As the Christmas trees outline the sidewalks of Manhattan, we all know that the holiday is over. With that (and with no firm sense of our futures), we – including my Morehouse brother Khalid - went to see the horror flick “One Missed Call”, remake of a Japanese film in which each victim receivs chilling phone calls apparently from themselves in the future, showing the exact time of their deaths. (www. onemissedcallmovie.warnerbros.com/ ). I love scary movies, but we probably should have rolled over this ‘… missed call… ‘. Still, we all had a good time – especially when it was over and I received this ‘missed call’ in front of the movie poster.

Oh! And I almost forgot to shout out my Ti-Ti (Itika), the newest reporter for a web- based show on NBC5 Chicago called Nudehippo.tv (www.Nudehippo.tv). Here, she reports on a “Yoga/Wine” class (http://www.nbc5.com/nudehippo/motionbox.html?dest=%2Fembed%2Fbasic_player%2F1c96d0b61210e792%3Fgroup_name%3DNBC5). She’s on her way!!!!