A DAY IN "THE LIFE OF RILEY"

I'm missing home something terrible but looking at these pix means I'm making the best of it!

Still, 'success is nothing without someone you love to share it with'! LOL! Though just a text or quick call away, the time zones between Ant and me - coupled with our respective attachment to keeping our individual selves entertained without the other in tow (sometimes at the expense of what's sensible) - have made it a challenge (at best). I'm not a fan of being without Ant. And I'm not a fan of being alone. That said, being alone has allowed me to put things in perspective and work through some of the feelings that lie beneath the loneliness.

But back to making the best of it: My L.A. friends say 'only you would come to town and have us at the Egyptian Theatre to see 'Mahogany'. Most of them had never set foot in the Hollywood landmark'. THANKS GUYS (and GALS) - including my Tanika Ray of EXTRA fame.My Theo was in town from New York - so he had to be there given when we first met at now-closed Day-O, our mutual friend Erich told him I was a big Diana Ross fan... and Theo asked me to recite lines from "Mahogany" that he wrote on the paper table tops, tore off, and took home. LOL! Talk about a full-circle moment.

There was also my Ed who has worked with the diva and many divas over the years.

And Curtis who is "the other" #1 Diana Ross fan. And Walter - Curtis' brother - who I'd never met before but he told me he was a fan of the blog. As his brother Curtis introduced us, he assured he already knew who I was and always wanted to meet me. Well, now we've met. And thank you, Walter, for reading "A Day in the Life of Riley: Pop Culture & Possibilities". Curtis will be hosting a Diana Ross-themed party (in my honor) during Labor Day weekend when Ant comes to town. We'll party alongside rare Ross footage. ALL ABOUT LOVE! 

Theo brought his good girlfriend Victoria who brought her good girlfriends - including Ms. Lana. I even won the "Mahogany" prize as the promoters had some folks come up and answer some trivia and work the runway.

Though the bag said GUCCI, its contents were not. But there was "Mahogany" cake. Still, fun... and of course, I took the time to buy a toothbrush and spruce up my Diana's Star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame - right in front of the Egyptian Theatre. Afterwards, "Eyebrow King" Damone Roberts - another Ross fan -  and his partner Ramon - joined us at The Abbey for some nourishment ----- all of this juxtaposed to me --- three hours prior --- crying in my L.A. hotel room  as Oxygen rolled out "Bodyguard" for the 500th time. Surely my tears were from loneliness and homesickness ("Bodyguard" isn't one of my fav films like "Mahogany" but I'd always wished Ross had taken the part when it was offered to her after "The Wiz").

It hasn't all been lonely and blue. From the pool party that Javier and I attended when I first got into town, I met a cool dude named Delandis (www.delandisworld.com). He happened to have a business meeting in the studio where I'm working. We stumbled into each other and decided to have lunch. Aroma on Sunset was our spot... and we caught up on all the great things he's doing - including pitching a kids show starring HIM.Ant and I saw him a couple of years ago (but didn't know it) as he was in the Chicago company of "Wicked". Delandis - who is celebrating a birthday in a few days - also got me out my hotel room last night. The Abbey - again - was the spot. It was good to be out but I'm really missing NYC and Ant (who says he just bought me a new digitial camera [DISPOSABLES no more! LOL!] and can come to L.A. Labor Day Weekend. Ern is coming too). And Theo kept me entertained while he was here in town. He hosted a night of Mexican at El Coyote where he reconnected me to his Victoria (Ant and I got to meet her when we were last in L. A.). Then, she brought Lana and others into the mix. 

 

Plus, my PMAMA  (Marlene), who I know from a listserv of which she and I are members, came and we got to meet in person for the first time.

My other dear friend Zabrina came by and we enjoyed a cocktail before she took me to meet up with our girl Tosha Whitten-Griggs (and her sister) for a party at The Roxy. Zabrina is doing publicity for BET which is the home of a couple of my latest projects "Frankie & Neffe" and "Monica: Still Standing".On one night, my buddy Javier scooped me up for a quick drink. A few more cocktails later (coupled with karaoke in WeHo), I'm excited to report that - after shutting them down in NYC, Burbank, Manila, Chicago, Atlanta, and some other locales I may be forgetting - my Maxwell's "This Woman's Work" is now a hit in West Hollywood. LOL! Next stop: a karaoke dive bar near you! LMAO!

And Sid - always a joy - has been giving of her time generously - to 'babysit' me when I am over being in my hotel room alone... and can't remix the four walls around me any other kind of way. One night, we went to the home of a friend of hers. I stumbled into some actors whose work I admire - including Terrell Tilford (http://www.terrelltilford.yuku.com/) and Noah's Arc's Chase, Doug Spearman. It was such the intimate affair, I got shy to ask for photo ops but did get to chat each of them up a little. And they are both the nicest guys! Very warm! My L.A. buddy Javier popped by after his fashion show. The following day, Sidra and I enjoyed a bite at L.A. LIVEs "The Farm" as we needed to debrief all the fun we had the night prior. Thanks Sid - for a great time! (I considered going to the Sunset Junction Street Fair - featuring performances by Supremes' Mary Wilson, Motown artist/"Lady Sings The Blues" co-screen writer Chris Clark, and others). The L.A. Times did a story on Clark that reminded me what a compelling way she managed to weave her talents throughout Motown (as a white woman) during some of the label/movie company's integral moments  (www.chrisclarkinc.com).

Meanwhile, work is good. Post-production on the "Monica" project is going well.

My other long-standing clients have even been calling and though I've not been able to squeeze in any of their requests for my services (due to demands of my current schedule), it's good to know the calls are coming and will hopefully be coming when this current project wraps (or whenever I can squeeze a day or two into the mix. I'm all about a WIN-WIN!).

And I've also taken on a couple of quick turn-around assignments for 'ESSENCE' and 'Spelman College'. Stay tuned on those particulars when closer to roll-out. Though my project for 'ESSENCE' is for the November 2009 issue (details later), I - unrelated to this assignment - 'heard' (on the street. SMILE!) that my Miss Ross, her oldest daughter (with Berry Gordy) Rhonda, Rhonda's new baby boy (Miss Ross' first grandchild), and others in the Ross clan are supposed to pose for 'ESSENCE' cameras sometime soon. Will be great to see those shots as it was to see cover models, Miss Ross and Tracee Ellis Ross, a few years ago, on the iconic magazine's cover and inside the issue.
So, deadlines, premieres, and post-production... OH MY!... are on the horizon. There is still the uphill battle of managing the economics (especially as I have to pay for room/transportation in order to work out here on the West Coast). But things are improving... and it's all par for the course. Even when things show up a challenge, I continue to acknowledge that I AM BLESSED... and in the words of Langston Hughes, "Life is fine... Fine as wine... life is fine...".

Oh! If I could be two (or even more) places at one time. Or if I could just be present with what is and where I am – in the moment. Instead, I’m managing my five weeks in ATL while looking ahead feverishly to where I’ll lay my head for low-or-no cost while in L.A. on an assignment through October. But there are two welcome short spells in NYC – one work-related; and one slight hiatus [READ: just enough time to switch out my drawers] before I hit Tampa for a week (NABJ Convention - www.nabj.org) followed by that aforementioned two months in L.A. And notwithstanding a couple of beloved sponsors (and the payroll that will only roll out week-by-week and has me catching up on arrears), I have to ensure I can bankroll travel and hotel incidentals; meals; and the many bills before me. WHEW!!!! HEADY and WEIGHTY stuff... and - TRUTH BE TOLD - it feels OVERWHELMING sometimes. But unlike the Whitney of the past on which current Whitney reflects, "I (DO) know my own strength!!!!" And I will make it through. [Heard Nippy's new one, by the way? www.youtube.com/watch?v=2u9INHSQ6mQ].

Oh! And inside all of that, Ant and I must maintain as best a connection/communication as possible with our mutually demanding, respective schedules – especially my around-the-clock demands - that make catch-up time virtually impossible. Some days are better than others for me when we can't speak. Other times, I wile out from the loneliness and the distance. And though he's less a complainer and more apt to just accept it as it is (in those moments) than I am, I know it's rough for him too. But we will get it in – hopefully with several visits in whichever aforementioned location. ACCEPTING ALL PRAYER, MY PEEPS because it is ALL MORE THAN A NOTION!!!!! And I know you understand for whatever your challenges may be. But I had to get that off my chest. THANKS FOR LISTENING...

SO, since touching down in Atlanta, I have hit the ground running with my latest project (which like my first ATL project will premiere on BET – the former August 25^th; the latter October 27^th) – Details later when I can actually talk about it. But it's reality TV - a new frontier for me!!!! Long shooting days have kept me creatively and physically busy – even exhausted, but grateful for a meantime revenue stream. And Ant has been working mad hours in NYC as “The Wendy Williams Show” (www.wendyshow.com/) has finally premiered on FOX affiliates nationwide (and BET). Her first guest was our Vanessa Williams (www.vanessawilliams.com/) whose mother "Gaga" (Helen) is likely the show's biggest fan (Loves her some Ant too).

(Too, Ant’s been hitting some hot sets and holding it down on our behalf – including the 20^th Anniversary of “Do The Right Thing” screening and after party - www.amazon.com/Do-Right-Thing...Anniversary/.../B0024EWP6W) as well as a screening of independent film “Ink”, a spiritual thriller about the power of destiny that some of his Denver folks produced.

My home away from home – this go around – is (again) the TWELVE Hotel in Atlantic Station (www.TwelveHotels.com). My neighbors happen to be the cast of Tyler Perry’s “Why Did I Get Married 2?” (www.tylerperry.com). Well, at least some of them are staying here. Hot off of seeing and hanging out with her twin sister Sidra in L.A., I stumbled into Tasha Smith with whom Ant and I hung out at the premiere of the original flick. Malik Yoba is in the house as well as Sharon Leal. When we checked in, Janet Jackson was – of course – with her family in L.A. (and may I say what a wonderful send-off to Michael Jackson at his memorial. So touching! Such honor! So much LOVE!). I was also excited to find that my college buddy Danni was staying here as she was working on one of BET’s new game shows “Pay It Off” which my friend Kim Coles is hosting (www.bet.com). And her now-grown daughter Le-Le is now married and was visiting Danni in Atlanta along with her husband Jason and another dear friend. It’s been 14 years since I’ve seen Danni and Le-Le. What a great reunion that was!!!

I also got to spend time with my “Original Amazing Grace”, best friend Natalie who is a very busy career woman/mother/wife. But she took some time to take me to my favorite restaurant Houston’s (www.hillstone.com). Another time she came and rescued me from a fast-moving depression and talked me lovingly through some challenges. And my Nichole, who is again here in Atlanta with me for this leg, came out to say HI. Of course, I had to capture it.

And though I missed Beyonce this go around as scheduling didn’t allow (though tickets came through), Ant and I will always have Manila where she serenaded me Happy Birthday! I too had to miss “The Wiz” with my friend LaChanze but Ant and our friends Ern, Patrice, Keron, and Kimberly went… and had a blast I hear. Of course, “The Wiz” has been on everyone’s minds with the passing of Michael Jackson. I can’t stop playing this clip of MJ and DR on her 1981 special: www.youtube.com/watch?v=3BfvzaSxkSY. In fact, while at soul food joint “Mrs. Bs on 4^th” in Birmingham (on a day shoot), I stumbled into a little boy named Tarek who insists he is the next Michael Jackson who some years ago told the boy how talented he was.

Speaking of Diana (Aren’t I always? LOL!): Remember “American Idol” Taylor Hicks? Well, he’s remade a song my Diana recorded on her 1991 “Force Behind The Power” CD. Diana’s “Battlefield” (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IRRIztNC). Taylor’s “I Live On a Battlefield” (www.youtube.com/watch?v=hMkEhvnVo4Y).

The sounds of Diana Ross (some remixes from the aforementioned project) and Jennifer Holliday were piping through the speakers at “Real Housewives of Atlanta” star Dwight’s home for the 4^th of July. My friend Lamoh invited me to join him for the festive celebration. (I know Dwight via my ‘platonic boo’ Carl Nelson). Dwight was ever the gracious host – piling me a plate to go plus a bottle of wine. Truly a class act all around, I look forward to seeing the new season of the show. Afterwards, Lamoh and I hit a set in Douglasville. Another night, we hung out at Tapas Restaurant Eros (www.erostapas.com), which turns into quite the disco scene. We also did a stint at “Harlem Bar” (www.harlembaratlanta.com).

You recall, my friend Greg and I met with Ryan of designer firm Hugh Simms (www.hughsimms.com). Well, I sported the “Gentlemen Johnny” for a Sunday at the Intercontinental Buckhead (www.ichotelsgroup.com). Well, you can now find these looks in high-end department store Segal’s (www.fredsegal.com).

As small world’s go, remember I mentioned how Ant is booking opera burlesque diva “Black Betty” at The Velvet Lounge in Williamsburg, Brooklyn (www.velvetbrooklyn.com/). Well, it turns out an audio guy and friend with whom I work sometimes, Khalif, is her longtime friend and manager. Khalif is here in Atlanta where we uncovered this small-world tidbit.  Meanwhile, my Morehouse brother and friend Khalid is in town on business and we’ve had the chance to hang out a little. He’s here cutting some deals for a couple of animation projects. And he was featured in an image on the cover of a recent issue of Black MBA Magazine (www.blackmbaonline.com/).

And I attended V103’s Car & Bike Show (www.v-103.com/) which featured many and plenty from Atlanta’s entertainment scene – including The Dream, Christina Milian, Bustah Rhymes, Chilli, ‘Housewives’ Kandi & Sheree, Outkast’s Big Boi, and ‘the legendary’ Miss Sophia - the only one with whom I got a picture as I was working and staying focused. But my colleague Steve insisted I get this one.

My assignment here wraps July 29^th at which time I will return to NYC for a week before heading to Tampa, then L.A. for two months. But this weekend, I am scheduled to hit NYC for a couple of days (on assignment). Will be great to take in The Big Apple (and see Ant), if only for a night or two. Reminds me of this night in the mid-90s when my college mates Z, Cassandra, and I were getting our feet wet in New York City (along with this fabulous shirt that I must find and remix: It's vintage now! LOL!).

He's on his way 
He's goin' to Hollywood 
He's bussin' it to Hollywood

Before I left New York for my summer away from home, Ant, Ern, Tina, my nephew Noot, and I got to celebrate my Tata and Jules with their respective families and friends. Marriage and matrimony are on their minds and hearts and this day underscored the love they have for each other and that we all have for them. And for what each of Tata's and my respective challenges have been in life and love (the constant being our support of each other), it aches my heart that I can't be a witness to their bond at their wedding ceremony in St. Lucia this summer (READ: economics and work-related conflict), but it warms my heart that Ant and I could attend their shower and that I could demonstrate my LOVE for Tata and now Jules, one of Ant's and my favorite couples. Plus, Ant was instrumental in how Tata came to land on her man. And Tata was instrumental in how I landed on mine. This occasion also shed light on the reality that Tata and I have been in each others’ lives for 14 years and though we don’t see each others’ families often, they are also such a part of our stories and life developments. So, seeing these folks, too, made me happy. And apparently they were happy to see me (and meet Ant and Noot to whom Tata has been a support as well. In fact, Tata, Ant, and Ern are keeping an eye on Noot as he 'stays with Ant and me' over the summer while I am on the road. But that's what FAMILY does.). CONGRATS TATA & JULES!

Show him the way 
He's movin' to Hollywood 
He's hoppin' it to Hollywood 

Well, I’ve been here in L.A. for the last few weeks. And though an adjustment off the top (given I was here to work but couldn’t afford to rent a car nor retain any of the accoutrement to which I am typically accustomed as I have to wait for the wages to come), I am living proof that if you take one step, GOD will take two (or 2,000 even).And with the help of his many ANGELS, all has been not only good for me… but also good for Ant who joined me for a chunk of my time in L.A.As we both are on the eve of things picking up financially, our “village” of generous and loving people helped us to get a vacation (albeit work-related) via not-so-shabby accommodations. My home away from home was The Crescent in Beverly Hills (www.crescentbh.com) - a stone’s throw from Rodeo Drive and Beverly Drive where Ant stumbled into Britney’s sister Jamie Lynn Spears and their mother.

(where you goin' child?) 

(where you goin' now) 

Many of my friends are working so hard, we didn’t get a chance to see each other. Clearly, Shaun Robinson (of “Access Hollywood” fame – www.shaunrobinson.com) is busy as she too was filling in for Meredith Vierra on “Who Wants To Be A Millionaire?” (www.millionairetv.com). GREAT JOB, SHAUN!And in that same genre, my girlfriend Kim Coles was en route to Atlanta to perhaps be the first African American Female game show host on new BET show “Pay It Off”. GO KIM! Meanwhile, my Morehouse brother Charles Reese was busy introducing  "WHO...", an original web comedy series (WWW.AJAKWETV.COM).  The creator, writer, director and producer of AJAKWETV and Emmy Award Winner, Michael Ajakwe ("Soul Food" Sister, Sister" "Martin")  also provides a pro-active new web-programming model . This site also gives you a taste of pop culture humor, eclectic music coupled with some poetry/spoken word among other things. And in addition to being a member of this cast, Charles is managing bookings for The James Baldwin Project for the 2009-10 season and beyond. (lectures, full production, staged-reading & special programming). Visit www.seanohalloran.com/baldwinpage.html  as this season marks Baldwin's 85th Birthday Celebration. As JB said, "You don't tell life, life tells you."And I came close to cocktails at my hotel with my "Amazing Grace" Nichole's 'girlfriend' Mara Brock Akil (creator of "Girlfriends" and "The Game") but she had to postpone me - understandably - for a meet-and-greet with the star of the upcoming project on which she will be working.Let's just say it's another girl-"friend" and I'll tell more when I can. SMILE! But she and I are poised to catch up - if not this time, on my 2nd L.A. leg in August.

He's waited at bus stops all his life 
He's been in and out of those spaces 

But for those I didn’t see, there are many I did. My good girlfriend Sidra Smith – a film director/producer/acting coach (in her own right – www.gatepassentertainment.com) – has truly been showing me a good time. Also, Ant’s and my buddies Scott (from Sheryl Lee Ralph’s camp) and his partner Tony showed up as the hosts with the most. Amidst their busy lives, they not only welcomed me into their mix but Ant when he got here… and offered up their friends including Ed Roebuck and Tony’s brother Carlton as supportive fun for our outings. Oh! And Tony baked an amazing pound cake which provided the comforts of home. Much needed in this here - to me sometimes lonely - L.A.

Seein' eyes that spoke to him 
From sad and gifted places 
Sad and gifted places 

From when I dropped my bags off in my hotel room, Sidra was there. On our first night out, we hung out at the Abbey (www.abbeyfoodandbar.com), what would become a watering hole amidst my time here in L.A. USA Today’s Kelley Carter (www.usatoday.com), my NABJ sister (www.nabj.org) took me out for ‘a taste of Argentina’ at LALAs (www.lalasgrill.com).

You know he's gonna be dressed to kill 
He's gonna find some brand new thrills  

On another night, Sidra took me out to Downtown Los Angeles’ Artwalk (www.downtownartwalk.com) - including my reunion with Morehouse brother David Reddick – now known inside his artistry (singing, songwriting, painting, etc.) as Reddick.  Too, I met Sid’s friend Rorie, Co-Founder of “Standing-n-Truth: Empowering Lives To Make A Differeence” (www.standntruth.org). He’s got a film documentary that explores Sexuality and AIDS that he screened one night at Sidra’s place where old friend Miriam and author/actor Stanley Bennett Clay attended (http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2007/6/20/and-you-too-wilona-looker.html). Sheryl Lee Ralph is featured in it (www.sherylleeralph.com).She – by the way – is poised to co-star in a musical staging of “First Wives Club”. It is en route to Broadway but first stop: San Diego’s Old Globe Theatre (www.oldglobe.org). Will be great to see Sheryl back on The Great White Way - bedazzling it as she did in "Dreamgirls" and - most recently - "Thoroughly Modern Millie".
Prior to the Artwalk, Sid took us to the beautiful penthouse of cinematographer/director Christopher Lee Warren who assembled an eclectic party of Hollywood players including his Academy-award-winning father Gene Warren (Visual Special Effects for “Terminator 2” – www.fantasyii.com). Also: We went to the Crocker Club (www.thecrockerclub.com)on this night which is decked out in the vault of an old bank building. Tres chic!

Whatever he's been looking for 
Tell him that there's so much more 
In Hollywood, Hollywood 

Then, on the night that Ant got here, Sidra took he, Tony, Scott, and me to a party at HERE (www.herelounge.com) to promote her friend Logan Alexander’s project (www.DYKEOTOMY.com) - a coffee table book, a reality TV series in development, and a conversation challenging gender lines.Logan really photographed some compelling portraiture of lesbians who each show up with a "butch" look (likely something closer to their everyday persona) and "femme" (a glamorous, feline approach to their aesthetic).I was excited to bump into my NYC stylist friend Phillip Bloch (www.phillipbloch.com). We're used to seeing each other and hanging out on the East Coast. As I'm such a big fan of anything "Noah's Arc", imagine my excitement to see Darryl Stephens, Noah from “Noah’s Arc” (www.myspace.com/darrylstephens).And we got to hang out with Vanessa Williams (of “Soul Food: The Series” fame). She is Sid's friend and ever-the-sweetie – sharing the astrological sign of Taurus with my Ant. Afterwards, we all grabbed a bite at Bossa Nova (www.bosssafood.com) before hitting up a house music set called “Dirty”  at Akbar (www.akbarsilverlake.com) where we hung out – for a minute – with singer extraordinaire Rahsaan Patterson (www.rahsaan.com). Ant has been a fan since his KIDS Incorporated days... and I just LOVE HIS VOICE! And my new DIANA ROSS FAN BFF Curtis was also in the house and has been serenading me via voice mail with rare ROSS treats all week - from a BBC radio special she hosted a few years back in which she plays music from the '50s to the new millennium and comments on her idols, her contemporaries, and the new artists out today - from pop, soul, and hip hop. I knew about it, had heard excerpts, but never heard the whole thing as he - over 30 messages or so - generously shared. FRIEND TO FRIEND, CURTIS!

 Painted faces, sunburnt skin 

Fixed expressions, smiles worn thin 

On a random day in Hollywood, I stumbled into “Roscoe’s Chicken & Waffles” (www.roscoeschickenandwaffles.com). It was so good that it inspired a return visit with my college mate Everett Oliver who I’d not seen in 17 years. He is an International Voice-Over Talent Liaison – inclusive of the Animation industry to which he’s served – from “The Simpsons” to “King of the Hill” for the last ten years and more.  And our friend Theo happened into town alongside Ant and me. Ant got to hang out with Theo and Theo’s college friend Victoria who I got to meet at “Jack & Jills” in Beverly Hills (www.eatatjacknjills.com). She’s an aesthetician at world-renowned Anastacia (www.anastasia.net). We also ran into Ramon, partner of "The Eyebrow King" Damone Roberts (www.damoneroberts.com/). GOT BROWS?

 Caught in the blink of neon of Hollywood 

Bending battles, maneuvering schemes 

Then, for L.A. Pride (www.lapride.org): Ant, the fellas, and I enjoyed a fab performance by Deborah Cox – featuring Shep Crawford on the keyboards (www.deborahcox.com). She was in GREAT VOICE but leaned heavily on the tracks of her techno-versions for which the kids live (10 #1s to boot). Though Shep Crawford was present to flesh out tracks and a tempo intros on keyboards, wish she’d had full-out band that Fantasia had. MISS FANTASIA's band, set, and performance were on FIRE – as always. (One distinction is – this time – Fantasia has begun to let her stylists work their magic on her now head-to-toe, presentable self… as evidenced by some of her latest promo shots that will – in excerpt – be featured on her upcoming CD project.  Atlanta-based Derek Blanks did these shots: www.dblanks.com). And again: she sang for the GODS!!!!!!! After the show, her manager Brian invited us to be an intimate audience with Fantasia at the Sofitel Beverly Hills (www.sofitel.com) where were it not for our personal invite from Brian, we might have skipped this spot as the ‘velvet ropers’ were not kind. But one or two monkeys don’t stop no show. Fantasia sang R. Kelly's 'Step In The Name of Love" to me as she danced playfully with me. What fun and excitement as Fantasia is MY FAVORITE IDOL though I LOVE Ruben, Kelly, Jordan, and Carrie as well. She's preparing to go on the road as Celie for 'The Color Purple' as she films a VH1 reality show and puts the finishing touches on her upcoming CD including production from Missy, Babyface, etc. (www.fantasiabarrinoofficial.com). Comedian Luenell - who too made an appearance at LA PRIDE - is a HOOT OF A LADY!!!!!! LOL! She hung with us at Fantasia's after set and told me she's doing HBO screen test next week for show in which she'd play sisters w/Loretta Devine and Kim Whitley - a combo that at one time or another included Anna Marie Horsford in the proposed cast.

False expressions, washed up dreams 
Everybody makes believe 
In Hollywood, Hollywood  

We also got to see Ant’s childhood/high school friend Paul who lives in Venice Beach (and whose mother knows post-Diana Supreme Lynda Laurence who toured with Miss Ross  (left of Diana) during her “Return to Love” tour in 2000.Paul is a Director of Photography himself from the reality TV world ("I Wanna Work for Diddy", "Kitchen Nightmares", "Baldwin Hills", etc.) and was such a host for us. He took us to one spot in Santa Monica called “Dakota” (www.dakotalounge.com). We also got to hang out with Ant’s friend Crystal – including L.A. Laker-watch. She too was a gracious host who made sure we had a good time during Ant’s and my stay here – including a drive by “Bar Copa” in Santa Monica.

(oh child what'cha doin'?) 
(what'cha doin' now?) 
(what'cha been' doin'?)

I got the opportunity to meet the Judge Mablean Ephriam, aunt of L.A. native Morehouse brother Mario (my NYC buddy who has been a 'saving grace' through much of my struggles of late - from providing me temp work to paying me an allowance to help me make it through some of the rough weeks to just being there - for Ant and me.). He came to town (his hometown of L.A.) and went even a step further in loyalty and friendship to invite me to join him at the former Divorce Court judge’s Father’s Day brunch (www.mableanephriamfoundation.com) featuring a host of my favorites from BLACK HOLLYWOOD - including his aunt - who I've ALWAYS wanted the privilege to meet. Now, keep in mind, I have met and interviewed many in my career. But I've not had the chance to meet ALL of my true inspirations. Many of them were in the house on this day... and VOILA: ANOTHER POP CULTURE FIESTA for me!!!! Including the aforementioned, also in the mix: Loretta Devine (of “Dreamgirls” and “Waiting To Exhale” fame; She sang Mariah Carey’s “Hero”). I did get the chance to interview Loretta in L.A. about 10 years ago at the Four Seasons for a BET Weekend Magazine cover story that I wrote; Anna Marie Horsford (“Amen”); comedian Michael Colyer; the amazing Gospel vocals of Tramaine Hawkins - Mario's favorite; Mother Love (“Forgive or Forget”) with whom my other Morehouse bestie Michael K. Watts used to work. She sent a big hug his way!; and one of my LEGENDS: Ja’net Dubois (www.janetdubois.com) who in addition to being an awesome actress (most-renowned as The Evans’ neighbor Wilona and Penny’s mama a la Janet Jackson, but is also now known as an artist).
She and her daughter were so kind to me and asked to stay in touch.Kiki Shepherd, Ron Glass, Tyresa, Kelly Price, and others were also in the house. Coupled with watching the first two installments of the new TV One “Unsung”s (www.tvoneonline.com/shows/show.asp?sid=902): Minnie Ripperton and Melba Moore, my time here in L.A. has truly been an awesome backdrop for “Black Hollywood”.
 Also, after 19 years or so, I got the chance to meet Mario’s whole family – from mom and dad(s) who were all so cool and rounded out Mario and how he came to be the awesome guy he is.Also, I met many of his other family members - including creative cousins like Darlene (www.blaqiyce.biz) and I got to see Mablean Ephriam’s daughter Tajs – a writer and filmmaker in her own right.

He's on his way 

He's goin' to Hollywood 

He's bussin' it to Hollywood 

After Ant left, Tony took care of me as Scott was out of town himself. We hung out with our friends. We dined at “Home” (www.homelosfeliz.com). We did runs at Target and Trader Joe.  Ed and I went to “Catch One” to see the drag show (www.myspace.com/jewelscatchone). Also: the BET Awards (www.bet.net) are getting ready to happen as I leave town for Atlanta on a 2^nd five-week Atlanta assignment. I got an invite but could only honor a couple of the pre-awards events. And multi-media journalist Herndon Davis popped by to say HI (www.herndondavis.com). He’s always working on cool projects – including publicity for E. Lynn Harris who has a current book out, "Basketball Jones" and an upcoming project in October "Mama Dearest".And remember I mentioned my buddy Anthony Hill who was in Atlanta working on the staff of Tyler Perry's "Meet The Browns" for a short window - staying at the same hotel (www.TwelveHotels.com) at which my colleagues and I were staying during my first 5-week run in Atlanta (He was on the residential side).

 Well, he's back in L.A. and is now the head writer on a new show. He invited me out to "Michael's" (www.michaelsonolive.com) in Burbank for cocktails and karaoke. Anthony is now the head writer on Tyler Perry's "Meet The Browns" (www.tbs.com/shows/meetthebrowns) and all of his L.A. friends - and now Greg and me - came out to celebrate him before he returns to Atlanta to write his new episodes (and of course, he and I will be hanging in the lobby again as I will be back in Atlanta myself for five weeks). Since karaoke was the order of the day, clearly Michael Jackson was on everyone's mind and catalog choices - including me ("I'll Be There" and my first time doing "Never Can Say Goodbye" - ALL FOR MICHAEL - in addition to my staple "This Woman's Work" - all of which were well received). Anthony asked me to join him (and another friend of his) on Billy Joel's "For The Longest Time". Another sweet and talented lady, Pam, requested my best 'Luther' to her "Cheryl Lynn" on "If This World Were Mine". We rocked the house! But the spirit of Michael closed the night out as all joined hands on stage in a love-fest homage a la MJ: "We Are The World". Though karaoke represents levity and joy (and - for some - lots of alcohol. SMILE!), emotions ran deep all around as the reality of his passing truly hit home. But what a legacy he's left behind! CONGRATS, ANTHONY HILL. See you back in ATL.

Show him the way 
He's movin' to Hollywood 
He's hoppin' it to Hollywood

Also: Miss Aretha Franklin is in town and performed at the Hollywood Bowl. Since my Detroit friends Earline Franklin and Greg Dunmore were in town, I got the chance to see “The Queen” – first time since March (http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2009/3/26/people-say-im-the-life-of-the-party.html). But this time, she performed a brilliant set.Greg, Ron, and I enjoyed the show together. And Ed was there too.  Then, she hosted an after set at The Peninsula (www.peninsula.com). Halle Berry; Courtney Vance and Angela Bassett; Billy Dee Williams; DIVA expert David Nathan; Jesse Jackson; Seal; Loretta Devine; and Temptations' lead singer (on "Treat Her Like A Lady") Ollie Wilson came out to hail the queen. Millie Scott (my Ed's sister) and Fonzi Thornton - both background singers known for their solo works as well - backed up Aretha with their sweet melodies. 

Aretha's set:
* Your Love Keeps Lifting Me Higher
* Baby I Love You
* Think
* Ain't Nothing Like The Real Thing (slow groove version - referencin Billy Dee Williams)
* Respect
* Angel
* Chain of Fools
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* Today I Sing The Blues
* Don't Play That Song
Quote: "Did I dare to wear my tightest gown? And still... <placing hands on hips beneath full-length white fur to reveal black sequinned # with mermaidtail>... Can I get an AMEN?"
* We Never Said Goodbye(from "Sunset Boulevard") 
On final lyric of aforementioned song, she did a schtick to Prez Obama: "...you're teaching the world a new way to be..." (MR. PRESIDENT!!! <Panting suggestively> Well, the brother is fine. I know he's married. Hi Michelle... <Audience roared>)
SHOUT OUT: Jesse Jackson
* I Never Loved A Man The Way That I Love You
* "Let's Go Back To The Ol' Landmark" (from 'Amazing Grace' w/choir)
* "Ain't No Way"
SHOUT OUT: Jesse Jackson's son Yusef. Aretha points out that Jesse was in town to be of comfort to Michael Jackson's family. "We want to take a moment in remembrance of a musical genius. A very kind and gentle young man. We thank you Michael for never giving less than 100%. And we want to take a moment (of silence) for brother Michael....<silence>.Thank you Lord for taking Michael to a higher place."
ARETHA AT PIANO
Playing: 
* "HAPPY" - instrumental from "Lady Sings The Blues" (Smokey Robinson composition) as she introduces Billy Dee Williams (consummate actor and painter).
Still @ Piano:
* "MY HEART IS BREAKING" a song from new album "A WOMAN FALLING OUT OF LOVE" coming out in September)
SHOUT OUT: GREG MATHIS
* FINALE: "Freeway of Love"
ENCORE: <sporting her Inauguration hat>:
SHOUT OUT: Halle Berry who came on stage ("Somewhere between Halle Berry and Jennifer Hudson playing me in my autobiography. Should it be Halle Berry? <Audience screams!!!!> Jennifer Hudson <AUdience screams as much!!!!> Fantasia <Audience less enthusiastic>...." )
SHOUT OUT: Angela Bassett
* "GREATEST LOVE OF ALL"

GOOD SHOW!!!!!

Then, the after party at The Peninsula had everybody dancing and dining until the late hour. I told Aretha her show was 'perfection' except that she didn't sing "Jump To It". The DJ made up for it by playing it at the after set and the dancefloor was filled with folks fondly remembering one of her big '80s hits (produced by Luther Vandross). Also, I hipped her that I was the one that screamed out "Happy" from "Lady Sings The Blues" after she asked the audience if they recognized the melody she was playing on the piano. From the stage, Re said "Where did we get you from?" She laughed when I told her it was me and then introduced me to Billy Dee Williams who I interviewed a few years ago in Santa Barbara, but this is my first time getting a photo op. Truly a highlight! And after that my NABJ friend Brian and some of his friends popped by and took me out for another few hours - making this particular night quite the marathon.  Though we love to hang out with the A-list set, Greg and I enjoy the low-maintenance side of life too - just hanging and - in my case - getting a ride for chewing and chatting amidst the week (We always seem to be in the same cities at the same time... and make sure to enjoy ourselves along the way - even if business is the main dish).  On the first night Greg was in town, he took me to Zeke’s on Santa Monica (for hush puppies, hot links, and Caesar salad. YUM!): www.zekessmokehouse.com. Also, we did a session at Roscoe's Chicken & Waffles... and on another night, we joined 'Entertainment's Finest' Earline Franklin; President & CEO of Push-It Online Newszine Bruce Knight (www.push-itnews.com); female doppelganger to Kirk Franklin (with a new CD coming out in September) Nicole Faithful Franklin; 'legendary' publicist Ron Carter; and my friend/producer/right-hand-to-many-a-diva (including my favorite) Ed Roebuck for good ol' diner food at "Mel's" (www.melsdrive-in.com). We too got the chance to enjoy a really quaint restaurant (recommended by Scott and Tony): Alcove Cafe & Bakery (www.alcovecafe.com) in their neck of the woods: Los Feliz. Great desserts (lemon coconut cake and peanut butter cookies) and savory dishes - like the tasty crab sandwich - were the order of the day. I even had a loving memory of my late, great mother as Greg and I dined at Marie Callenders (www.mariecallenders.com) - a favorite of hers when we lived in San Bernadino, California in the mid-to-late 70s while Dad was nearing the end of his 27-year Air Force career at Norton Air Force Base. The memory was blurry as to the actual significance of the restaurant, but my siblings corroborated that Marie Callender was - for sure - one of mom's favorite places to dine ("... and kids eat for free."). Meanwhile, Greg just completed a well-paced piece on Aretha Franklin making her first appearance at The Fox in Detroit. Check it out on his site www.PULSEBEAT.TV (http://pulsebeat.tv/review_3.html) and YOU TUBE (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gj_32OPp_34). Also, on one of our days in L.A., Greg joined me for a quick drink with Ryan McCarthy whose ties are taking retail by storm (www.hughsimms.com).  I like “Gentlemen Johnny” - one of his many selects. My Morehouse brother Justin introduced us via FACEBOOK and since my itinerary landed me in L.A., we decided to meet for a bit. And Greg and Ryan uncovered that they too have an alma mater in common: Cornell University - the last frontier of The Ivy League. Ryan enrolled us in his companies ties and assured us they aren't stopping at the neck. Look for cuff links and a number of men's and women's couture options on the horizon. 

He's on his way 
He's goin' to Hollywood 
He's bussin' it to Hollywood 

Before I leave, I will have attempted to attend one of the editors with whom I’m working, Steve Hall’s father’s book signing for his bio “Bronzeville Bootstraps” (www.bronzevillebootstraps.com). But if not, here’s the shout out. The book chronicles what it took for his father to be an entrepreneur in Chicago at a time when African Americans were struggling to simply be considered citizens of this nation. 

AND A FEW OTHER SHOUT OUTS:Back in New York City some months ago, my Atlanta buddy and Morehouse brother Tony Preston invited Ant and me to the recording studio as he was working with Ultra Nate (www.ultranate.com): http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2008/9/17/blue-thats-the-new-color-children.html. Well, the single is out: http://www.giantstep.net/releases/2354 And Preston is jet setting with his client Chris Willis whose house music is taking the world by storm (www.myspace.com/chriswillismusic).

ALSO: Just in time for the summer, Karen Bernod (www.karenbernod.com) has a new single “TOE RINGS ‘N’ ANKLE BRACELETS. It’s the first of four DIGITAL-ONLY singles she’s releasing in anticipation of her new album PLANTING SEEDS. The single is available on ITunes and CD Baby NOW and other digital stores.  And it’s not exactly new music, but Tony took me to the Amoeba Record Store in Hollywood (www.amoeba.com).

I spotted two remastered editions of my Diana Ross’ 2^nd and 3^rd solo albums: “Everything is Everything” and “Surrender” – chockfull of bonus material. Talk about HEAVEN!!!!! 

Also: VIBE MEDIA GROUP has launched new print and web properties: THE MOST! (www.THEMOSTmag.com). They cover the hottest and juiciest in urban celebrity style. SHOUT OUT to my girl Olivia over there! And though I had to miss it for me West Coast commitments, I want to send my buddy Sam Fine a CONGRATS for his new DVD (www.samfine.com).We just hung out at a fab set for Vanessa Williams before I left town, but I hear the party was FABULOUS!From Iman to Ant's boss Wendy Williams (www.wendywilliamstvshow.com)- even RUPAUL was in the house!

ATLANTA! HERE I COME! AND L.A.? UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN... in August!!!!

R.I.P. MICHAEL JACKSON. No words...

Ant and I have just returned from Detroit where we had the privilege of being guests of Ms. Aretha Franklin at her birthday party. The journey to get there wasn’t a logical one but a fun one. You see ‘what had happened was’: my friend Greg Dunmore about whom I write all the time is my friend and Co-Chair for the National Association of Black Journalists’ Arts & Entertainment Task Force (www.nabj.org). We’ve been friends for well over a decade now. And Greg knows everybody – including Ms. Franklin and many in her camp. Apparently, “The Queen of Soul” enjoyed seeing a novelty YOU TUBE act "Secret Trois" (www.myspace.com/secrettrois)/(www.youtube.com/user/SecretTrois)

on TYRA (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S26JGkjAUMQ) and wanted them booked for her show. Her folks got in touch with me to see if I could find them. I let my fingers do the talking via My Space and You Tube, and the next thing you know is I’m being asked to represent these three, beautiful, full-figured women as they work through contracts, set lists, travel, and other logistics to be able to give a command performance for ‘The Queen’. Shelia, the mother of one of the members Shenelle, was my partner for each step of this process. She helped us assess many things while the ladies practiced and practiced and practiced. They rehearsed really hard and thoroughly to ensure things would pop off something fabulous for Re (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7uuxQFEOzcc). A month would pass by quickly and it was time to head on to Motown, also the home of another undeniable diva, my Diana Ross, who too has a birthday in the neighborhood of Ms. Franklin (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9uuLpQgv7fU). But my sources tell me Miss Ross went the route of Blockbuster (by way of L.A.) to celebrate her special 65th birthday: http://www.thelifefiles.com/diana-ross-goes-to-blockbuster-video-on-her-birthday/.

On a snowy Friday morning, Ant accompanied me as I needed him to chronicle the weekend as he often does for the blog. Also, he worked closely with the audio guy on cues, fade outs, and reprises while I dealt with “Secret Trois” directly. Our limo driver Vincent picked us up and offered us his own ‘reflections’ of Detroit as he was born and bred. He says he went to school with The Enchantments (www.soulwalking.co.uk/Enchantment.html). His classmates were also the members of Dawn, Joyce Vincent Wilson and Telma Hopkins (as in Addy from “Gimme A Break” and Mona’s mother Phyllis from “Half & Half”) – both of whom sang behind Tony Orlando. Vincent says his Motown favorites are Marvin Gaye, The Temptations, and Smokey Robinson (who – with Berry Gordy – is coaching the “American Idol” (www.americanidol.com) cast. It's a “Motown 50” theme night (www.motown50.com/)). We absolutely LOVED our hotel, The Mariott Reinaissance (www.marriott.com) which soars 73 floors high, offering a view of the Detroit River which separates Detroit from Windsor, Canada.

We got the chance to meet “Secret Trois” and Shelia for the first time on this night, though we all felt like long-lost cousins since we’d been in touch non-stop via phone, texting, email, and all other modes of cyber-communication over the last month. From the Marriott’s lounge we got everything prepped for the big show the next day. The ladies – Shenelle, Brittany, and Ashley – were a total joy with which to work. They were sweet and humble; smart and insightful; fun and loving. And Shenelle’s mother Shelia was ‘the bomb’! We LOVED them. After we took some time to get to know them, I made sure the girls were going to get a good night’s rest while Greg alerted us we had one more stop to make before he, Ant, and I could call it a night.

One of Greg’s clients and friends, noted performance artist Ziam, wanted to show us all a good time. He's quite the social and artistic muse of Detroit's social scene. And one of the nicest guys you could ever meet. I blogged about him before and we’ve spoken on the phone via Greg many times as Ziam is my spiritual Diana Ross soul mate. He performs all over Detroit in high-concept shows that explore sexuality and glamour – always an electric mix of fashion, song and movement (http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2007/11/12/manifest-destiny-destination-manila.html). The spot is a loft space near which neo-soulster Dwele lives. Everyone was so nice and we enjoyed lovely buffet of food; flowing cocktails; and the best music. DJ Darryl proved himself a ‘house music’ genius as he rocked the best remixes of Miss Ross and her song architects Ashford & Simpson – including my favorite “The Boss” (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2D2L0SspO7s). And you must know that had Ziam, the many attendees, and me working that dance floor overtime!!! Say what you will about Detroit, but we were having a GREAT TIME so far!

Earlier, Greg had taken us to Royal Oak, Michigan to enjoy a Belgian-inspired bite at Bastone Brewery (www.bastone.net). And though Greg would offer up a well-lit tour of Detroit’s finest landmarks before our weekend wrapped, we did a bulletproof, drive-by version through Diana’s childhood home The Brewster Projects; Hitsville; Garden Court (which is supposed to be Martin’s apartment on the hit sitcom); WGPR (home of Shaun Robinson’s start in the TV business – www.shaunrobinson.com); and on and on and on. I LOVE DETROIT – and so does Ziam, though he joked when I told him we went through the Brewster Projects “Did you get cut while you were riding through the Brewster Projects?” he asked with a cheshire laugh.  Then, he finished his line: “Well, I hope you told them ‘If you must cut me, make it in a “D” – for “Diana”!!!!!’. Isn’t he a hoot? (Of course, I’d have been honored to be cut in an “A” for “Aretha” or “Q” for the “Queen” if cutting is at all necessary and inside of my reverence for that awesome diva!).

For rehearsal, the next day, the ladies were on time and ready to go through the paces to ensure their royal performance reigned supreme: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZ2385evPmY. We worked out their entrances and the pacing of their set (which was comprised of routines that they’d performed before and a new song that they put a routine together for Ms. Franklin). We figured out where we’d put their mic and the costumes that they’d be adding to the number they enter in. And the folks at Seldom Blues (www.seldomblues.com) – an elegantly appointed supper club in the Renaissance Center – were awesome and accommodating. Owner Frank Taylor was not only responsible for the delicious spread of steak, lobster, spinach, etc. on which we nibbled at Ms. Franklin’s party, but he also was responsible for some brunch that Greg, Ant, and I had at “Detroit’s Breakfast House & Grill” (www.detroitbreakfasthouse.net). Because of Greg, “Secret Trois” even got some press that I can’t wait to share with you at a later date. Greg and Joel produced a piece on them – giving the ladies their first experience with interviewing and talking points. Though they were on their own for the interview (notwithstanding a few coaching points I offered them), I did produce and script their set which included:

1. Dramatic entrance from stage left (They weren’t seen at all before they hit the stage)

2. “SECRET TROIS" is doing 1^st routine to an excerpted "Miss Independent” by Neyo (special request for Ms. Franklin)

3. ASHLEY banter (paraphrased): "Thank you so much! We are "SECRET TROIS". [She introduces the other ladies and herself by name]. Ms. Franklin, we are so happy that you saw us on THE TYRA BANKS SHOW. And we are even happier that you liked what you saw. Nothing against TYRA - nor MTV where we also did a little bit - but being here to perform for you, THE QUEEN OF SOUL, is - by far - SECRET TROIS' HIGHLIGHT – the icing on the cake!!!! (To The Audience) NOW, ARE THERE ANY SINGLE LADIES OUT THERE? WELL, PUT YOUR HANDS UP!!!!!!!!!!!!" (their cue for their now-famous “Single Ladies” routine)

4. "Single Ladies” - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7uuxQFEOzcc

5. "SECRET TROIS" receive their applause; quickly get their tutus and wrap them around their waists. ASHLEY picks up her banter: "Ms. Franklin! We're sure you can appreciate that we women here in SECRET TROIS are what some might call MODERN! We have our blackberries, our YOU TUBE channel, a MYSPACE page-per-lady (and one for the group). And don't forget FACEBOOK! But we appreciate something about you that we researched ---- through GOOGLE! It's that you have an appreciation for the classic artforms like OPERA and BALLET. Now, we won't sing an ARIA for you right now (We'll leave that to you!). But for our next and final routine, we will showcase our TUTUs as a shout out to you - OUR FAVORITE DIVA!!!!"

6. "SECRET TROIS" performs its final routine:"DIVA" BY BEYONCE - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=niEfEdvLWI0

7. Then, “Single Ladies” reprises as they leave the stage

We opted out of having them perform these numbers:

"CIRCUS" BY BRITNEY SPEARS - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2WEQe2IqYwg

"SHAKE TO THE GROUND" - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=47SGfpTXf1Y

Ms. Franklin had a smile on her face all up and through their performance. She was truly pleased... and though the girls were being critical of this flub and that trip (none of which I noticed), they were happy that it went over well... and even more happy that it was over. So, they went up to their respective rooms and got changed – so they could enjoy the party and receive their growing following. And Ant and I did the same. Greg and dear friend Earline who too was a key part of the planning escorted us through the room to meet Detroit's finest. Earline also kept me sane through this process (as I’ve never managed anybody nor myself – for that matter – before). I couldn't have done this without Earline's priceless advisement and expertise. It was nice to take in the room. Though we’d already had a nice time with Ms. Franklin, we took a moment to pose with her cake. Aretha commissioned not only a spotlight cake to be designed like the church hat she wore for Obama (a la Mr. Song Millnery - www.mrsongmillinery.com). But she also had mini-versions done as a guest-gift take-away. Too, there was a parade of cakes all decorated in a tribute to her family - including her son Kelf and grandson Jordan - both rappers. Lots of her local celebs were there to toast her - from Judge Mathis to Keith Washington... to MOTOWN legend Martha Reeves (who chirped an impromptu, a cappella Happy Birthday to Ms. Franklin a la her days at the helm of the legendary Vandellas). It was also great to see Greg's mom and star client Ms. Jo Thompson who is heading to New York City to perform her brilliant evening of song and piano. Fantasia was to actually sing it but her flight was delayed.  Kenny Lattimore and Raheim Devaughn serenaded The Queen in their respectively unique and soulful sounds. And another YOU TUBE sensation Iman who did his Obama impression (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-y1OOh6Ezjs) – twice. Luther Vandross' best friend Fonzi Thornton was in the room (wish he would have sung as well). Also there: songwriter/producer Michael Powell (known for work with Anita Baker and others); boxing champ Tommy Hearns (among many of his other colleagues from the ring); and comedian/actor Mike Epps who took some time to pose with the girls. The space featured a bright array of oversized floral centerpieces and a regal ice sculptor in front of which Ant and I did a photo-op. Also, Re commissioned a man-made beach with a crew of NYC models in swimwear - just sitting and standing pretty. "The Queen of Soul" was a gorgeous vision in a white, spaghetti strapped number that was fitted and cinched from bust to waist w/long train of white ostrich feathers. She actually looked nice and elegant. Speaking of elegance, Miss Maxine Powell attended. You'll recall, she headed up Motown's Artist Development - preparing the Motown roster to thrive on-and-offstage. She trained them all to know that they would turn the heads of kings and queens one day.  And of course, Greg wouldn’t let us just call it a night. Actually, Ant and I needed a snack for as plentiful as the buffet was, we weren’t able to hone in on a full meal for all of the work we were doing to ensure Secret Trois’ performance went off without a hitch. So, Como’s Pizzeria (www.buddyspizza.com) was our spot and – boy – was it packed! It set the night off just right!

On the next day, we got some quiet time with friend Earline at her beautiful home and a hometown breakfast at Clique (www.reviews.metroguide.com). (By the way, Earline’s daughter (Aretha’s niece) Crystal is getting ready to launch her own handbag line and a number of other creative wares. Please follow her at www.cfranks.com)). Greg also took Ant and me on our daylight tour of Motown. And I was like a kid in a candy store. We went to the Roostertail (www.roostertail.com/). It is a high-end supper club where Diana and the girls used to perform. Berry Gordy readied them for The Copa at spots like this (en route to New York City). Then, one of the first grand entrances Miss Ross has ever made was here at Cass Tech High School. Miss Ross was Best Dressed and a costume illustration major. Ross’ first press came from The Michigan Chronicle per Rita Griffin, legendary journalist that Greg and I had the privilege to honor as one of our NABJ A&E Task Force “Legacy Award” recipients. Also, for Ant, Greg took us to hang out with artist Tyree Guyton (www.tyreeguyton.com/) and (www.heidelberg.org/). His art is headquartered on a two-block lot. He has artfully turned abandoned houses and vacant lots into polka-dot landscapes, gaily painted faces on car hoods salvaged from scrap yards, brightly-colored, laced shoes suspending from tree branches, etc. It’s raw. It’s animated. It’s rough. It’s childlike. It’s beautiful. And we were thrilled to chat with him. Ant and he got to wax philosophical for a moment about art. Tyree said “Art is like having sex!!!” Well, he sure had my attention at that point. And at closer inspection to his metaphor, it landed. And Greg wouldn’t be Greg without a history lesson – so Hitsville wouldn’t do because I know everything there is to know about that spot. But I didn’t know that The Fisher Theater (www.nederlanderdetroit.com/) is the home of the world premiere of Broadway giants “The Wiz” (choreographed to Tony-winning heights by my friend George Faison)... and “Hello Dolly”. Still, MOTOWN – the building – was my full circle moment. Ant loved it being there as well. From the Berry Gordy street sign... to the stoop out front... to the window showcasing all of my favorite stars (except Ms. Aretha, who many don’t realize was not a MOTOWN Records act)... and the threshold to STUDIO A. It all punctuated the weekend something lovely!!!!

The LORD is surely steering me in a bunch of directions to make ends meet, y'all hear????? And this trip put a little something in my pocket and a provided me a lot of something for my sometimes increasingly  depleting morale. As I count my blessings, I'm reminded that - as many things challenge me - many things are working and I'm just allowing it all to work through me to whatever the next frequency will be. THANK YOU “SECRET TROIS”! THANK YOU MOTOWN! THANK YOU, ARETHA FRANKLIN!!!! YOU ARE THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

“FATHER, HELP YOUR CHILDREN AND DON'T LET THEM FALL BY THE SIDE OF THE ROAD...”

I wrote about the song “Jesus is Love” a couple of years ago (http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2007/7/20/roots-the-next-generations-and-the-melody-lingers-on.html) and its presence in my life on the day my mother died. Now, it’s been remade by Heather Headley and Smokie Norful (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x6SGBqMmyHM). I like the remake. As it was piping from a car radio recently, I was riding in the backseat of a car – cruising along 125^th Street. When I became aware and awakened to this now-positively post-traumatic moment, I looked up to find that we were getting ready to pass a building that inhabits my family’s denomination The United House of Prayer for All People. Something in that moment made me do something I hadn’t done with that song the times I’ve heard it since July 20, 1994: I smiled. Still, a tear dropped.

"... AND TEACH THEM TO LOVE ONE ANOTHER..."

I do feel as if I continue to be “helped” by forces bigger than me and far off into the distance yet right next to me:

• Ant and I are preparing to go to Detroit this weekend for Ms. Aretha Franklin’s birthday party. There’s much more to the story that I will have to share later. But TRUST! It’s a BLESSING... and a TOTAL HONOR! Plus, we’ll get the chance to see our Greg Dunmore who just recently did a feature on jazz great Harvey Thompson (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sNHUZ5k05WM) via his Jazz Jewels TV, which proves jazz is truly an international language. Harvey salutes one of Japan's hottest jazz clubs, the Sone Jazz Club located in Kobe.
• As certain clients have been able to outsource my services more of late, I’m happy to say I’ve attracted a special project my way that – for 10 weeks – will have me in Atlanta and Los Angeles. Though not optimum to be away from Ant and our home for that window of time, the wages are welcome and much needed for us to catch up with our arrears. And when I can tell you more, I will. But, TRUST that it is a GOOD, CREATIVE FIT that you will all be able to see sometime later this year! STAY TUNED!
• In the words of Rupaul: “BB, life isn’t always fair... I have two words :Extravaganza! Eleganza!” Not sure what that meant. But let me tell you - it made me laugh each and every time I played TIVO back to repeat it: www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/rupauls_drag_race/videos.jhtml This, before each of the bottom two lipsync'd for their life via Mary Mary's "Shackles". 

"... HEAVEN  MIGHT FIND A PLACE IN THEIR HEART..."

Meanwhile, BLESSINGS ABOUND all around for many! Let me catch you up!

Firstly:

• A shout out to our South African girlfriend Melony who invited “my Amazing Grace” Nichole, Ant, and me to her NYC home for a lovely meal. Got to see Johnna and several others from her circles. Always a good time!
• Though we didn’t get to see our Jason, we got some great hang time with Marqice in he and Jason’s Queens’ home.
• We got quality time with Charlie T; Danielle; Karu; and Kevin-Anthony at THE GOOD NEGRO at the Public Theater (www.publictheater.org). Kevin-Anthony will be celebrating his birthday with a performance on Monday, April 6th, 2009 @ The Triad in NYC (www.triadnyc.com). He will be recording a live CD that evening. So bring your energy and love in the house that evening as this is Kevin-Anthony’s 1st CD. For tickets:http://www.smarttix.com/show.aspx?showCode=KEV5 or call 212.868.4444 and check out his new blog site:http://b2productions.wordpress.com/2009/02/22/kevin-anthony-birthday-show/

"...WE'VE GOT TO WALK ON, WALK ON THROUGH TEMPTATION..."

Kevin-Anthony was also featured on “HARLEM HEIGHTS” this week on BET (www.bet.com/OnTV/BETShows/harlemheights). His recent BLACK 2: Broadway event last November was featured on the show. Without blinking, you can see Ant, Ern, Kimberly Jajuan, and me in the background at the VIP reception that preceded the awesome showcase on the Schomberg stage. Keep tuning into “Harlem Heights” as you’re bound to see us again (We’ve been hanging with this crew a bit – socially). But also, my good girlfriend/acting coach Tracey Moore-Marable will be sharing her “The Spirited Actor” philosophy on the show (www.thespiritedactor.com/).

"... HIS LOVE AND WISDOM WILL BE OUR HELPING HAND..."

It’s still not too late to join Ant and me at “Inked Baby”. It’s Sunday, March 29^th and IF YOU'RE STILL GAME, DON'T FORGET TO SEND YOUR CHECKS TO THE ADDRESS BELOW ASAP - TO ENSURE THE GROUP RATE OF $30 **** (SEE DETAILS BELOW. That's a $20 discount... and LACHANZE says she will join us for an after-show cocktail!!! By the way, check out the link to her new CD, an EP of awesome songs from her repertoire. Entitled "Love LaChanze," the CD can be purchased by visiting iTunes (www.iTunes.com) or Amazon (www.Amazon.com).

Here’s how it works:

1. Commit to attend the Sunday, March 29th /7:30 pm “INKED BABY” starring Tony-award-winning LACHANZE at Playwrights Horizons (416 West 42nd Street close to 9th Avenue)

2. By Tuesday, March 24th: Send a $30 check (per person) payable to:

WALK TALL GIRL PRODUCTIONS

1375 BROADWAY

3RD FLOOR

NEW YORK, NY 10018

Phone: 646-467-7393 or 917-334-6492

MEMO: 3/29 INKED BABY w/PAT & ANT

*** THAT'S A $20 DISCOUNT VIA THIS GROUP RATE!!!!! ***

3. After you do that, PLEASE let me know that you will be joining us via patarack_riley@yahoo.com

4. On Sunday, March 29th, let’s meet at 6:30 pm – so I can personally ensure your tickets get to you. Showtime is 7:30 pm. It’s about 90 minutes – so will wrap about 9:00 pm.

And my friend LACHANZE has agreed to join us across the street for a quick cocktail at:

THE WEST BANK CAFÉ

407 W. 42nd Street

New York, NY 10036

Phone: 212-695-6909

"... LIFT UP OUR HEARTS TO BE THANKFUL AND GLAD..."

Since I wrote about Ms. Melinda Doolittle last month (http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2009/2/2/we-will-find-a-way.html), her fans have become readers of my blog. One fan, Louise, asks me to hip you folks to one of Melinda’s fansites: www.melindasbackups.com

"...I WANNA FOLLOW YOUR STAR WHEREVER IT LEADS..."

My friend Shaun Robinson may want to reach out to Melinda as an example of a great role model. This could be for the follow up to her debut tome for young girls, “Exactly As I Am” (www.randomhouse.com). Celebrated women share candid advice with today's girls on what it takes to believe in yourself. I’ve worked alongside Shaun via our National Association of Black Journalists’ annual convention programming (www.nabj.org) and I couldn’t be more proud of her. She’s heading to NYC soon and I’ll get to buy the book and congratulate her in person.

My dear industry friends Kirsten Poe Hill & Renée E. Warren (pictured on right) are now published authors. We all have CNBC in our roots. They left just before I started there in the mid-90s to start their business. When I left CNBC a few years later, their media consulting firm became a safe place for me as a freelancer (who wrote, pitched, and promoted on their company Noelle-Elaine’s behalf – www.noelle-elaine.com) but I also had the chance to hire them for their services via volunteer work I did with one of their major clients The New York Association of Black Journalists (www.nyabj.org). Fast forward 15 years and you’ve got “You Buy the Peanut Butter, I’ll Get the Bread: The Absolutely True Adventures of Best Friends in Business”. It hits book shelves on March 31^st.

To purchase the book, visit one of the book stores below:

http://www.borders.com/online/store/TitleDetail?sku=0452290147

http://www.amazon.com/You-Buy-Peanut-Butter-Bread/dp/0452290147/

http://www.powells.com/cgi-bin/biblio?isbn=9780452290143

http://search.barnesandnoble.com/booksearch/isbninquiry.asp?ean=9780452290143

http://www.booksamillion.com/product/9780452290143?id=4205521630491

http://www.www.indiebound.org http://www.www.indiebound.org/

Catch them at one of the following book signings:

Baltimore, MD March 31, 2009

Chevy Chase, MD April 1, 2009

Washington, DC April 3, 2009

Harlem, NY April 15, 2009

New York City, NY April 16, 2009

More locations to come ...

For more information, visit: www.peanutbutterbreadbook.com

"...I WANNA WALK WITH YOU AND TALK WITH YOU AND DO ALL THE THINGS YOU WANT ME TO DO..."

CONGRATS to Sheila E who took home the “Gone Country” prize this season (www.cmt.com/shows/dyn/gone-country/series.jhtml) with grace, a competitive edge, loads of talent, and spirituality.  And already the rollercoaster of “American Idol” (www.americanidol.com/) is throwing viewers – like me – for a loop with its new judge, new rules, new surprises. After seeing the Top 13’s take on a “Jackson 5” medley, Ant reminded me that A.I. was showing up where “Kids Incorporated” (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v3i00ieI3UI) meets “Star Search” (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZyjSuOrRBw). And like “Gone Country” (under the category of WHO KNEW I’D BE TUNING INTO CMT?), I hear there’s another show that I haven’t seen that I should be watching: “Kitchen Nightmares” with Gordon Ramsay (www.fox.com/kitchennightmares/). Anybody seen it? Worth my time or squeezing the already-exhausted memory of my antiquated TIVO?

"... WHO CAN BRING YOU LOVE?..."

My good girlfriend Juanita Stephens (who you recall had a lovely dinner recently where she brought journalists together with another of her clients Kindred) is working with her sister publicist Karen Lee on Charlie Wilson’s new project ‘Uncle Charlie’ (Jive Records) which debuted at #2 on Billboard’s Hot 200 a few weeks back. It’s been a long time since ‘The Gap Band’ but Charlie is still kicking. He was also recently diagnosed with PROSTATE CANCER last July... and is living not only to see himself back at the top of the charts but to also testify about his journey from that grim diagnosis through a journey of medical options to where he stands now as a healthy advocate to shed light and awareness on this disease which impacts 1 in 3 African American men. He is now

informing as well as performing" by becoming a spokesperson for the Prostate Cancer Foundation (www.prostatecancerfoundation.org) to help raise awareness and funds for future research. On June 12th, Charlie will be a part of a panel, where he will share his knowledge and information about this disease, at the National Conference for 100 Black Men in New York City.

"... WHO CAN BRING YOU JOY? ... "

These are the kind of updates we rely on JET and EBONY to give us. Many are buzzing about the layoffs at many media shops but the ones at JET and EBONY could impact those fellow journalists I know who’ve been working for Johnson Publishing a long time, but I am also wondering where we’ll get “our” info without these magazines running at full capacity. For a walk down memory lane (to know what we could lose): http://books.google.com/books?id=Db4DAAAAMBAJ&hl=En&source=gbs_all_issue

"...WHO CAN TURN YOUR LIFE AROUND? ..."

Some friends and friends of friends who are doing great things – proof in the links or websites below:

* My Morehouse brother Chris McDonald’s cousin owns this little boutique that WILL:

www.GEORGIANY.COM

* My alma mater Morehouse College’s Glee Club of which I was a member during my four years there (much chronicled here) just performed at Abyssinian Baptist Chuch this past weekend. I couldn’t make it but wanted to shout them out as they continue their Spring Tour (www.mcgclub.com/).

* One of my college mates and true leader to many of us in the glee club and the arts overall Maurice Mcrae just launched his new website. He's an actor, director, and overall creative spirit who I've admired mostly for his kindness. Check him out: www.mauricemcrae.com

* My “Original Amazing Grace” Natalie’s brother-in-law Tavares just launched his new website. He is a poet/actor/teacher/motivational speaker... and all-around Renaissance Man: www.tavaresstephens.com

* Ant’s friend and supervisor on “The Wendy Williams Show” Lorraine Haughton has been working on other projects as they wait to go back in for the re-launch this summer. She has been working on "Bought & Sold" which airs on HGTV. It's a reality show about real estate agents in New Jersey (www.hgtv.com/bought-sold/show/index.html).

* My girl, CHEMENE PELZER, is a producer at “NBC Today”. Check out her recently posted blog and video related to a recent trip she took to West Africa:

http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2009/03/10/1829119.aspx

* My dear friend Camille introduced me to a lovely lady out of ATL named Ivy Simmons. She is on the steering committee for Earth Hour 09 (www.earthhour.org/). Earth Hour began in Sydney in 07 with 2.2 million participants and thousands of buildings all turning their lights out for one hour to show they care about global warming. Last year such iconic buildings went dark for the hour as the Coliseum in Rome, Golden Gate Bridge, Coca Cola's Times Square billboard, the Bank of America Building in Atlanta and more. This year, they are looking for the Vegas strip to go dark. Earth Hour takes place March 28 from 8:30-9:30pm this year.

* Chef Love Jones who recently catered a fashion week event I attended last month has finally launched his website. It will keep you updated with his day-to-day happenings. www.iambilljones.com

* My friend Reginald Barnes is an actor/publicist/promoter/talent extraordinaire and never ceases to amaze (www.myspace.com/reggieonthemove). His next round of projects will include a turn in popular ‘Down Low’ author JL King’s new off-Broadway play titled “RAW”. It opens May 1^st and features six men (and... full frontal nudity). It’s a controversial adult show running at 10pm on weekends in May. Stay tuned for more as I get it. Congrats Reginald!

"... WHO CAN HELP YOU HOLD OUT A LITTLE WHILE LONGER?..."

Y’all remember a Black version of “Cinderella” from the ‘70s before Brandy went there? IMDB tells me I’m not crazy for this childhood memory. This version of the Cinderella tale with an all-black cast has Cinderella, who wants to marry a dashing army officer, finding out out that her father, who she thought had an important job at a big hotel, is actually the men's room attendant. Her wicked stepmother finds out, too, and complications ensue. Charlayne Woodard starred as “Cindy” and Cleavant Derricks, Clifton Davis, and Nell Carter also starred.