WELCOME to "The Life of Riley" which will include periodic chronicles of pop culture and possibilities that flow out of Patrick L. Riley's day. That's me!!! Through blogging (and soon some other technological features on which I'll keep you posted as they launch), I will pull experiences from my busy life to entertain and inspire all of you. Through this site, I will share my observations and insights. Some features to look forward to:
1.) "PATRICK'S POP UP(DATES)" will feature stories from pop culture, music, theater, fashion, and the entertainment industry at large.
2.) "The Life of Riley" will also introduce a "take-a-look-at-your-life" section (READ: sort of an advice column), where I will help readers come up with their own questions and answers around what "ways of being" are working (or not working) to have them acheive their respective goals and live their best lives. This section is called "WHO YOU BE?".
3.) Additonally, there will be a free-flowing, organic section called "TESTIFY" from which I will pull from my own life's journey to share and hopefully inspire. Some of the fare may be new musings and experiences. Other times, I may pull from my journals and past sharings to shed light on some uncomfortable truths that I've experienced and that may perhaps play a role in healing someone else's wounds as the real-life experience did for me. From my experience of covering 9/11 as a freelance journalist to courageously coming out (as gay) to my family, "TESTIFY" promises to move those who choose to read it.
4.) And a section titled "PR" (like my initials, but also like "public relations") will include press clips from any coverage I get.
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Entertainment Exclusive | Get Your Tickets To See ROY AYERS and PIECES OF A DREAM Performing Live at Gospel Uptown!
Gospel Uptown
2110 Adam Clayton Powell Blvd.
@125th Street
Dinner and Show and Group Packages Available!
BUY TICKETS CALL
212.280.2110 or visit
So, I’m back in New York City. And as my current project, BIG REALITY HIT ‘Monica: Still Standing’, roles out for all of you to see on BET, I am looking for my WHAT’S NEXT? [DEVELOPMENTS FORTHCOMING… WILL WORK FOR FOOD!]. Of course, I am going to be extending my BIRTHDAY EXTRAVAGANZA for as far and long as anyone will celebrate with me. SMILE! That includes my next couple of weekends at GOSPEL UPTOWN (HTTP://WWW.GOSPELUPTOWN.COM).
This Friday, November 27th & 28th, the legendary Roy Ayers will be performing at GOSPEL UPTOWN. More than a Mary J. Blige-sample (of “My Life”), Roy Ayers’ repertoire is respected the world over for its clever fusion of jazz, R&B, soul, and disco. This superb vibraphonist started out as a solid hard bop musician, but he quickly upped the soul and disco elements of his sound, and his sophisticated music became an uptown pop staple of disco-era black America. What better backdrop than GOSPEL UPTOWN to enjoy a laid-back ‘holiday weekend’ like no other. (HTTP://WWW.GOSPELUPTOWN.COM).
Then, next Friday, December 4th & 5th, also legendary Pieces of A Dream performs. This group has taken on many roster incarnations over the years. They are based out of Philadelphia and launched onto the scene in 1976. Keyboardist James Lloyd, drummer Curtis Harmon and former bassist Cedric Napoleon, were (and still are) managed by the drummer’s father and uncle, Danny and Bill Harmon, respectively. The group based their name on Pieces of Dreams, a cover tune by Stanley Turrentine that the group performed. And they’ve worked with so many special artist over the years: the late Grover Washington Jr.; guitarist Ronny Jordan; vocalist Maysa Leak; saxophonists Kenny Blake; and Gerald Albright (who along with Michael Bearden fronted remakes of Diana Ross’ ‘Theme from Mahogany (Do You Know Where You’re Going To?)’ and ‘Upside Down’. (HTTP://WWW.GOSPELUPTOWN.COM).
Gospel Uptown
2110 Adam Clayton Powell Blvd.
@125th Street
Dinner and Show and Group Packages Available!
BUY TICKETS CALL
212.280.2110 or visit
And I’ve mentioned before that singing is a sidelight (http://216.117.188.141/rileyshowforkodjoe.wmv), and my friend Kevin-Anthony invited me to sing on his new monthly series “Broadway Uptown” which will be celebrating the music of Ashford & Simpson on this Sunday, November 29th, 2009 @ 8pm at, where else?:
Gospel Uptown
2110 Adam Clayton Powell Blvd.
@125th Street
Dinner and Show and Group Packages Available!
BUY TICKETS CALL
212.280.2110 or visit
In addition to my take on Diana Ross’ “The Boss” ("L.A. PROVED TOO MUCH FOR THE MAN..."), the line up for this show is amazing and comprised of many I admire for their success and commitment to singing: Melonie Daniels, Ryan Shaw, Anwar Robinson, Darius Booker, Amanda Brown, Gordon Chambers, Ayana George, George Hawkins, Takeytha Johnson, Kimberly Nichole, Vivian Sessom, Dawn Tallman, Alyson Williams and more….
In addition to an amazing evening of song, they will also be collecting canned goods to distribute during the holiday season. Tickets are now available and can be purchased by calling 212.352.3101 or by clicking on the following link; http://www.theatermania.com/content/show.cfm/show/161434
For great savings order your tickets online:
$10 in advance via theatermania.com
$12.00 day of event with a canned good
$15.00 day of event without a canned good
+$20.00 per person food/beverage
So take advantage of the savings and purchase your tickets today. It’s going to be quite an evening so spread the word: www.black2broadway.com
Meanwhile, as my birthday knocked up against my last day in L.A., I had celebrating to do there and here… and Ant really hooked it up!
1. Before I left L.A., my friend and co-worker on all-thing-‘Frankie-&-Neffe’&’Monica’-over-the-last-eight-months Shareen took me to lunch in Larchmont.
My friend Eliah Mountjoy had been recommending since I first arrived.
We had Village Pizzeria pizza… and great conversation!
2. Then, my Tony and Scott (along with Michelle) continued the party with an awesome dinner (and cocktails) at Cliff’s Edge in Los Feliz. 
They made sure that I didn't come into my birthday alone. We were in festive pose (though a work night). And I am totally grateful to them!
3. Then, as soon as I got back to NYC: ANT had secured tix to my favorite Broadway property “DREAMGIRLS” – running at THE APOLLO.
This is a new version that will soon go on the road… and includes the incorporation of “Listen” (from the movie) as a duet between Deena and Effie. Some critics aren’t happy with the new staging of “DREAMGIRLS”.
I must say I enjoy all incarnations and this cast – as led by American Idol’s Syesha Mercado and blog friend Chester Gregory – entertained me as well.
But most excitedly, Ant and I got to share in the fun with my Michael K. Watts, my DREAMGIRLS enthusiasts Lee, Devon, and Mario.
Of course, DREAMGIRLS just rips at the heart of my Devon and me.
And Henry Krieger who wrote mostly all of the music for original stage production and the film was also there. Ant interviewed him a few years back when the movie DREAMGIRLS came out and he was an associate producer at STARZ! in Denver. 
Ant came up with a concept UPSTAGE! for the cable network which flew him up here to NYC many times to explore adaptations like 'DREAMGIRLS' and 'THE COLOR PURPLE' which is the night Ant and I met. So BROADWAY is in the blood of our relationship. SMILE!
4. After DREAMGIRLS, Mario joined Ant and me for Ant's 'big sister' Candice Harper's vocal set at Uncle Charlie's. 
Candice has an awesome voice.
So sweet, melodic, and tells a story that you want to hear when she opens her mouth. She even graciously invited me up to take the mic on a couple of numbers: Color Purple's "What About Love" and Mariah Carey's "Love Takes Time".
Candice and her music director Michael invited me to do my own set there one night. As I’ve been declaring that I want to do more intimate evenings of song, this – for sure – fulfills that. Thanks Candice!
5. Then, Ant, Mario, and I went to The Overlook Lounge.
It was a BDAY drink for old times sake from Mario's and my old friend Mark followed by a pop through HK and SECRET to celebrate with my bday-sake Tony.
6. SWAN SONG: Amy Ruth... and home to crash.
7. Then, Saturday, we slept late and Ant took me to brunch at Serafina!
Then, we went next door to FELA on BROADWAY for matinee with my ‘Amazing Grace’ Nichole and her friend Charles.
WHAT A SENSATIONAL SHOW! VIBRANT! COLORFUL! MUSICAL! And a HISTORY LESSON to BOOT! Run and get your TIX. My girlfriend Marcia Pendleton hooked ours up… and you can get some discount fares if you go to: www.broadwayoffers.com CODE IS: FEWTG93. 
It was so great to be back in a theater (two times in as many days). And nice to run into folks - including Ant's 'Wendy Williams' co-worker Lorraine who you may see from time to time on the show during Wendy's hot topics segment(s).
8. Then, Ant and I went to girlfriend Mara and her husband Tommie's place for PRE-PARTY.
And as one of the top things for which I have to be grateful includes Ant, he and I are experiencing another frequency of domesticity as we housesit (and Ant dog-sits) our good girlfriend Mara and her husband Tommie’s two dogs and a cat while they are on the road for Thanksgiving. Given I just got back from a long stretch in L.A., the last thing I wanted to do was regroup an over-week stay somewhere else, but as we enjoy the Harlem Brownstone and – dare I say – Mara and Tommie’s “kids”, this experiment is giving us – perhaps – a glimpse at our WHAT’S NEXT?
9. 
Then, it was time for the BIG KARAOKE BIRTHDAY!
So many came out to SHOW LOVE;
SERENADE ME;
and hear me SING!
WE HAD A BLAST as so many of Ant’s and my family, friends, and co-workers joined in on the fun that is karaoke. Newlyweds Danni and Bernard joines us - just a couple of months after their beautiful island wedding.
My buddy Ted Gibson, hairstylist for the stars - incuding Angelina Jolie - was in the house. I'll be telling you more about Ted and his partner Jason when "The Real Housewives of DC" comes on. 
All my New Rochelle friends were in the house.
My Teri and her husband Alvin to - of course - Nichole and her girlfriends Michelle;
and Cynthia;
and Monica. And the husbands and new beaus came too - from a "sanging" Nelson to Brian.
They all seemed to have a great time including Ant's co-worker Bobby and Ant's Aunt Linda and cousin Shantay - here singing a duet with him. 
. See many more pictures from MY AWESOME BIRTHDAY EXTRAVAGANZA AT:PART 1: BIRTHDAY EXTRAVAGANZA 2009... and PART 2: BIRTHDAY EXTRAVAGANZA. 
And Ant and I - of course - got our songs in!
Afterwards, Ant and I joined our friend Andrea at SECRET for more drinks and dancing. This, before we grabbed a bite at THE WAVERLY and headed back to Jersey.
10. And on Sunday, Ant and I joined ERN for dinner at HOUSTON’s (on my Original Amazing Grace Natalie and her husband Dwayne and the girls).
After our prized meal, we enjoyed The American Music Awards – channeling the days of yore – with Janet Jackson, Whitney Houston, and a host of inspiring – for once-in-a-long-while – performances.
And as I drop back into the REAL WORLD, I must find some new opportunities that will bring in some revenue that support us in keeping things afloat – including more on-camera work and pop culture analysis. With my contribution to ‘Monica’ wrapped a hair earlier than I expected and many other clients on winter break (and still not enough time for reserves to build back up, though things are kinda’ on-time), the next couple of months are key for my WHAT’S NEXT! But I’m excited that folks are drawn to my branding as on-camera talent; pop culture blogger/analyst; etc. (and for a price… if just credit and partnership) – including promoters for ‘Gospel Uptown’ and producer for the CUNY-TV show (Channel 75) Abi Ishola who is working on a show that covers the ethnic media and ethnic communities. She is working on a profile about Ebony and Jet magazines.
This story will accompany a studio segment in which the financial troubles at Johnson Publishing will be discussed. In her profile, she wants to explore the cancellation of Ebony Fashion Fair, and as she researched, she found herself drawn to my commentary on the issue (with Black America Web and my blog: "...I'VE WAITED SO LONG TO HEAR YOU SAY THAT TO ME! SAY IT AGAIN! SAY IT AGAIN!..."). 
So, I went and was interviewed by her… and will be on “Independent Sources” at the top of December. I’ll send the clip to you guys when it’s done. Continued THANKS for your support and prayers as I navigate this career of mine. And SHOUT OUT to ALL OF YOU who PRAYED me back home!
P.S. And we’ll still always have L.A.:
"L.A. PROVED TOO MUCH FOR THE MAN..."
"PRECIOUS" MEMORIES...HOW THEY LINGER IN MY SOUL!
"YOU KEEP PRAYING, SAYING THERE MUST BE A BETTER WAY..."
"LORD, I THANK YOU FOR MY LIFE!"
"YOU KEEP PRAYING, SAYING THERE MUST BE A BETTER WAY..."
"... COLORED PEOPLE ON!!!!!!!"
"...I'VE WAITED SO LONG TO HEAR YOU SAY THAT TO ME! SAY IT AGAIN! SAY IT AGAIN!..."
"I CAN DO (GOOD) ALL BY MYSELF (AND WITH SOMEONE)..."
"DO YOU GET WHAT YOU'RE HOPING FOR... ?"
THE LIFE OF RILEY
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