A DAY IN "THE LIFE OF RILEY"

GOING TO THE CHAPEL?

Not yet. But ‘the law’ and ‘public opinion’ seem to be getting us closer to my choosing to have that option everyday. Whenever I'm approached to speak on something personally controversial, I get a butterfly in my belly (at risk of hurting someone's feelings or not wanting to rock the boat), but shout out to NBC News Correspondent Mara Schiavocampo for asking... and the many who have validated my thoughts and heart! As always, THANKS FOR YOUR SUPPORT! http://thegrio.com/2012/05/21/does-the-naacp-gay-marriage-resolution-matter-to-black-america/ I’m looking forward to sharing more published works (inside my brand: ‘pop culture’ & ‘possibilities’) that explore even more aspects of this ever-evolving topic in America.

WENDY 500

Also: shout out to Mara Schiavocampo on her Wendy Williams' profile which ran recently on WEEKEND TODAY: http://video.today.msnbc.msn.com/today/47486415! A BFF and a recurring client make beautiful TV together! HOW YOU DOIN'? XO And as small worlds get smaller, we all were under one roof for WENDY’s celebration of 500 SHOWS! The ELEMENT was the back-drop for the celebration that toasted shows done and the many more to come. Was great to attend with Mara given she’d just profiled Wendy and had justquoted me in a Grio (www.grio.com) piece. I considered it a double honor to have contributed (as freelance field producer) to some of those shows: (1) http://www.wendyshow.com/2011/10/24/british-virgin-islands/
(2) http://www.wendyshow.com/2011/10/26/british-virgin-islands-food (3) http://www.wendyshow.com/2011/12/16/family-dollar-holiday-dash/ (4) Black History Month with "My Black Is Beautiful" (Proctor & Gamble): http://www.wendyshow.com/MyBlackIsBeautiful/. Many friends, colleagues, and society associates were in the house – including: NABJ brother (recently SNL’d) Stephen A. Smith; Mecca Moore (Publicist and Associate Publisher of Pynk Magazine) [who I saw just the night prior with friend Devon Johnson (Publisher of Bleu and Pynk Magazine) at the NYC Premiere of L.A. Hair); Priya Scoggins (designer and producer/personality); Musa Jackson; Tonya Lee (Writer and wife of Spike Lee); Spencer Means (NYC realtor for the stars); Carlton Jared Lockett (Jones Magazine); Chastity Saunders (Avenue Pink); etc. Before we came to the party, Ant and I got to FINALLY give Mara and her husband Tommie’s Nina her “1st Magic Kingdom swag”: a Minnie Mouse bib! She instantly LOVED it! After the ‘Wendy’ set, we got in a little karaoke for kicks at BOHO KARAOKE on the Lower East Side, and look who we ran into? Our NABJ sister and fellow journalist extraordinaire Lola Ogunnaike who was getting her karaoke on, she says, for the first time! I LOVE KARAOKE (and NYC even more)! CONGRATS WENDY WILLIAMS & TEAM! Hardest working team I've seen of late... in the BIZ-NESS!

NYABJ

Mara and I also recently attended the New York Association of Black Journalists' 24th Annual Scholarship & Awards Ceremony together. The event was held at The Malcolm X & Dr. Betty Shabazz Memorial and Educational Center (and the competition which had a finalist prize for Beyonce and Essence) was SOLD OUT! While minding my business on projects with recurring clients BET and The Links, Incorporated (in casual, but kinda' transitional rags), my NABJ BFF Mara Schiavocampo called with an 11th hour invitation to escort her (and as a result, I got to wish her hubby and my dear friend Tommie Porter a Happy Birthday when I went to pick her up [One of his gifts: Babysitting Nina while mom handled her NABJ Regional Director duties]). We sat at the NBC table, but this precursor to the NABJ Annual Convention (which is next month in New Orleans) gave me the chance to see so many of my NABJ family - including: NYABJ President Mike Feeney; Dwight Oestricher; Associated Press' Sonya Ross; GSABJ sister Henrietta Parker; PSABJ's Sarah Glover; former NYABJ Prez (under whom I served two terms at VP-Broadcast before serving as Region 1 Director some years back) Robin Stone; APOLLO's Nina Flowers; NBC/The Grio's David Wilson; PR icon Terrie Williams; Newscorp's Manny Smith; NYABJ budy Lynette Vallasco; my sometimes co-host for "Drums Along The Hudson", Tetiana Anderson; co-hosts for the night, Pat Battle and Shannon Lanier; my ESSENCE friends Constance White (Editor-in-Chief); Emil Wilbekin; and so many others friends - old and new. NYABJ's Eric Tait also saluted the life and career of our recently departed Gil Noble. GREAT NIGHT!

LA HAIR

Shout out to @WEtvPr @WEtv @135stagency @KimbleHairCare @pynkmag & @bleumagazine @devonisbleu Great times at the NYC Dinner Premiere of WE TV’s new L.A. HAIR (http://www.wetv.com/shows/la-hair) – starring Kim Kimble who I had the chance to produce a few years back (100 HAIRCUTS in 48 HOURS). She was quite a JOY…and so is her show. 135th Street Agency invited me out to PRANNA (www.prannarestaurant.com) to dine on a wonderful array of Modern Southeast Asian Cooking + Cocktails. And we got a sneak-peek of the very entertaining new addition to WE’s line-up of new, WOMEN-centric reality fare – including ‘The Braxtons: Family Values’ & ‘Mary Mary’. Also, check out video from Kimble’s recent press events in New York and Atlanta:

 

·         “L.A. Hair” at NY Press Dinner – http://youtu.be/pIK7D9Qdd3c

 

·         “L.A. Hair” in ATL - http://youtu.be/hM7RjDE32xU

 

‘L.A. Hair’ premieres TOMORROW (Thurs, May 31st) at 10pm ET/PT on WE tv. Visit the show online at http://www.wetv.com/shows/la-hair. #LAHair

 

ASK CHLOE

 

I recently shouted out Chloe Hilliard (Editorial Director, www.TheLoop21.com) who I’ve known since she was 15, a student in the New York Association of Black Journalists’ High School Journalism Workshop for which I was an instructor (and co-director). I always knew she’d be a journalism star, maybe pro B-Ball player (And when last we were together, she was a panelist on a Q&A talk back I moderated with the cast of "Stick Fly"). But she’s now ADDITIONALLY working her magic as a stand-up comic. And she is now sharing her expert advice with the masses via her new web series. Here’s a sample:

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhOm65kW1y0 and http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V8mk7yy_GGw. If you have a question that needs expert advice submit them here: www.www.Blog.ChloeHilliard.com/ASK.

 

DEAR OLD MOREHOUSE! 20 YEARS!

 https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10150827567113737.405858.662073736&type=1&l=53e2228d5c Just back from my 20-YEAR REUNION at Morehouse College! What an AWESOME weekend with my Savannah BFFs Natalie Palmer & Latecia Engram! My friends since childhood! While in ATL, I got to see my sister Janice; dear friend Carla Jackson; and so many others – from Michael K. Watts to Elise Durham to Jamahl L. King to Darian Trotter and a host of others. See so many of the pix that I could not include here:https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10150827567113737.405858.662073736&type=3&l=53e2228d5c

PROJECT 1 VOICE 2012

I’ve been asked to read stage direction in one act of a historic NYC reading – featuring an impressive cast that includes: Tony royalty Lillias White; Adriane Lennox; and many more! IT'S YEAR TWO OF: PROJECT 1 VOICE! http://www.project1voice.org/ Shout out to Erich McMillan-McCall, visionary and founder of Project 1 Voice (http://youtu.be/Je-I7sGHKvA).  I’ve blogged about it: http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/tag/project-1-voice.  Was in last year’s SAVE-THE-DATE campaign: http://youtu.be/3hCSTtQNsyQ. It’s a day where you can take part in ensuring that funding keeps our black theaters open and vital. This initiative was created last year to bring attention to black theater companies. On June 18, theater companies and groups across the country will stage readings of “The Amen Corner,” James Baldwin’s 1954 work that looks at the role of the church in black communities. Last year’s reading of Alice Childress’ “Trouble in Mind” featured performances by Andre De Shields, Leslie Uggams, Peter Coyote, La Chanze, John Mahoney and many others across the country. PLEASE BE SURE TO COME OUT! http://www.project1voice.org/. Special shout out to Marcia Pendelton and Morehouse brother Charles Reese! How many of our Tri State area Alumni of Morehouse/Spelman along with other HBCUers on board will join us. Also: please don't forget to pick up your copy of the book version of James Baldwin A Soul On Fire. Available at Amazon. Visit www.jamesbaldwinasoulonfire.com. That’s Mr. Reese’s labor of love. SYNERGIES ABOUND!

Spelman College & Patrick L. Riley ask: "Who's Your Alter Ego?" 

 

Spelman College Museum of Fine Art has partnered with my blog "A Day in the Life of Riley: Pop Culture & Possibilities" in the promotion of “Undercover: Performing and Transforming Black Female Identities,” an original exhibition on view through December 5, 2009. As a Morehouse Man, I consider this collaboration with my 'sister alma mater' a total honor.

 

The exhibit 'Undercover' (detailed in the attached documents) examines the social implications of race, gender, and disguise. And the Museum emphasizes works by and about women of the African Diaspora (and well-known, mid-career, and emerging artists are a part of this exhibit - detailed in the attached documents).

 

But to put some POP in the effort, the marketing team sought me out to ask some CELEBRITIES and FRIENDS in my social network (and representatives of CELEBRITIES and FRIENDS in my social network) some questions re: ALTER EGOs. The questions and responses follow:

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO????:

CELEBRITIES WE KNOW & IN THEIR OWN RIGHT:

 

1.  Mara Schiavocampo 

 30 and proud! 

 NBC News Digital Correspondent

 New York, NY

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO?

Don't have one :(

 

WHY?

Good question. I'll have to work on that. 

 

 

2. Ledisi

AGE: NEVER

Grammy-nominated singer

NEW CD “Turn Me Loose” and projects that empower women to love themselves. I am currently speaking to different Historic Black Universities and Colleges for UNCF (United Negro College Fund) being apart of an empowerment series to encourage students to be their best.

Los Angeles, CA

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO?

I don't think I have one but if I did she would be an older woman in her 70's that's kinda like a preacher/evangelist with red high heels and loves hanging out at a juke joint in the 1930's. LOL!

 

WHY? Why I do not have one would be the question? The answer is because I want to stay as honest and as close to me on stage that is comfortable. That's why people like me. In my personal life I will say I am not as forward as the Ledisi I am on stage. I am very shy and nerdy. But all of who I am on stage is who I am off stage to some degree. LOL! 

3. Mother Love

AGE: Middle Earlies

Diabetes Awareness Tour

Pasadena, CA

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO?

Hannah the House Frau

 

WHY?

When I am not traveling, I am a homebody, I enjoy entertaining my family and friends. I am dangerously good with a glue gun, I make most of my own decorations and all my floral arrangements

 

4. Sheryl Lee Ralph

Actress/Singer; “Original Deena” in Dreamgirls; “Moesha”

My DIVA (DIVINELY INSPIRED VICTORIOUSLY ANOINTED) PROJECT is getting ready to make its way back to Africa and I am creating a few reality shows with a touch of real to them.

W. Hollywood, CA

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO?

My alter ego is the DIVA. People often confuse her with Sheryl Lee but they are two very different women.

 

WHY?

Because she is bold, fearless, and will and can say all of the things Sheryl Lee would never think to say or do. She empowers me.

 

5. Bridget Bland

26

SPELMAN SISTER

Reality star: “Harlem Heights”

3^RD year Law Student at Rutgers Law Newark; entertainment columnist for BV Newswire; launching a brand-engagement firm called What’Snext

New York, NY

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO?

My alter ego is comparable to a mix between Naomi Campbell and Wendy

Williams.

 

WHY?

She is loud, hilarious, accomplished, in your face, she

sees through the bull and isn't afraid to tell you. She is poised,

fashion forward and has little tact., but endearing in a sister girl way.

6. Tamala Jones

Actress

Los Angeles, CA

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO?

My alter ego is Tay Tay Lasha.

 

WHY?

Tay Tay Lashay is all show business. She is both new & old Hollywood rolled into one. Smart & sassy. She’s able to walk in & shut a room down. Everybody loves Ms. Lashay because she is filled with fun, laughter, and she’s a whole lot of woman.

 

7. Judge Glenda Hatchett

 Current Projects: Parent Power Now!, which will officially begin January 1, 2010 and will be the premiere global social networking site for parents ( parentpowernow.com); In advance of the 2010 launch, I will roll out the One Million Dreams Campaign to encourage 1 million parents to post their children's dreams. "We are going to  be in the business of posting our children's dreams and not their bail!" . The campaign is currently posted on Parentpowernow.com. I have  established a production company , Great Day Productions, and am currently developing television, movie  and stage projects.

Atlanta, GA

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO?

A combination of my mother and my maternal grandmother.

 

WHY?

My mother who well into her 80's drives a convertible sports car, is sassy, feisty, takes tai chi classes, travels extensively throughout the world, loves to play the slot machines and still supports many charitable causes including the AIDS ministry that she founded in our church and my maternal grandmother who was self educated, as tough a woman as you will find, took no mess, a mother of nine children and a hard nose businesswoman!

 

8. Shaun Robinson

Spelman sister

"Access Hollywood" anchor/reporter; Author, "Exactly As I Am"

Los Angeles, CA

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO? PATTI LABELLE

WHY? Because when I'm in the shower and I belt out "CREOLE LADY MARMALAAAAAAAADE!!!!!", I sound just like her! Truth be told, I couldn't carry a note if I had a bucket to put it in, so singing is a talent I have often wished I possessed. But, Patti LaBelle is the entire package - a beautiful, supreme diva with a God-given gift and a glorious, kind soul that surrounds it. I adore her so much and was blessed that she lent her "voice" to my book, "Exactly As I Am" on girls and self-esteem. 

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO????:

PATRICK’S SPELMAN SISTERS AND OTHER DIVAS FRIENDS

 

1. Jacqualine Simone Williams

40, but not over the hill (yet)

Mass media/feature documentary

West Allis, WI 

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO? Sheryl Lee Ralph.  I  have also been known to transform into Cicely Tyson; Chaka Khan (the earlier version); Ruby Dee; Eartha Kitt; Miriam Makeba; and Nina Simone (for whom I am named).

WHY? Sheryl Lee Ralph because, I am a 'Dreamgirl'.  She is a triple-threat, a strong and determined woman.  I love her style, attitude and talent.  Like all the women I've mentioned above, Ralph has the courage of her convictions and she fights vehemently for what she believes in.  I've always strived to be that sort of woman--who can use her talent and influence to make the world a better place. 

 

2. Joicleyn Dingle

38

senior editor at celebrity web mag; writer/director of short film (in rehearsal phase); working on book of African American Men

Brooklyn, NY

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO? Ginger Nova.

 

WHY?

She's a spicy force of nature.

She's a double Scorpio.

She's enamored by the night. 

She really digs Patron.

 

3. Michaela angela Davis

40something

Creative Consultant BET, The Shine Society mentoring group, Style TV Show (in development)

Brooklyn NY

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO?

Harriett Tubman

 

WHY?

Because I would really like to live a life that is completely committed to service and the freeing of oppressed people without the distractions and trappings of red bottom stilletoes, the perfect hair products, a fly crib, the freshest sushi, peer approval - all these and so many surface things are so important to me.

 

 

4. Sharmell Sullivan Huffman

  Spelman sister

  Actress on television in the world of Professional Wrestling

 Houston, TX 

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO?

Debbie Allen

 

WHY?

Dance is my first love and I grew up watching her break the barriers for African American women in dance.

 

5. Lorielle M. N. Broussard,

28

Spelman sister

Stylist/designer (for Ciara)/Costume Designer/Producer (Purple Stuff TV)

Losa Angeles, CA

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO?

My alter ego is Elle.

 

WHY?

Elle is the person I am most of the time.  The one that you see working like crazy to be the best and on top.  Mostly everybody sees Elle all of the time or if they don't know her (Lorielle) very well. She exudes fun and positive energy at all times and is never a bore.

Elle is fearless, that's her word. Her motto is to always have Faith over Fear!  This is how she appears to always have it together.

 

6. Syreta J. Oglesby

28

Spelman sister

Publicist/Author

Newark, NJ

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO?

My alter ego is Jazzy.

 

WHY?

Jazzy is my alter ego that is super talented, outgoing, and glamorous. As I have always been the understated and down to earth, round the way girl, I have always had a side of me that has been wanting to burst out.

 

7. Karen Mauldin Ceesay 

Spelman sister

Actress/Producer

I shot "Drop Dead Diva" & "One Tree Hill" this summer - currently producing a sitcom I wrote for the internet, "loosely" based on the First Family & current administration.

Atlanta, GA

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO?

Don't have a specific name, but I definitely change my image whenever I go to LA.  I really watch what I eat and workout intensely before I head out so I can wear outfits I would never wear here in Atlanta.  And I forget I'm somebody's Mama - just kidding, kinda.  I call myself a drag queen sometimes.  I love wearing the wigs/weaves & the short, short, dresses or tight pants, but it's a bit much for all the time.  I love my low-key jogging pants or jeans & sneakers look for day-to-day, but LOVE going full glam whenever I can.  The funny thing is when I run into people from my gym out in the "real world", they barely recognize me, but the gym me is the real me - no make-up, natural hair (scarf optional), old sweat pants and probably stinky.

 

WHY?

Even though Atlanta is very image-conscious, LA is completely different. Since I am an actress, how I look is very important, but not so important that I think it is what makes me - it's just a shell, something to draw people in.  I'm normally very confident, but I love the attention I get when I'm in full-glam mode.  And I love the fact that people enjoy talking to someone who's funny & personable, who they may have thought was just another pretty face.

  

8. Kelly Mitchell

Spelman Sister

Manager, Business Development at GlobalHue

New York, NY

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO? Veterinarian

 

WHY? My alter ego is a veterinarian because I love animals and tend to be my most compassionate when I am around them. The peace and comfort I feel when I am interacting with an animal is unlike anything I feel with human interaction. I put my pretty, prissiness aside only in those moments. I am a dog owner and animal lover.

 

9. Karen Chilton

Author, “HAZEL SCOTT: The Pioneering Journey of a Jazz Pianist from Café Society to Hollywood to HUAC” (University of Michigan Press)

New York, NY

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO? Jazz vocalist SARAH VAUGHAN  

 

WHY?  Music is my first artistic love. I studied classical piano as a child and fell in love with jazz growing up on the Southside of Chicago, while listening to the ‘Daddy O’Daly radio show’ with my parents on Sunday afternoons. Although there are dozens of jazz vocalists whom I adore, the lush vocals of Sarah Vaughan have always had, in my estimation, transformative power. She is (not was) the quintessential jazz vocalist, having the ability to transport listeners in a way that carries you inside of the song by virtue of her full-bodied interpretations of every note, every lyric. You’ve not heard “September Song” until you’ve heard Sarah sing it. “The Man I Love” is absolute magnificence pouring from her lips; “My Funny Valentine” and “Misty”—forget it!  She used her musical gift to do what Art should do—move an audience to its feet, to inspire and uplift. And even with all my musical training, when asked to sing, I typically decline. In utter devotion to Sarah’s sound and style, I thought, if I can’t sing like Sarah, what’s the point? Sarah Vaughan’s legacy of true artistry, vocal grace and beauty endures. If I could fly back in time, I’d land on some smoky stage in a Parisian hideaway, blowing all night til my dress is soaked and my skin glistening with sweat, singing nostalgic tunes to an appreciative crowd, with a slamming trio at my back.

  

10. Aquilla Mcintosh

SPELMAN SISTER

Working with retail establishment – assisting them in revamping their fashion line to attract a broader audience. She and her husband have a non-profit transition home assisting ex-felons in their re-entry into society.

Atlanta, GA

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO? "Being a parent."

WHY? Having a stepson has allowed the "Mother/Parenting" in me (which was inherently inactive due to having no biological children and being an only child) to come forth and now has become my second person. 

 

11. Marcia Cole

Founder and CEO, Ivy Communications, Inc. Currently operates a beauty and fashion website; pitching beauty; and fashion-based programming.

New York, NY

 

WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO? Oprah… Serena Williams… and Grace Jones.

 

WHY? Oprah because of her business acumen; Serena Williams because of her athletic ability and her business smarts; Grace Jones because she is FAB at 60 and I want to look like her when I am that age!

 

WHICH AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN HAVE THE BEST (OR MOST COMPELLING) ALTER EGOS?

CELEBRITIES WE KNOW & IN THEIR OWN RIGHT:

 

1.  Mara Schiavocampo 

 30 and proud! 

 NBC News Digital Correspondent

 New York, NY

 

• Beyonce!!! I Love Sasha Fierce.
  

 

2. Ledisi

NEW CD “Turn Me Loose” and projects that empower women to love themselves. I am currently speaking to different Historic Black Universities and Colleges for UNCF (United Negro College Fund) being apart of an empowerment series to encourage students to be their best.

Los Angeles, CA

 

 

• I don't know (which African American women have the most compelling alter egos) because everyone I loved has always been themselves. I will say it was amazing watching clips of how shy Ella Fitzgerald was in her personal life. When she sang she was on fire. It reminded me of me. I love that part of her.

 

3. Mother Love

AGE: Middle Earlies

Diabetes Awareness Tour

Pasadena, CA

 

• I think business women, writers, actors and entertainers all have to have an alter ego because we have to do so much role playing and hat wearing to do daily. We need these alter egos to be able to do what we have to do.

 

4. Sheryl Lee Ralph

Actress/Singer; “Original Deena” in Dreamgirls; “Moesha”

My DIVA (DIVINELY INSPIRED VICTORIOUSLY ANOINTED) PROJECT is getting ready to make its way back to Africa and I am creating a few reality shows with a touch of real to them.

W. Hollywood, CA

 

• Grace Jones. Her “male” alter ego was so strong, people believe she has a twin brother. Does she? (EDITOR’S NOTE: He does. But he is a bishop. Not a cross-dresser – further underscoring how compelling Grace’s masculine persona showed up.)
• Tina Turner. She created and became her alter ego in order to save herself. And it worked. Who’s Anna Mae?

 

5. Bridget Bland

26

SPELMAN SISTER

Reality star: “Harlem Heights”

3^RD year Law Student at Rutgers Law Newark; entertainment columnist for BV Newswire; launching a brand-engagement firm called What’Snext

New York, NY

 

• Beyonce and Sasha Fierce
• Wendy Williams
• Naomi Campbell
• Diana Ross

 

 

6. Tamala Jones

Actress

Los Angeles, CA

 

• I think Beyonce has the best alter ego, Sasha Fierce. When Sasha hits the stage, you’re in for a major treat . Sasha makes you wish you could sing & move like her & I love her Divatude.  When Beyonce leaves Sasha on the stage & is out just being Beyonce, you get a gentle, warm & inviting woman who you have to give praise to for working so hard.

 

7. Judge Glenda Hatchett

 Current Projects: Parent Power Now!, which will officially begin January 1, 2010 and will be the premiere global social networking site for parents ( parentpowernow.com); In advance of the 2010 launch, I will roll out the One Million Dreams Campaign to encourage 1 million parents to post their children's dreams. "We are going to  be in the business of posting our children's dreams and not their bail!" . The campaign is currently posted on Parentpowernow.com. I have  established a production company , Great Day Productions, and am currently developing television, movie  and stage projects.

Atlanta, GA

 

• Drawing a blank.

 

8. Shaun Robinson

Spelman sister

"Access Hollywood" anchor/reporter; Author, "Exactly As I Am"

Los Angeles, CA

* Beyonce

 

WHICH AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN HAVE THE BEST (OR MOST COMPELLING) ALTER EGOS?

PATRICK’S SPELMAN SISTERS & OTHER DIVA FRIENDS

 

1. Jacqualine Simone Williams

40, but not over the hill (yet)

Mass media/feature documentary

West Allis, WI 

 

• Whoopi Goldberg to me has several alter-egos living inside.  She has a way to make her point clear.
• Maya Angelou has many sides of her that she rarely reveals (she is deep). 

 

2. Joicleyn Dingle

38

senior editor at celebrity web mag; writer/director of short film (in rehearsal phase); working on book of African American Men

Brooklyn, NY

 

• Diana Ross
  
• Beyonce
• Taraji P Henson
  

 

3. Michaela angela Davis

40something

Creative Consultant BET, The Shine Society mentoring group, Style TV Show (in development)

Brooklyn NY

 

• Of course I love Beyonce's Sasha Fierce - a brilliant way to protect her privacy
• I don't know what Michelle Obama's alter ego is BUT I bet it is pretty fierce too.

 

4. Sharmell Sullivan Huffman

  Spelman sister

  Actress on television in the world of Professional Wrestling

 Houston, TX 

 

• Beyonce has a very compelling alter ego. 

5. Lorielle M. N. Broussard,

28

Spelman sister

Stylist/designer (for Ciara)/Costume Designer/Producer (Purple Stuff TV)

Los Angeles, CA

 

 

* Oprah, Michelle Obama, Janet Jackson and Beyonce.  To me these women have the best alter egos because they show you what they want to show you and it's not deceiving.  They are doing what they do best without giving and sharing all of themselves, you've got to leave some things left unsaid and leave for the ones closest to you.

 

 

6. Syreta J. Oglesby

28

Spelman sister

Publicist/Author

Newark, NJ

 

• In my opinion, I think the African American women who have the best alter egos would have to be: Janelle Monae, Beyonce Knowles, Grace Jones, and actress Kerry Washington.

 

7. Karen Mauldin Ceesay 

Spelman sister

Actress/Producer

I shot "Drop Dead Diva" & "One Tree Hill" this summer - currently producing a sitcom I wrote for the internet, "loosely" based on the First Family & current administration.

Atlanta, GA

 

• I really don't know.  Of course, I'll think of something brilliant in two weeks. 

 

8. Kelly Mitchell

Spelman Sister

Manager, Business Development at GlobalHue

New York, NY

 

• Beyonce and Sasha Fierce. Beyonce has mastered having two sides and is alter ego. Period. She has mastered it because her fans love when she’s wind-milling her head on stage and giving the performance of a lifetime but we also appreciate the quiet, humble, Southern girl that’s Jay-Z’s wife.

 

9. Karen Chilton

Author, “HAZEL SCOTT: The Pioneering Journey of a Jazz Pianist from Café Society to Hollywood to HUAC” (University of Michigan Press)

New York, NY

 

• There are truly too many to name. We could all begin with our mothers and grandmothers, the fierce freedom fighters who held families and communities together with a smile, a touch, a selfless deed. Any Black woman, known and lesser known, who has been bold enough to express herself freely in spite of societal limitations, false perceptions, and stereotypes. This definition stretches far beyond the confines of entertainment, but includes women in every field of endeavor, from the performing arts to politics, education to medicine, the ministry to the military. It is through their (our) courageous example of unyielding fortitude that has helped shape and define Black womanhood for the world.

 

10. Aquilla Mcintosh

SPELMAN SISTER

Working with retail establishment – assisting them in revamping their fashion line to attract a broader audience. She and her husband have a non-profit transition home assisting ex-felons in their re-entry into society.

Atlanta, GA

 

• Michelle Obama
• Donna Brazile
• Iman

 

11. Marcia Cole

Founder and CEO, Ivy Communications, Inc. Currently operates a beauty and fashion website; pitching beauty; and fashion-based programming.

New York, NY

 

• It would be Beyonce since she is the only one who has stated she has an alter ego that I really recall.

 

PATRICK’S ALTER EGO LIST

 

1. Beyonce – Sasha Fierce

 

I mean, what can you say? She’s managed to craft something so obvious and cliché into a phenomena. And she’s just disciplined enough to make us believe she’s the sweet, humble, and demure girl from Texas with the boldness, fierceness, and DIVA-tude to generate SPARKS whenever she hits the stage inside her Sasha Fierce alter-ego. YOU GO, GIRL!

 

1. Janet Jackson

 

So much of our identification with Janet stems from her being Michael and boys’ baby sister. Even as she worked her way through adolescence, she was the “good girl” or “the girl next door”. But then, when she found her CONTROL, she morphed into MISS JACKSON (IF YOU’RE NASTY) and we were sold… and have continued to buy her re-invented policy each time she goes darker, fiercer, and nastier…

 

1. Grace Jones

 

When Grace Jones sang “My Jamaican Guy”, I remember thinking that maybe she was the guy. My pre-pubescent self couldn’t reconcile what I was seeing and if it was a man or a woman. But I knew it was compelling. Over time, I figured she was a woman. But her masculinity purred through so fiercely that I could only bow at her feet and exclaim: STRANGER!!!!!!!

 

1. Kim Coles

 

So easy to get it twisted that my girlfriend Kim Coles is very much like her character Sinclaire who she played to convincing effect on Fox sitcom LIVING SINGLE. But hear me now, Ms. Kim Coles is nowhere getting her micro-braids stuck in the fax machine like her alter ego Sinclaire (one of many that the comic-timing expert has perfected over the years). Instead, she is truly a KIMPIRE – a woman that knows her worth and her brand. And has the bookings to prove it – including a run as the first African American game show host on BET’s “Pay It Off”.

1. Nina Simone

 

To hear her sing “FOUR WOMEN” or “MISSISSIPPI GODDAMN”, you might think you’re listening to Fred Sanford as the raspy, husky, baritone coughs those notes out. But to see her behind the piano or the microphone with a crown of tresses stretching up to the sky, you’re clear that Nina Simone is an African Queen from another time and place. And she is FIERCE! No wonder she had to run away to Europe to maintain a following that understood her or didn’t mind being confused by her.

 

 

1. Patti LaBelle

 

Patti’s real name is Patricia. And the first time that big voice was heard was in the church. But the world needed to hear her. And from Philly or wherever she is – with or without a mic, we hear her and we love her. But since she’s so shy, the woman we usually experience when she is in concert – at least those big shows in the ‘80s (fans growing out of her scalp and all), she was Priscilla – perhaps Sasha Fierce’s grandmother. And baby! Watch out! She might be flinging a lash and her four-inch heels.

 

1. Vanessa Williams

 

We know Vanessa Williams has the right stuff. But for all of her multi-hyphenated splendor over these many years, how hot is it that in her 40s, she’s managed to convince us of yet another ‘alter ego’ in her person: Wilhelmina Slater on ABC’s “Ugly Betty”. If I didn’t personally know how sweet she was, I’d believe her Evillene-in-Prada bit.

 

1. Kandi & the “Real Housewives of Atlanta”

 

So Atlanta-based photographer Derek Blanks has been doing alter ego photo shoots with all the Atlanta elite for years now. But on BRAVO’s “Real Housewives of Atlanta”, NeNe organized a shoot for all the ladies… and become the project’s director. They were to do what she said as their pose and their alter ego pose. Kandi decided to take the concept into her hands. She spoke of how she had to postpone her engagement party because a drunken driver hit one of her now-dead fiance's relatives. She used that as motivation to do something positive with the photo shoot, posing as both the drunk and the victim. NeNe decided that Lisa would pose as a good girl and as a bad girl. Lisa played along, and looked great. Kim refused NeNe's idea for her to pose as a black person, and instead posed as a Stepford wife and as a mistress. Sheree posed as herself, and as a sexy robber who wants "seven figures" -- a jab at her divorce. NeNe posed as a conservative woman at a strip club, and as a stripper. 

1. Mariah Carey

 

Mariah’s alter-egos – from Mimi to MC2 to “Imperfect Angel” to Butterfly to Charm bracelet to Rainbow --- all seem to spell Mariah. This, until her most recent “Obsessed” video when she showed up as her nemesis Eminem. Convincing though ill-advised. We just love you as Mariah! Keep singing pretty, girl!

 

 

1. Diana Ross

 

When Miss Ross hits the stage, it’s narcissistic nirvana. She’s in that round or center stage. She’s in beautiful drag – from head to toe. There’s a spotlight. And all others are in the shadows of her glory. Who would know the degree to which she is – quite simply – mom with five successful examples to boot? But it’s true. Snatch off that wig and those lashes, throw you on some Uggs and a fanny pack, and drop by Ralphs and see what the most successful female singer in the history of pop is most proud of: Motherhood. 20 #1 songs notwithstanding and a bunch of other drama. For her, it’s BABY LOVE! And now, she must shed all that diva-ness --- one layer further --- as she steps into ‘grandmotherhood’ through oldest daughter Rhonda who just gave birth to her first child (and the first grandchild from any of Diana’s troop).

Patrick L. Riley

A Day In "The Life Of Riley"

"A Day in the Life of Riley: Pop Culture & Possibilities"

 

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Key Museum Events/Dates: 

 

- Thurs., Sept. 10, 6:00pm  Opening of Exhibition 

 

- Thurs., Oct. 22, 2:30pm   Conversation w/Artist Renèe Cox and Art historian Lisa  

Farrington, Ph.D. @ Spelman Museum 

 

- Thurs., Oct. 22, 7:00pm   Artist Lecture: Renèe Cox (Atlanta Celebrates Photography,  

Spelman Women's Research and Resource Center, High Museum) 

at High Museum of Art, Hill auditorium 

 

- Wed., Nov. 4, 4:00pm Undercover Open House  @ Spelman Museum 

 

- Thurs., Nov. 10, 6:30pm   Deep Cover: An Interactive Gallery Walk with exhibition  

Curators Andrea Barnwell Brownlee, Ph.D. and Karen Comer Lowe 

 

- Wed., Dec. 10, 6:30pm   Closing Reception  

 

Links: 

View "Undercover" mini-tour on YouTube - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KEzcKXSLuLo

 

Follow us on Twitter@spelmanmuseum

 

Become a Fan on Facebook 

Learn more at www.spelmanmuseum.org

 

ACP Artists lecture 10/22 - http://festivalguide.acpinfo.org/listings/view/374

 

Reviews: 

1) Arts Critic Catherine Fox’s Blog in ArtscriticATL http://artsatl.typepad.com/artscriticatl/page/3/

 

2) Meghan Norman’s Review and Commentary Blog in Burnaway.org http://ow.ly/rnqM

 

 

Smokie Norful - Dear God (Live) 

 

It feels so good to make it this far

And I didn't think I could take it so long

There were days I wanted to quit

I said surely this is it but I held on

 

And I watched as so-called friends turn and walk away

It hurt so much I didn't have words to say

But even when my day turns to night and nothin' seems just right

Lord, I thank You for, for my life

 

For my life, Lord, I thank You

For every victory in You I've seen

And all the moments I know it was You who kept me

So I thank You for, for my life

 

And I watched you take my family from there to here

And when times where a lil' rough, God, I know You were near

And the moments I thought I'd fail, I was reminded of your nails

So I held on

 

And if I never live to see another day

There is nothin' I would change or take away

I've had so many ups that they far outweigh my downs

Lord, I thank You for my life

 

I realized some didn't make it

I could've been one of the ones who lost my way

And there was times, Lord, I knew I almost went crazy

But I'm still here with my life

 

It may not be all that I hope for

And every dream has not yet been realized

And to see Your face one day, God

I know it's all gonna be worth it

 

So I thank You, thank You for every mountain, every valley

God, everythin' You brought me through, thank You

I know, I know it was You

Just wanna take the time to say thank You Jesus, for my life

This song ‘bout had me driving off the 110 South as I was going to San Pedro this past Sunday. It says so much of what I feel inside as I am managing this L.A. living for which I am most grateful as it’s a good thing to work on a project you believe in. And even if – in my case – I’ve had to trek cross-country to hold onto it (and I have to dig even deeper into my pockets and my core to maintain my West Coast temporaries alongside my East Coast life back home), I know that I am covered and protected and supported by something and – surely – SOMEONE BIGGER THAN me.

The evidence is in MY LIFE: I am working – through likely February - on a team (as field and story producer) to bring Dubose Production’s “MONICA: STILL STANDING” to life (It premieres Tuesday, October 27^th at 10:00 pm). I am also EXCITED that I am a contributing reporter on the "We Dream A World With an African American President in The White House" in the current issue of ESSENCE Magazine (Starting on p. 156, brothers - several of whom I interviewed - examine how the image of Black manhood is evolving). I’m getting lots of cool feedback! Please check it out!

 

Meanwhile, I’m having a blast inside my blog’s partnership with Spelman College Museum of Fine Art in the promotion of “Undercover: Performing and Transforming Black Female Identities,” an original exhibition on view through December 5, 2009. (Spelman Museum Tour) As a Morehouse Man, I consider this collaboration with my 'sister alma mater' a total honor.

The exhibit 'Undercover' (detailed in the attached documents) examines the social implications of race, gender, and disguise. And the Museum emphasizes works by and about women of the African Diaspora (and well-known, mid-career, and emerging artists are a part of this exhibit - detailed in the attached documents).

But to put some POP in the effort, the marketing team sought me out to ask some CELEBRITIES and FRIENDS in my social network (and representatives of CELEBRITIES and FRIENDS in my social network) some questions - the responses of which I’ll be sprinkling into my blog next week… as well as the exhibit’s website.

 Look for fun responses from Spelman celebs like my girl Bridget Bland (of “Harlem Heights” fame) and TV actress Sharmell Sullivan Huffman; and others like NBC Digital Correspondent Mara Schiavocampo; soul singer Ledisi; style expert Michaela Angela Davis; DIVA Sheryl Lee Ralph; and many more. BY THE WAY, WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO? 

 

Mariah Carey - ribbon (studio Version)

 

It's only been 20 good minutes since I kissed you

Come back boo, I miss you

Wish I had 20 million hours to caress you

And undress you, to be continued

Boy you, you don't know how it feels when you whisper in my ear

Boy you, you give my body chills whenever you are near

 

And boy I got your lovin' on my mind

I got your lovin' on my mind

You got me wrapped up, packed up

Ribbon with a bow on it

 

Sometimes we argue and we fight

But they better know that that's my baby

You might even think he cute

But everybody knows that I'm his lady

Every time you see us, we super fly

So proud he's by my side

He knows I'm ride or die

You don't know how we roll

Holla at your people

Boy you, you don't know how it feels when you whisper in my ear

Boy you, you give my body chills whenever you are near

 

Got ribbon with a bow on it baby

Boy you don't even know the things you do

I could spend my whole life with you

 

I got your lovin' on my mind

Baby I could spend my life with you

It's been 20 good minutes since I kissed you

Come back boo I miss you

 

Okay, so Ant played this new Mariah chestnut from her “Memoirs of an Imperfect Angel” and – like Janet’s “With U” from “20 Y.O.” – he’s declared this "our song". Of course, the crier that I am, the tears poured down my cheeks as I took him to the airport last week when he was here for DIVAS: SIMPLY SINGING. (Truthfully this long distance doesn’t feel like it’s getting better. But now we have something to look forward to as I am going home for my birthday and Thanksgiving before returning to L.A. to complete the two months of post-production on MONICA).

In the meantime, we do what we can to stay amused respectively. Last week, my dear friend Zabrina (BET PR) called me in the 11th hour with a ticket to attend The Fox Reality Channel's 2009 REALLY Awards - chockfull of reality TVs best - including nominees and presenters Tiny & Toya - from the Dubose production family of which I'm apart these days a la "Monica: Still Standing" and "Frankie & Neffe". Also in attendance: Vivica A. Fox (host); Paris Hillton; Hugh Hefner; Claudia Jordan; Ray J; Hammer; Antonio Sabata; American Idol's 'bikini girl'; Nikki Hilton; Kim Kardashian; ATL Housewife Kim; Aaron Carter; Eric Roberts; Lorenzo Lamas; Melissa Rivers; Lance Bass; and more! After party was at AREA in West Hollywood.

Ant got to see PRECIOUS – a sneak peek of which I plan to see in the coming days here in L.A. Ant says it brought him chills and tears… and still haunts him throughout his days since he saw it. He says Mo’Nique should – for sure – win the Oscar.

My friends – new and old - have been there for me over these last days here in L.A.:

Got to connect with high school best friend Maurice Marable recently at Four Seasons (Beverly Hills). He was in town directing the new campaign for the new season of HBO series “Big Love”. Turns out he also directed Monica's campaign for BET. We are collaborating and didn't know it (since the content producing team is different from the ad campaign folks is even different from the crew that does the title sequence, who I just found out is my AUC brother Randy). We LOVE the synergy though! LOL!... and of course, the chance for Maurice and me to catch up as we're still quite close, but don't see each other often enough with our respective busy-ness.

Afterwards, connected with friends Brian, Li-Ling, and J for Fashion Week party at The O Hotel in Downtown L.A. And did I mention that Brian accidentally dropped my camera? Soon to be replaced. Meanwhile, this file photo of Maurice and me will have to do. http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2007/3/4/-weve-come-a-long-way-baby.html

And in the wake of a stressful Friday (date changes on L.A. project and assignment tweaks), my friends Brian and Kelly called me off the cliff and out (on them) - starting with Zanzibar in Santa Monica. Then, friends Derek & Keith asked us to join them at Dragonfly. And from there, Denny's (after Roscoe's Chicken & Waffles was closed). GOOD FRIENDS (and sponsors) can protect us from the damage a fall can do.

From that moment, friends Derek and Keith invited Brian and me to a rooftop set in Downtown L.A. yesterday. Good folks. Good food. Afterwards, Derek and I capped night off - briefly - in WEHO. Another spot to which he took me is La Velvet Margarita Cantina. On this night, I jaunted over to Tony & Scott's place to taste Scott's father's pound cake & Tony's red velvet cake. Love my friends for providing me cheap and/or sponsored comforts as I manage my East Coast/West Coast situation.

And to cap off this most recent weekend, many headed to Brian's San Pedro digs for a cookout (and more football! LOL!). And then, Derek, Keith, and I enjoyed an evening at THE ABBEY – all in a weekend.

 

http://www.youtube.com/user/greattime007#p/u/11/mDVK-4tET4M

 

Everybody look around

'Cause there's a reason to rejoice you see

Everybody come out

And let's commence to singing joyfully

Everybody look up

And feel the hope that we've been waiting for

 

Everybody's glad

Because our silent fear and dread is gone

Freedom, you see, has got our hearts singing so joyfully

Just look about

You owe it to yourself to check it out

Can't you feel a brand new day?

 

Everybody be glad

Because the sun is shining just for us

Everybody wake up

Into the morning into happiness

 

Hello world

It's like a different way of living now

And thank you world

We always knew that we'd be free somehow

In harmony

And show the world that we've got liberty

 

It's such a change

For us to live so independently

Freedom, you see, has got our hearts singing so joyfully

Just look about

You owe it to yourself to check it out

Can't you feel a brand new day?

Well, it should be no news that President Obama is being awarded the Nobel Peace Prize! Go Obama! Yayyy Peace! Since my Diana was the featured performer at the Nobel Peace Prize concert in Norway last year (Diana Ross - Supremes Medley live at the Nobel ...), of course I’ve been wondering who would be the featured entertainment this year. Ross has a show ready as she just performed in Amsterdam for two sold-out shows (30,000-seat arena) for the Symphonica in Rosso. This spectacular is an annual concert series that years prior featured Dutch artists Marco Borsato and Paul de Leeuw; and her former and fellow Motown mate and duet partner Lionel Richie. The show was BIG – featuring many costume changes; the 40-piece Symphonica in Rosso-orchestra; dancers; and Diana’s amazing voice and catalog – including Netherland favorites like “Ease on Down The Road”. And one of my favorites: “Brand New Day” (also an homage to her ‘Wiz’ co-star Michael Jackson) -

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQWF_CZnSP8

 

.

 

http://www.youtube.com/user/greattime007#p/u/11/mDVK-4tET4M

Meanwhile, “CALL TO THE OBAMAS? MISS ROSS is workin’ it… and notwithstanding a diaper change to her new grandbaby boy… could serve the world yet again with a sparkling performance of Nobel worthiness…”. Just saying…

 

Hi folks,

Spelman College Museum of Fine Art has partnered with my blog "A Day in the Life of Riley: Pop Culture & Possibilities" in the promotion of “Undercover: Performing and Transforming Black Female Identities,” an original exhibition on view through December 5, 2009. As a Morehouse Man, I consider this collaboration with my 'sister alma mater' a total honor.

The exhibit 'Undercover' (detailed in the attached documents) examines the social implications of race, gender, and disguise. And the Museum emphasizes works by and about women of the African Diaspora (and well-known, mid-career, and emerging artists are a part of this exhibit - detailed in the attached documents).

But to put some POP in the effort, the marketing team sought me out to ask some CELEBRITIES and FRIENDS in my social network (and representatives of CELEBRITIES and FRIENDS in my social network) some questions - the responses of which we can sprinkle in my blog and on the exhibit's website.

AND ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS REPLY TO THE FOLLOWING VIA THIS EMAIL (Nothing formal. Just your answers... and any elaboration you choose to share):

1. WHO IS YOUR ALTER EGO?

2. WHY?

3. IN YOUR OPINION, WHICH AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN HAVE THE BEST (OR MOST COMPELLING) ALTER EGOS?

4. PLEASE PROVIDE THE FOLLOWING:

 NAME

 AGE <optional>

 CURRENT PROJECT(S)

 MAILING ADDRESS

 EMAIL ADDRESS

 PHONE NUMBER

With Chris Rock's "Good Hair", Disney's upcoming African American Princess Tiana ("The Princess and the Frog"), Mattel's new line of Black Barbies, it's clear that Black women are guiding and monitoring themselves throughout the world in a number of image-altering ways. With that, we want some feedback from you... and to see how ALTER EGOs show up in your life and the lives of the women we LOVE and ADMIRE - artistically, in reality, or both. 

If you have any pointed questions, please email me at patarack@hotmail.com and/or patarack_riley@yahoo.com. If it's easier for us to talk about it on the phone, don't hesitate to call me at 201.965.7250. 

And once I put my entries together for my blog or the exhibit's website, I'll be sure to send you the link.

I look forward to receiving your answers as soon as possible. I will begin to get these responses out to the site(s) by FRIDAY, OCTOBER 23rd and they will continue to run through DECEMBER.

THANKS - as always - for your support!

Patrick L. Riley

A Day In "The Life Of Riley"

"A Day in the Life of Riley: Pop Culture & Possibilities"

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Key Museum Events/Dates: 

- Thurs., Sept. 10, 6:00pm  Opening of Exhibition 

 

- Thurs., Oct. 22, 2:30pm   Conversation w/Artist Renèe Cox and Art historian Lisa  

Farrington, Ph.D. @ Spelman Museum 

 

- Thurs., Oct. 22, 7:00pm   Artist Lecture: Renèe Cox (Atlanta Celebrates Photography,  

Spelman Women's Research and Resource Center, High Museum) 

at High Museum of Art, Hill auditorium 

 

- Wed., Nov. 4, 4:00pm Undercover Open House  @ Spelman Museum 

 

- Thurs., Nov. 10, 6:30pm   Deep Cover: An Interactive Gallery Walk with exhibition  

Curators Andrea Barnwell Brownlee, Ph.D. and Karen Comer Lowe 

 

- Wed., Dec. 10, 6:30pm   Closing Reception  

 

Links: 

View "Undercover" mini-tour on YouTube - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KEzcKXSLuLo  

Follow us on Twitter@spelmanmuseum 

Become a Fan on Facebook 

Learn more at www.spelmanmuseum.org

ACP Artists lecture 10/22 - http://festivalguide.acpinfo.org/listings/view/374

 

Reviews: 

1) Arts Critic Catherine Fox’s Blog in ArtscriticATL http://artsatl.typepad.com/artscriticatl/page/3/ 

2) Meghan Norman’s Review and Commentary Blog in Burnaway.org http://ow.ly/rnqM