A DAY IN "THE LIFE OF RILEY"

THE GAME - 1/11/11

So EVERYONE is ABUZZ about the PREMIERE of "The Game" on BET.

This entry was to be more of a P.S. But before its 1/11/11 DEBUT on BET, I stumbled into the opportunity to CONGRATULATE BET's President and CEO Debra Lee with tidings of high-ratings and quality entertainment. This, while I was on a quick shoot at BET's NYC headquarters in Times Square... and she just happened to be in the office.But also, I have to shout out creator of "The Game" (and "Girlfriends") - my friend Mara Brock-Akil and her husband and professional partner Salim (who is running this show which shot in Atlanta). They are actually in NYC for the big 1/11/11 PREMIERE... and I got to SHOUT THEM OUT in person as well. More acurately, Mara and Salim are friends of two dear friends (Nichole & Carl), but we all are quite fond of each other.

In fact, Nichole was gracious to ensure my face was in the place to watch "THE GAME" with everybody at Butter in Downtown Manhattan (just as the snow storm began). Nichole truly understands that this story is a GREAT EXAMPLE of where "POP CULTURE" and "POSSIBILITIES" meet at the pass in "... THE LIFE OF RILEY...". It's always a further pleasure to be able to communicate NOT INTO THIN AIR, but often to MARA and SALIM DIRECTLY, my praise and criticques of their AWESOME WORK. 

First things first, I got to meet all of the cast members. Each of them was so nice. And all of them are so happy that BET has picked up the show. At one point, Salim (whose Uncle Rick is a dear friend of mine) gave a speech that celebrated the "powerful women" in his professional world (and - of course - his personal world: MARA). Then, Mara took everybody to church as she "testified" on how she felt - as show-runner for the "The Game" that was canceled by CW - that she had let 'the team' down. And speaking through the emotions, the suddenly tear-filled cast (and me) assured her she did the best she could. And as Mara put it, inside the stillness and the crossroad, BET stepped up to the plate and reminded them all that they are loved and worthy. But it wasn't all crying. When we all sat down to watch the premiere of "The Game", it was like watching a movie in the theater. Our mouths dropped and our eyes were wide open during various parts. It was fun to see the cast-members watch themselves... and shout out to my friends Mara and Salim for their stellar script-writing. And it was so cute to see Wendy Raquel Robinson (Tasha Mack) trying on "The View"s Sherri Shephard's Donatella Versace heels. Also, a shout out to my friend Ron Donovan - shoe designer with the most. Coincidentally, the episode of "Mo'Nique" that came on after "The Game"s follow-up "Let's Stay Together" featured its host in Ron's shoes. GO RON! Afterwards, we all shared a car back to our respective snow digs. Mara and Salim - who say they respect my opinion about their shows in particular - asked what I really thought... no chaser! And in addition to celebrating them for how well they light "Black folks", I told them I was sick to my stomach as if I had been on a treacherous rollercoaster ride. "... and I loved it and want to go on the ride again!" LOL! I also "begged" Mara and Salim to consider a "Girlfriends" finale on "The Game" (perhaps if there's an additonal season on BET?). To remind you, "Joan" - Tracee Ellis Ross' character on "Girlfriends" - is Melanie Barnett's first cousin (as played by Tia Mowry-Hardrict).

So, my thought is Melanie could leave San Diego for a weekend to attend and participate in her cousin Joan's wedding in L.A. During the wedding, Toni and Joan reunite. VOILA, right? BUT FOR NOW, we'll all just bask in the UNPRECEDENTED EXCITEMENT of a show we LOVE getting resuscitated on an iconic network that will take care of it! WIN-WIN!!!

20-11 IS HERE!!!!!

PRE-NEW YEAR’S

Upon my return from Savannah and Atlanta, I stumbled into enough to keep me entertained – including a welcome reunion with my Chicago-based Morehouse brother Eddie. We went to Nectar Wine Bar in Harlem. Then, my buddies Jamar, Ryan, Mario (also a Morehouse brother), and I hung out. Ultimately, we all ended up at friend Nathan’s Wednesday SPLASH set.

TODAY SHOW

The next night – as in the eve of the eve – was to simply be ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT. But as soon as I scooped Ant up from his Denver travels, I received a call from NBC’s TODAY SHOW – asking me to participate in a brief interview – excerpt of which would be included in a piece my friend Mara Schiavocampo, NBC News’ Digital Correspondent was filing for New Year’s Eve day on the ball drop in New York Times Square. Though a link (to share with you) has still evaded me, it ran all day – between two hours inside TODAY and several rounds on MSNBC. Though a brief sound-bite of my pop culture analysis was used, it counts as my "debut" on THE TODAY SHOW! I've been a recurring presence on NBC's air for a couple of years now   - including:

 * "NBC Nightly News w/Brian Williams" (on-line) - OBAMA'S POUND: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FXc6x5JlJuw

* "NBC Nightly News w/Brian Williams" (on-line) - THE LAST DECADE: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5pYKZBjEx40

And I'm hoping to do more with MSNBC and NBC-owned WWW.THEGRIO.COM - which has expressed interest in re-purposing some of my content - here in 2011! STAY TUNED! The plan is to build on my TV personality work this year! http://216.117.188.141/PRiley/PatrickGeneralReel.wmv

ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT

Please be sure to come by and join us this Thursday January 13^th for ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT at NATIVE Restaurant (LENOX AVENUE & 118^th Street). On the eve of the eve, we had such a GREAT TIME! I mentioned my Morehouse BFF Eddie was in town. So, after my TODAY taping, I rushed up to Harlem’s new restaurant THE RED ROOSTER to join him and his friends. Then, our ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT was the place to be – including many friends… and even family… in the house – including my Marcia Pendelton (Walk Tall Girl Productions); Marva Hill (Hue-Man Bookstore in Harlem); my nephew; his Spelman sister Evelyn; Sidra; Ern; Tata; and others. This past Thursday was also a great FIRST ALL-STAR KARAOKE for 2011. In fact, we even had a surprise guest, but I have to wait to tell you who. STAY TUNED. I'll hip you after she gives me permission to say... HOPE TO SEE YOU NEXT THURSDAY! We never know who will drop by...!!!!! WILL IT BE YOU????? Can anybody bring MISS HILSON by...? Keri Hilson's latest muse (a la ROSS) is proving a distraction these days. I CAN'T KEEP MY EYES OFF OF HER! GO KERI! LOL! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TAuBulJ1bTk

 HAPPY 2011

Ant, Ern, Kimberly, and I came into 2011 together by way of Cindy and her fiance John’s NEW YEAR'S BASH… on the Jersey side! The event was well-appointed w/good people; food; and - of course - a cocktail or two! NO HANGOVERS though! There's work to do in 20-11!!!! ALRIGHT!!!!!!!? And Kimberly hosted a lovely dinner to set the year off right! In fact, Leonard Joseph who I've known for years (through Kim) hipped me to something I never knew about him. He plays the piano in Whitney Houston's "I'm Your Baby Tonight" video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0H-jLOoz-YY. So while at Kimberly's place, she led me to an article that was inside a beautifully-bound family history book that Kimberly's family put together. Since some of her family members are/were members of the United House of Prayer for All People - the church in which both of my parents' families reared them, she thought I'd get a kick out of one particular article. It was from 'The Washington Afro American" (a Black paper during the day). The dateline was May 22, 1962. And what I would go onto read kinda' spooked me out. In bold, my mother's name: QUEEN B. RILEY and also in the article, the names of many near and dear - including my Aunt Goldie (Dad's sister who hosted our Christmas dinner 2010); my cousin who is much like an Aunt Mamie Haines Prescott (Haines as in the maiden name of my mother's mother Saphronia whose brother Ned is Mamie's father); Willie Mae McCoy (dear family friend); Richard Williams (whose father was my dad's father's first cousin); and others. See the excerpt here:  
The Washington Afro-American
May 22, 1962
 
HEADLINE:
McCollough Bares Three Million $ Building Plan

EXCERPT:

"...When Bishop McCollough arrived at the House of Prayer, he was thonged by friends and well-wishers. The Grace Band played a march as the religious leader marched smiling down the aisles of the House of Prayer. Savannah's Grace Soldiers and Grace WACS performed marching routines, high - lighted by the mass information of a large "V" to signify Daddy McCollough's lop-sided victory. Bishop McCollough was then presented with an illuminating cape by Richard Williams, representing the Grace Soldiers, a crown by Beatrice Mars, representing the Grace Jubilaires and a staff by Willie Mae McCoy, representing the Grace WACS. Sister Queen B. Riley officially welcomed Bishop McCollough to Savannah by reciting an inspiring welcome address. Mamie Haines Prescott was mistress of ceremony. She presented a complete gospel and spiritual program for Bishop McCollough..."

BET, AFUWI, & ME

So recurring client BET has asked me back to produce tribute videos for the American Foundation for the University of the West Indies. Suzanne DePasse is one of honorees. You’ll recall, my Savannah homeboy Maurice Marable – a VP of Creative Services at BET (and an AWESOME film/TV director in his own right) - hooked me up with this relationship which has had me in BET’s mix several times last year.

I co-produced BET’s Black History Month campaign in 2010. I was booked to conduct backstage celeb interviews at BET Honors and SOS: Haiti telethon. And via DUBOSE ENTERTAINMENT (in 2009), I was field and story producer on two of BET’s big hits: “Monica: Still Standing” and “Frankie & Neffe”.

And as developments go, it seems each of those journeys was worth the trip as ‘Frankie’ is focusing on getting clean and sober via "Dr. Drew's Celebrity Rehab" on VH-1 – a steady prayer of mine while working on the show. And Monica – after all the work she put into her comeback as chronicled by our team – deserves CONGRATULATIONS as the recipient of two GRAMMY NOMINATIONS!!!!! GO MO!!!!! And THANKS MO (as in Maurice)!

THE GLOBAL AFRICA PROJECT

See The Global Africa Project @ The Museum of Arts & Design in NYC! 100 Artists From Around the World! Open Late Thursdays, Special Admission http://bit.ly/9uFXjN
For more information, click here: http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2011/1/5/your-invitation-to-experience-the-global-africa-project-in-n.html.

LOVE/YOUTH

Shout out to Bridgit Evans (pictured left) for inviting me to participate in LOVE/YOUTH - a charitable theater project that explores the roots of bullying and harassment of LGBT youth. Stay tuned for an April performance of LOVE/YOUTH. She plucked me from ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT and invited me (along with Pernell, pictured above right - another ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT SUPERSTAR) and a number of performing artists together to workshop the content that will make up this charity benefit event. Bridgit assigned me to sing Antony & The Johnsons' "Hope There's Someone": http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=loNU4fVpO8E. Other great exploratory included: Keith Josef Adkins' play 'The Cycle of Infliction'. STAY TUNED for more on that, but I consider it a TOTAL HONOR to be using my singing (and a bit of my acting) talents alongside some AWESOME folks – including Bridgit; Keith Josef Adkins; Chandra Thomas; Daniel Carlton; director Tyrone Brown; and more! Bridgit wrote:”…The Lab day for the LOVE/YOUTH charity benefit event exploring LGBT bullying brought me to tears a number of times. Too much beauty to name everyone. But let's just say that Patrick L. Riley's rendition of Antony And The Johnsons 'Hope There's Someone' had the entire room sniffling. Thank you thank you to everyone who lent your time. I love you….” Just so you know (per Bridgit's words), this project arose out of the concern and heartbreak expressed by a group of high-profile and emerging theater and music artists who desired to leverage the incredible resources of the arts community to address bullying in our schools and to help build a world where all children and youth are free to be who they are without fear of persecution. Earlier this week, the LOVE/YOUTH planning team had the amazing opportunity to review the dozens of 'creative artifacts' contributed by writers ranging from Grammy-winner Sinead O'Connor to OBIE winners David Henry Hwang and Kia Corthron. Grammy nominated reggae artist Matisyahu contributed a powerful rally cry of a song, while playwright Keith Josef Adkins contributed a breathtaking monologue about a man who discovers his capacity to inflict harm at the very moment he realizes his overwhelming capacity to love another person (My song is inside this scene). From 16 year old poet Elaina Crockett came a poem offering comfort and home to teen who took his life, while Olivier Award nominee Tarell Alvin McCraney offered up a harrowing tale of a family unable to act in the wake of a son's brutal beating. The pieces are complex, gorgeous and extremely exciting, and we cannot thank the writers enough for sharing them with us. STAY TUNED! Oh! And how about that Marsha Ambrosius' "Far Away" which is a cry out to the world. It's STUNNING: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ofsib2eu02o. The song and accompanying video are for the second release from her debut solo album, Late Nights & Early Mornings, due out in February 2011 (J Records). It truly makes a bold social commentary by tackling issues surrounding homosexuality and suicide. Near the close of the piece, Ambrosius discloses that she recently lost a friend to suicide, personalizing the emotion in the song.  

“A FREE MAN OF COLOR”

It’s clear that Jeffrey Wright and Mos Def have chemistry along with the genius of theater George C. Wolf. Well, compliments of my friend Ike, Ant and I got to see their latest tour de force “A Free Man of Color” which is running at the Lincoln Center’s Vivian Beaumont Theater. Ike is our theater buddy. We always go to great shows together or - in this case - not together, but when we connect, we have lots to talk about. (Afterwards, we enjoyed a nice bite with Sidra and Murphy at another new Harlem spot “Chocolat”). Another piece that Ike, the gang, and I recently enjoyed was Daniel Beaty's "THROUGH THE NIGHT". Well THIS JUST IN: "Through The Night" is going to be at the Westside Theatre for a Monday night run beginning January 24, 2011. Please be sure to check it out inside this limited run: http://www.darylrothproductions.com/throughthenight2011/full/.

“CONSIDER IT DONE”

You folks know how much MOMENTUM (www.momentumeducation.com) means to me. It’s some awesome work! Well, one of my friends from Momentum has just written a New York Times’ Best Seller (or – at least – with your help, it will be). Her tome: “CONSIDER IT DONE” – a how-to on accomplishing 228 of life’s trickiest tasks. February 1st is when it comes out! Please check it out. http://consideritdonebook.com and http://consideritdone.com and http://facebook.com/consideritdonebook and http://twitter.com/juliesubotky 

JUST AS WE ARE

So, I write all the time about our good friend Charlie T and all of her amazing photography. She and her partner Danielle often host us for special occasions i.e. Thanksgiving; The Grammys; The Oscars; etc. I've also told you about her "Just As We Are" Project - a traveling photo exhibit and campaign that highlights the positivity and diversity inside LGBT culture. She shot Ant and me for it (http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2007/12/3/i-have-a-dream-today.html). Well, Just As We Are is on fire in 2011. They've launched a new and improved website that is more interactive and user-friendly. Also, it showcases the subjects (www.justaswearetour.org). And Charlie T is hosting the first fundraiser for "Just As We Are" 2011 in conjunction with the first out NBA former player John Amaechi. Please come, if you can. We'll be at The National Arts Club, January 18, 2011.... and SPREAD THE WORD! It's gonna be FUN & FULFILLING! 

TEENA MARIE REMEMBERED FOREVER

My girlfriend Sidra knew Teena Marie well. She's personally heartbroken from her passing. She generously shared this with me... for you: "...Teena was the sweetest, most gentle, sensitive, loving, caring soul I've ever encountered. Everything about her was so sincere. I’m so happy to have called her my friend and I’m gonna miss her dearly...."

BEBE  

My friend Terrance Russ was to set up a dinner with RuPaul Drag Race winner BeBe Zahara Benet this week. This, as RUPAUL's DRAG RACE: CYCLE 3 is getting ready to take off (later this month - featuring guest judges like Vanessa L. Williams and Latoya Jackson). Due to the weather, we had to postpone. But in the words of MISS ROSS, I'M STILL WAITING... What a treat BeBe was when we met last summer. I will look forward to learning more... STAY TUNED! 

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REFLECTIONS OF THE WAY LIFE USED TO BE!

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WHAT A WHIRLWIND the last couple of weeks have been!!! Getting ready for the holidays. Doing my best to ensure new business in my mix for 2011. Making sure existing business clients send my money for services already rendered. On their own, those aforementioned tasks can be (and – in some cases for me – were) overwhelming. But on top of that, I found myself processing why certain important relationships from my past – family and friends – have gone the direction of disharmony. (Some current life circumstances re-introduced the unresolved wounds and – even here after I’ve returned home from being with my family in Georgia – I still am perplexed as to where things went wrong. I still don’t have those answers, but that cloud has subconsciously and consciously covered me as I prepared to go home to Georgia to be with my family). Though so happy to be back in the physical presence of my loved ones – blood family and chosen family, a twinge of morose accompanied me throughout December (and still). But I put my best face forward and found many opportunities to call joy forth. No amount of sadness could dwarf my many BLESSINGS!

ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT IS BACK!!!!

So this THURSDAY, DECEMBER 30^TH at NATIVE RESTAURANT in HARLEM on Lenox Avenue & 118^th Street, ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT is BACK (after a pre-Christmas break). The week before last, we had a really spirited time. Our ALL-STAR KARAOKE regulars – like Brian, Rick, Turquoise, Sidra, et al held it down (as they do) – including throwing in a few Christmas carols. But I was so EXCITED to see my Morehouse brother Nasser Metcalfe who popped by to support (between his work detail with Prince, who was in the NYC-area. MORE ON THAT IN A MINUTE). Also, singer ESNAVI (www.esnavi.com) popped by and sang brilliantly. CHECK HER NEW MUSIC OUT! Also, NBC News’ Mara Schiavocampo – one of my BFFs and AMAZING GRACES – popped right off of a plane to grace us with her rendition of Erykah Badu’s “Tyrone”. And Bangin’ Ass Artists Troy Saunders – my dear friend – came by along with Darryl – to serenade us. Keep your eye out for all he’s doing to promote GREAT MUSIC: www.banginassartists.com/.  Oh! I’ve mentioned my model buddies Cole; Paul; and Ian. Prior to ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT, I got to hang out with Ian who – along with the other fellas – was heading home for the holidays. I shout them out from time to time because they are ones to watch… and Ian actually has a singing voice with which he’s promised to grace ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT in 2011. Remember you heard it here first! HOPE TO SEE YOU ALL TOMORROW!

I’M DREAMING OF A PURPLE CHRISTMAS!

So for the five years Ant & I have been together, we’ve done the varied holidays a number of ways. He’s come to Georgia a few times. I’ve come to Denver a time or two. Sometimes, we have to do it separately where he visits his folks in Denver. And I get my solo family time in Georgia (Atlanta & Savannah). His plane ticket had him leaving last week just after he’d wrapped his work with “The Wendy Williams Show” for the year. It didn’t give us any hang time without the cloud of our respective workloads. But my girlfriend Mara and her husband Tommie came through with the opportunity for Ant & me to see PRINCE… and – VOILA! – Ant changed his flight and we got a really cool, early Christmas present. Let me just say: Madison Square Garden was PRINCE’s house on this night… and Ant & I were honored to be in the number. PRINCE sang just about all of his hits – from “Dirty Mind” to “Purple Rain” (and some of his self-penned hits that others have done like “Nothing Compares To You” (The Family & Sinead O’Connor) and “Cool” (The Time). Sheila E was a surprise guest who performed Sheena Easton’s PRINCE duet “U Got The Look” along with “Glamorous Life” and the big finale of “Love Bizarre” – featuring PRINCE who called up an ALL-STAR array of celebs to join in on the jam session. The stars included “The View”s Sherri Shephard; Whoopi Goldberg; Spike Lee (smiling with tambourine in hand); Naomi Campbell; Alicia Keys; Dr. Cornel West; Tavis Smiley; and on and on and on.  It was good to see my girlfriends Sidra, Dianne Smith, and Jacquie Lee in the house. We all enjoyed! Afterwards, Ant and I got a well-timed invite to join our buddy Caleb and friends at STK & Dos Caminos in Manhattan’s meatpacking district. GREAT way to celebrate before Ant and I parted ways for a week and change to be with our respective families! THANKS PRINCE, MARA, TOMMIE, CALEB, and THE REVOLUTION!

HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS 2010

Once Ern & I got Ant to the airport the following night on his postponed flight, we got some catch-up time (as BFFs since 7^th grade) – including our favorite Dallas BBQ; JAPAS 55 for karaoke where it’s always a good time! Then, a couple of days later, Ern & I flew to our young adult home and our childhood home – respectively. We touched down in ATL (from the Philly airport as we drove down from North Jersey to take advantage of a more economical flight). Our friend Cristal picked us up. We got our JR Cricket’s on. Ern’s sister Sam came to pick him up to take him to her place. My boy Lamoh – who you may recall from my summer in Atlanta last year - came to scoop me up to get me to my sister and her husband’s place. But not before we enjoyed our late night bite & cocktails.

HOLIDAY PARTY OVER HERE!!!

So it was more than a notion to be having a casual day with friends and suddenly get an invite to a black tie affair but with the help of my friend Camille, we pulled something together (as I neglected to pack even a suit this time, a rarity). But worth it all to see some great friends. The day actually started pretty low-key-yet-fulfilling as my BFFs Chandra & Camille & Chandra's son Gavin picked me up and we enjoyed a nice lunch at Ru-San. Then, haircuts for the boys (Gavin’s first).And Gavin didn't cry once. He was the best client ever!!! Gavin and I showcased our new looks at TARGET. It seemed to put a smile on his face! "HI... GAVIN!!!!" I would say. And he in reply says: "HI!!!!!!" Ant and I consider it a blessing that we can share a little bit of Gavin with Chandra. And Tata too (or most pointedly). She's such a great support to us all! Somewhere amidst all of this, my girl Camillle and my boy Lamoh invited me to accompany them to DeVyne Stephens' formal gala. It was held at the old Roxy (Buckhead Tavern). Impromptu (for me), but I rode the wave to discover a FUN NIGHT. Bumping into Morehouse brothers, industry friends, old-&-new buddies - including Jermaine Dupree, Kelly Rowland, Kenny Leon, Jazze Pha (and his artist: Rain), THE Dr. J, Babyface (who did a holiday serenade), Keith Robinson (Dreamgirls & Half & Half), up-and-comimg singer of Black Parisian descent named Louisa, and a host of others. Special shout outs to: my old friends Shanti Das; Kenny Leon; Joshua Butler (Morehouse brother); Meredith Garcia (Fashion List – www.thefashionlist.com. Meredith  gave my blog "A Day in the Life of Riley: pop culture & possibilities" the Golden Poodle from R. Scott French and American Chang a couple of years back: http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2006/12/22/wake-up-and-dream.html); Morehouse brother Will (of Obnoxious TV fame); Chris Ruffin, also a Morehouse brother (One Stop Productions who put on the event); and AUDIO which performed. And a special shout out to WXIAs-own Evelyn Mims, the "soap sultress" - one of my favorite people in the whole world! THANKS to Camille & Lamoh for making it happen!

MY FRIENDS ARE FAMILY TOO!

Being back in ATLANTA wasn’t all galas and premieres. I also got to have low-maintenance hang-time with some of my dearest friends – including BFF Elise and her wonderful family. Elise and I enjoyed – dare I say – a bottle of Nuestro Orgello (www.tequilaon.com) inside margaritas that she prepared as her mom cooked Christmas dinner and other appetizers for us to snack on. Too, we caught up and had some of the best talk I’ve had in a long time as only Elise and I can do. I LOVE YOU, BOO! I too got to hang out with my cousin Floyd – always a pleasure. Shout out to Camille & THE WOMEN for inviting my Morehouse brother Khalid and me to their “vegan” dinner party (Khalid happened to be in town). Also, SHOUT OUT to the “Waffle House” for food I’d actually eat. LOL! And Khalid and I did that afterwards. But the food for thought at our vegan, Christmas eve affair was the most nourishing!!! MERRY CHRISTMAS!

SAVANNAH, I LOVE YOU!

 I had some cherished time with family while in Savannah. My sister Janice, her husband Vincent, and I got on the road early Christmas morning. We got into town… and did a drive-by their god-daughter Deja’s house for gift exchange and a round of UNO (I won one of those rounds… and, OH MY!, how the game has changed from when I played as a child). Then, we made it to our childhood home where my dad and his wife Diana were awaiting us. Like we Riley’s do every Christmas, we all gathered in the living room and did our gift exchanges. Then, we got dressed to go to the first of our two dinners. My Dad’s side gathered at my aunt Goldie’s house. We were all excited to see my cousin Buddha for the first time in 15 years. He and I grew up together. (One disappointment: No chitlins’ this year.) From there, my late great mom’s only sister (and only sibling) Mary Lee hosted that side of the family. As always, we had a blast. So much so, my cousin Dee Dee and her husband Chris hosted us at their place the next day. The occasion: “low country boil” and Taboo. On this night, another of my favorite cousins Kejuanna took me by Ern’s place – so I could get a scoop (or many) of his mom’s banana pudding. While there, he and his family were playing Wii. Though a dusting of the blues (for a few pointed reasons), the light snowfall (and so many great reunions with family & friends - including a night at TANTRIC lounge spot on Broughton Street) underscore the reality: I am BLESSED with the LOVE & LIGHT of my adoring family & friends. That said, I got to spend some fun time with them at one of Savannah’s nightspots Tantric where we danced the night away. We also ran into many old friends from high school – including Shaun Beasley; Ricky Barnes; and Marcus Allen. And my cousin Robby was in the mix as well. As it’s been 22 years since I graduated high school, I took pride in how good we all looked. I guess Black doesn’t crack. LOL!

AMAZING GRACE

Holiday in Savannah wrapped with breakfast; visit from my high school BFF Natalie & her kids (for gift exchange); visits to a couple of aunts & other family/friends – including my Aunt Dorothy; and Vincent’s mom Ruth and son Brian. Then, once back in ATL, Ern and I met up with Carla; Thelma; and other mutuals at Cala Bar & Grill (for Falcons/Saints and catch-up). Nightcap: Karaoke Melody (in Doraville). We had a BLAST! And now I know where to go to karaoke when I go to Atlanta!!!!

HOME SWEET HOME

In the wake of this storm, Ern & I managed to make it home safely by way of ATL, Philly airport, and the NJ Turnpike. I wasn’t ready to unpack, but EXCITED to chill at home alone and watch my annual treat: KENNEDY CENTER HONORS (CBS at 9pm/Eastern) as I’ve yapped about that so many times here on this blog: http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2010/12/15/tis-the-season-to-be-jollyfa-la-la.html. My Miss Ross was in the audience and my boy Ryan was on the stage with The Gay Men's Chorus of Washington. They performed with Matthew Morrison, Carol Channing, Kelsey Grammer and Chita Rivera to honor Broadway legend Jerry Herman. 2010 Honorees of the Kennedy Center and President and Mrs. Obama included Merle Haggard, Bill T. Jones, Jerry Herman, and Paul McCartney among others. This is not the group’s first time on the national stage as they performed at the 2004 Kennedy Center Honors for Elizabeth Taylor and in front of millions at the “We Are One: Obama Inaugural Concert”, broadcast on HBO.

TEENA MARIE

Teena Marie HAS died!!! What a loss! She reportedly died in her sleep. I'm told she had been having some kind of bad seizures for the last week or so. Last week, she had a seizure in her sleep, and she fell and broke her rib. She was resting with family & friends nearby. Her daughter found her not breathing. So sad! Though she will be missed, she leaves us with such a rich musical legacy – from “Square Biz” to “Lovergirl” to “Out on a Limb” to “I’m Just a Sucker For Your Love” (a song Rick James’ originally wrote for Teena’s legendary label mate Diana Ross) to “Portuguese in Love” to “Fire & Desire” (her duet with Rick) to “I Need Your Lovin’” and so many other hits!!! WOW! REST IN PEACE, OUR “IVORY QUEEN OF SOUL”!!!!! (AND TO MY QUEEN OF SOUL, as in QUEEN ELIZABETH RILEY - my late, great mother - HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!).

EL DEBARGE

Shout out to one of my NABJ "babies" (mentees) Olivia D. Sanders who is pursuing her Masters at CUNY Graduate School of Journalism. She invited me to weigh in - as on-cam pundit - on an El Debarge piece she produced for her Broadcast class. It’s her FINAL! Olivia? Your mentor Patrick L. Riley gives you an A+. Hopefully your professor will agree. Take a look: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-1sZjzjbXSo  You know, I’m a BIG El Debarge fan and have had the privilege of supporting TEAM EL in their efforts to strategize El’s SECOND CHANCE. I am so happy for him. He’s been nominated for two GRAMMYs. When our iconic artists fall off, comebacks are often hard to come by. It’s like an equation: a new record deal and/or concert tour have to meet the right marketing/publicity machine and the public interest at the pass. But the TALENT or some modicum of the talent must still be there. It seems that all the stars have aligned for El’s SECOND CHANCE – including that AMAZING VOICE which is back in full… and I couldn’t be happier for him. He’s on a major label – INTERSCOPE/GEFFEN (which is also Mary J. Blige’s label). That means he’s got the support and the team behind him. I’ve met his management team – KINGS OF LA – including legendary music executive Pete Farmer and his wife Pam. They are not only ensuring that he gets the bookings and the notices, but they are taking care of El: mind, body, and soul. The music on “Second Chance” is as CLASSIC DEBARGE as it is RELEVANT & RADIO-FRIENDLY! El has collaborated with only the best – from  Jimmy Jam & Terry Lewis & Babyface in addition to collaborating with current hip-hoppers 50 Cent and Fabolous as well as a classic R&B duet with our beloved Faith Evans. His first TV appearance on the BET AWARDS was a surprise… and what a reveal! He not only sang the greatest hits (about six of them), but he also introduced the title track: “Second Chance” which offers up a dose of testimonial and humility that audiences LOVE! And let’s not forget: The DEBARGE Dynasty is ICONIC. Not necessarily prolific as their troubles unfortunately have dwarfed their ability to crank out lots of music over the years. But what EL and his older siblings and then his other siblings who became his DEBARGE group members have produced is music that underscores a nostalgic time in our lives… and those songs still hold up today via all radio formats. From “All This Love” to “ Time Will Reveal” to “ Stay With Me” and “A Dream” (which hip hop & R&B just took over in the way of samples), the music is timeless. EL DEBARGE is one of pop & soul music’s premiere vocalists. His falsetto not only still sounds great (which is a wonder considering his drug abuse issues), but in the grand scheme of the music industry’s great falsettos – from Eddie Kendrick to Michael Jackson to Earth, Wind, & Fire’s Phillip Bailey to Maxwell and others, EL DEBARGE is one of the best. And now, two Grammy nods - including Best Male R&B Vocal Performance and Best R&B song. Looks like TIME is REVEALING!

TERRY MCMILLAN – FELA!

Last Saturday’s FELA! matinee was followed by my interview with Terry McMillan (and a few cast members from FELA – including current FELA Kevin Mambo).

We had a great chat about her new book “Getting to Happy”.

On my copy, she wrote: “I’m grateful to you & love your work & interest in what we do! YES!”.

 She told us that she’s currently working on a re-write of the book’s screenplay adaptation, which is a “Waiting to Exhale” sequel that is also waiting on Whitney who we hear is the hold-out for the film company’s efforts to reunite the cast for the follow-up film.

My NABJ folks Jacqualine, Chet, & Greg were in the mix for our program. Also friends Sidra, Ihmakus, Dawn, etc. Shout out to Marcia Pendelton (Walk Tall Girl Productions) and Marva Allen (Hue-Man Bookstore) for inviting me to host this special afternoon.

MEANWHILE, here is a DISCOUNT CODE to see: FELA: FENAS1110

$87 Saturday Evenings

$77 All other performances

Three easy ways to purchase tickets when you use code FENAS1110. Online:  Visit www.broadwayoffers.com and enter code FENAS1110. By Phone:  Call 212.947.8844 and mention code FENAS1110. In Person: Take a print out of this offer to the Eugene O'Neill Theatre Box Office, 230 West 49th Street between 8th Avenue and Broadway. The price includes a $2 service charge and part of the proceeds will go to the National Association of Black Journalists. FELA! will play its final performance on Broadway January 2, 2011. The offer is based on availability and cannot be used in combination with other offers. All sales are final. No refunds or exchanges.  Visit Telecharge.com for Ms. LaBelle's performance schedule. Valid now through 1/2/11 for performances through 1/2/11. Blackout dates: 11/26, 11/28 and 1/2/11.  Limit 8 tickets per order/person/week. www.felaonbroadway.com

ALL-STAR KARAOKE

So ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT is still going strong. Though we’ll take a break on the THURSDAY before Christmas, we will – for sure – be back up and running on the THURSDAY before New Year’s (12/30). NATIVE RESTAURANT is the spot. It’s on Lenox Avenue and 118^th Street from 9pm to MIDNIGHT. Based on our last two weeks, we’ve had some sparkle in the house: My friend Kevin-Anthony’s client B. Slade (formerly known as Tonex) whose electrifying performance I’d just seen earlier in the evening at Joe’s Pub (The FAB Kimberly Nichole opened with my friend Darius Booker on the best background ever). He performed Janet Jackson’s “I Get Lonely”: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3GXUoj_Kak. B. Slade put his gift on Janet's "I Get Lonely" at his NYC Joe's Pub debut prior to our event. Then, the artist formerly known as TONEX graced ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT with the same a la karaoke.  On this clip (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0GkmtqR4fGI&feature=player_embedded# ) at 7:17, he (now B SLADE) and my girl Sid shout out my ALL-STAR KARAOKE and even my performance. B. Slade’s background singer Dawn – a Gospel/house diva in her own right – did a brilliant “Get Here”. And my Quan rolled in deep for the launch of her BDAY EXTRAVAGANZA… and she brought an awesome entourage of mutuals in the house – including many of my BET friends from earlier this year. And my buddy Greg Dunmore (from Detroit) was in the house. Also, my friends Sidra, Murphy, Kevin, Ed, and a host of others.Last Thursday, Kerisha Roi came by. She’s my friend Bariek’s cousin. She has sung with my fav ATL-iens – including India.Arie, Anthony David, and Donny. Last night, she sang with me at ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT at NATIVE. We continue to be grateful to all of our ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT regulars who are MY ALL-STARs!!!

AKHENATEN’S BLACK POP SERIES #1

I’ve told you about Ant, the artist, before:  http://thelifeofriley.squarespace.com/rilys-blog/2007/10/24/making-a-wave-or-is-it-way-when-you-can.html. Well, we got the chance to put a spotlight on that via our girl Cynthia Burgos who is an artist her own (who, too, I’ve spoken about here in the blog).

She hosted a holiday art sale at her home in Mount Vernon.

It doubled as her man Elijah’s birthday celebration

[Birthday boy doubled as chef. YUM!].

Cynthia invited Ant to showcase his artwork.

He debuted AKHENATEN’S BLACK POP SERIES #1.

And ...he SOLD OUT!

CONGRATS, ANT! I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!

Thanks to CYNTHIA, TATA, ET AL for your support!

More about his work:

AKHENATEN’S BLACK POP SERIES #1: includes a collection of popular images from African American culture that speak to iconic black impressions in popular media.  The first installment of this body of work is made up of a collection of 9 abstract expressionistic paintings created by thick textured brush strokes on miniature canvas.  These images can be juxtaposed with the work of artists such as Clementine Hunter and Jean Michelle Basquiat whose work has been coined as “Primitive Art” in the context of art history based on its free and relatively flat aesthetic and non-traditional use of surface.  The surfaces in which these images reside have been assembled in the form of refrigerator magnets which add to its pop appeal. 

·        OFF THE WALL - SOLD!          

·        JJ’S BLACK JESUS - SOLD!

·        EVANS FAMILY -  SOLD!

·        CONTROL - SOLD!

·        SILK ELECTRIC - SOLD!

·        THE WIZ - SOLD!

·        HUXTABLES - SOLD!

·        GORDON GARTELLE - SOLD!

“Good Times” is such a muse, we were so excited that our girl Sidra snagged those two. Plus, because of TV ONE, I’ve been watching a lot more of it of late. Shout out to my friend Stanley Bennett Clay (pictured left). His 1975 episode of "Good Times" was on recently.  He portrayed Jimmy Pearson - the new politician in town who got bested by incumbent crook Alderman Davis (the intro of a recurring character on the show). Fast forward to 2010: STANLEY is a WINNING WRITER EXTRAORDINAIRE! LUV U, STANLEY! And LOVE MY GOOD TIMES! Also, a recent installment "Good Times" highlighted Wilona (Ja’Net Dubois). I met her last year while working in L.A. for a stretch that also included the chance to be a guest of Miss Aretha Franklin at The Hollywood Bowl & The Peninsula Hotel in Beverly Hills. Sending PRAYERS to THE QUEEN for a speedy recovery, by the way! And Debbie Allen was just in an episode as J.J.s girlfriend/fiance. She played a dope addict. It was a fierce two-parter.

KENNEDY CENTER 2011

I had the chance - in 1991 - to perform on the KENNEDY CENTER HONORS with the Morehouse College Glee Club. We were there to honor Atlanta Symphony Orchestra & Chorus Composer and Conductor Robert Shaw. I even got cast to speak: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yZF2iK2VOY8.  Miss Ross was honored in excellence a few years ago (PART 1: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u06d1ZSFAzc; PART 2: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tx1iLxfVv-Q&feature=related; PART 3: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q7sfWLuhFAE&feature=related). This year, she was back in the house with just her baby son, Evan, in tow (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YMiYXy6CX8c). Can't wait to watch this year's Kennedy Center Honors after Christmas. BY THE WAY: With Oscar buzz for our beloved Halle Berry and her "Frankie & Alice", I'm reminded of Miss Ross' Golden-Globe-nominated turn in "Out of Darkness" (in '94): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0KPyQYukKDk&feature=related MISS ROSS HAS SOME MORE FEATURES IN HER, don't you think?

DIANNE SMITH

I met Dianne Smith (www.diannesmithart.com) recently when Sid did her swap party for “The Nate Berkus Show”.  She invited us to her home where she features 900 pieces of her work – from paintings to sculpture. What a talented artist and chef.  The Harlem-based artist surely knows her way around turkey pot pie & pound cake….  

TICHINA ARNOLD GIVES BACK

We got to escort Tichina Arnold – in town starring in LOVE, LOSS, & WHAT I WORE – to the Harlem Lanes. She graciously agreed to pop by and say HI to 43 young, Fairfax, Virginia, African American high school males from a Mount Vernon High School program called Men With Vision and Purpose (Our friend Jacquie Lee and Nardos Brown – the principal – created this test pilot program to close the achievement gap among African American males between the ages of 16 - 18. These young men get an incentive at the beginning of the school year to bring their grades up to a 2.5 and above average in order to experience an immersion to New York City to meet affluent African American male Executives of the corporate, entertainment and sport industries. Forty-three out of the sixty three young males met the challenge which was a major feat. CONGRATS, FELLAS!)

TREE TRIMMING: PART ONE

My boy Murphy invited us out for a tree-trimming in Harlem – well-appointed with food; drink; and cheer! Imagine Sid’s, Ant’s and my excitement when our friends Scott and Tony from L.A. called to say they were in town (Scott works alongside Sheryl Lee Ralph). We invited them on up to join in the fun….

2R HOLIDAY APPRECIATION

Then, 2R’s Entertainment & Media PR “Holiday Appreciation Party” was a lot of fun! CONGRATS to Robbie, Ra-Fael, and their star clientele – including my favorite MIGUEL PERDOMO, Supermodel with the most. Great to see Robert, Kevin-Anthony, Bariek, and the rest of the gang.

TREE TRIMMING: PART TWO

One recent Saturday, HARLEM came a calling – from Native (with Ary, Rick, & Irie); then, another set w/a host of new friends – including Ron; Brandye; model Julian Sapp (featured in Beyonce’s current DVD); and others. Tata joined us there and continued on to Seitu’s tree trimming. And can I tell you he had the best friend chicken wings this side of The Hudson. Miss Nina Flowers and the gang were in the house too.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

Friends Karen Good & Andy Diaz celebrated their birthdays on one SATURDAY night. Karen – in Brooklyn – is my Savannah homeboy Maurice’s fiancé. He choreographed an awesome surprise for her. In the house, some of my favorite Savannah home folks – including Joicelyn; and Rae. We were all close friends in Savannah and remain friends to this day while we are all in New York. Always a pleasure to see my homegirls. And now Karen is added to the Savannah posse. And DIAZ’s set was at NATIVE.

GIRLS WHO LIKE BOYS WHO LIKE BOYS

I joined my friend Nathan for the premiere of his “Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys” (on the Sundance channel) at SPLASH. (My book project “Big Willies & Amazing Graces: gay men and their best girlfriends” still hasn’t been sold… but the green-lighting of the project gives me hope.) CONGRATS to Nathan and Crystal!!!! LOVE Y'ALL! Also, a shout out to my buddy Terrance Dean whose current book title may be a sign that the industry is yet ready for my project. Please check out his "Straight From Your Gay Best Friend - The Striaght Up Truth About Relationships, Work, and Having a Fabulous Life" (Agate Bolden - October 2010; $15).  

CRUISE

My friend Laurence Pinckney is promoting the Ultimate Halloween Caribbean Cruise.  The cabins on the ship are selling out fast… but are not all sold out. He wants to get the word out to our people. It’s considered the Ultimate cruise for LGBT & friends. And it takes place on the beautiful Carnival Victory. It departs from San Juan, Puerto Rico and there will be stops in St. Thomas,  USVI -  Barbados, West Indies – St. Lucia,West Indies St. Kitts, West Indies & St. Maarten. Highlights include: Pre-cruise package in Old San Juan*, 7 nights on ship, cruise ship entertainment, unlimited food, 5 ports of call, exciting people from USA and the Caribbean, Event Pass (optional) – includes: films, seminars, parties, entertainment and more in the tradition of Nubian Dreams Cruises. It’s scheduled for October 30th, 2011 – November 6th, 2011. The Pre-Cruise in San Juan is October 29^th.

MARLENE RHEIN

Remember I wrote that I met the Director of Tupac’s last video at a Jones Magazine party. Well, Marlene Rhein has completed her latest feature film, THE BIG SHOT-CALLER (an inspiring NYC story about a lonely outsider who rediscovers his self-esteem through Salsa dancing). It is about to have its DVD release on December 21st.  It is available for sale on Amazon and Best Buy.  She sent me a copy. It’s good… and perfect for family and friends to enjoy together during the holidays.  Check it out: www.thebigshotcaller.com.

KANDI KOATED LOVE

So you may recall that my spring and summer in Atlanta gave me access to the “Real Housewives of Atlanta” – including Kandi. I just want to shout out her new album “Kandi Koated” on Asylum/Warner Bros. The Grammy Award winning singer, songwriter, entrepreneur, and television star has been busy as a bee of late. She recently shot a video for "Haven't Loved Right" in honor of her ex-fiancé, AJ, who senselessly died in Atlanta a little over a year ago. And she joined forces with Carol's Daughter – in NYC and ATL – to launch her project. "The album is about love, relationships. It's meeting someone.  Falling for them. Falling out with them. Breaking up with them. Thinking about them. Getting back together. Moving on. It's all there," she says of the self-penned project, except for "Me and You," written and produced by Ne-Yo, and sampling the Outkast classic "Elevators."

KANDI’s LINKS: 

• Official: http://www.kandionline.com
• Myspace: http://www.myspace.com/kandionline
• Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/kandi
• Ustream: http://www.ustream.tv/kandionline
• "Haven't Loved Right" (video): http://www.bravotv.com/the-real-housewives-of-atlanta/season-3/videos/havent-loved-right-by-kandi-burruss
• "Haven't Loved Right" (Behind the Scenes, video): http://www.bravotv.com/the-real-housewives-of-atlanta/season-3/videos/behind-the-scenes-of-havent-loved-right
• "Leave U" (1^st single, video): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDnc-nWByzQ&feature=autofb

P.S. HAPPY HOLIDAYS & SHOUT OUTS

I was invited to a listening party for MJ's controversial-and-highly-anticipated new music this week. Didn't see the invite hit my inbox until the morning after. UGH! Also, didn't get my request to see Paul McCartney at the Apollo in in time. AARGH! COME ON HOLIDAYS. Time to unplug & refuel for 2011! LOL! SANTA? I NEED AN ASSISTANT! LMAO!

THE PICTURES TELL MUCH OF THE STORY:

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=247802&id=662073736&l=271010aa46

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=249829&id=662073736&l=af9299985b

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=244110&id=662073736&l=1ad36abf6f

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=242502&id=662073736&l=51db5e7c6b

HALLE BERRY

Last year, I was trying to shake off the effects of having been one of the producers on “Frankie & Neffe”. This year, with friend Theo’s nudging, Halle Berry invited me to join her at a special screening of her upcoming feature film “Frankie & Alice” in which the Academy-award winner seems to be going for her sophomore prize. Coincidentally, she plays Savannah, Georgia native Frankie Murdoch who suffered with multiple personality disorder in early ‘70s Los Angeles. Her mom is “For Colored Girls”-own Phylicia Rashad and her sister is “Grey’s Anatomy”s Chandra Wilson… but Halle plays ALL the colored girls and then some in this psychological drama. I was able to bring my nephew Herman – a Savannah native – along with me and in addition to my dear friends Karu, Marcia, and Yvette, Ant, Herman (Noot I call him), and I got to enjoy the company of Ms. Halle (who was ever-gracious and present to when I first interviewed her in ’95); the legendary Ruby Dee; Ruben Santiago Hudson (“Lackawanna Blues”); supermodel Roshumba; celeb hairstylist Niko; and a cool, intimate crowd that celebrated the film at Rouge Tomate for wine and hors d’oeuvres – including THE MAXWELL who couldn’t have been nicer, though that 2nd flash on the camera got him every time. LOL! FUN NIGHT! My girl Anika Noni Rose was there too. Someone said I should have invited MAXWELL out to ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHT to sing "This Woman's Work" with me (http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2...47802&id=662073736&l=271010aa46).

EL DEBARGE

In the wake of the 40TH BDAY FESTIVITIES (more details below), I was met with a busy week of CELEBRATING EL DEBARGE’s SECOND CHANCE. I first got to see my buddy El Debarge perform at “The Wendy Williams Show” w/my friends Ern & Sidra in tow. EXCELLENT PERFORMANCEs(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KO1BCYScCXE). For this performance, El sang for Wendy’s dance contest – won by this spry couple. This, the morning after Team El took me out for BDAY drinks. Shout out to MY SHELLY & MY PAM! Then, Sid and I enjoyed an early dinner at Brazil Brazil Restaurant on Restaurant Row – a stone’s throw from my old performance stage “Don’t Tell Mama”. Supermodel Kara Young and celebrity stylist Dickey, the co-founders of the innovative hair care brand and NY-based salon called Hair Rules, hosted a party to celebrate the launch of their first billboard in Times Square. The private event at Vivid Lounge (The Renaissance Hotel) included guests supermodel/writer Veronica Webb; Russell Simmons; Former Miss Tanzania and Model Millen Magese; stylist/TV personality Philip Bloch; Annabella Sciorro (of “Jungle Fever” fame) and a host of others. Wanted to go to Beyonce’s celebration of her line of jewelry from Lorraine Schwartz, but scheduling didn’t allow. My nephew, however, snagged this red-carpet ready shot and more.

Then, El and his folks invited me to a couple of sets centered around CELEBRATING his SECOND CHANCE – the highly-anticipated CD that is out this week. One event was at SLATE. He and his management team – including my Pete and Pam – were in the house along with the executives at Interscope. His special guest was TLC’s Chilli, who I knew at the start and peak of her TLC career. We have friends in common who attended Georgia Southern University and Morehouse College at the time we attended both of them. Then, once I got my B.A. and she got her T.L.C., I got the chance to interview her via my 2^nd career gig at FOX 5s “Good Day Atlanta”. She was so warm and nostalgic for all those things we have in common. Lovely to talk to her! This, while El grabbed the venue’s mic and sang along not only to his new tracks, which are OFF-THE-CHAIN GREAT, but he danced down memory lane – singing along to tracks like “Rhythm of the Night” and “Who’s Johnny?” as well as the legendary ballads and mid-tempos.  Afterwards, we joined our buddy Carl at NATIVE owner Brian’s other spot NO PARKING which does a fabulous KARAOKE MONDAY night with host TREVOR and shared regulars – including Darius Booker! I sang a few tunes as well.

The Highline Ballroom hosted El Debarge’s release party last night! It was a full-fledged concert!!! Doug E. Fresh even joined in for an inspired and nostalgic, free-style moment! EL IS BACK, Y’ALL! Go pick up his CD now! IT’S GREAT! And his VOICE is still pristine. www.facebook.com/ElDeBarge

FELA! & TERRY MCMILLAN

This Saturday, you can catch a performance of FELA!, the hit Broadway musical now playing its final weeks (must close Sunday, Jan. 2, 2011); participate in a post show discussion with best-selling author Terry McMillan and me; and get a signed copy of her new book GETTING TO HAPPY. It is the sequel to WAITING TO EXHALE.  This special promotion is available this Saturday, December 4 @ 2pm only! Details are below.

FELA! on Broadway, Hue Man Bookstore and the Arts and Entertainment Task Force of the National Association of Black Journalists

Present

TELLING OUR STORIES:A Performance, Conversation and Book Signing with Best-selling Author TERRY McMILLAN

moderated by PATRICK L. RILEY

Saturday, December 4, 2010 @ 2:00 pm

Eugene O'Neill Theatre

230 West 49th Street

between 8th Avenue and Broadway

(Via Subway: C to 50th Street; N, R, Q to 49th Street; 1 to 50th Street)  

My conversation with Ms. McMillan will be about the role of art as change agent; the importance of telling our stories and how they are told and who tells them.

HOW TO PURCHASE TICKETS:   

See FELA! and get a copy of GETTING TO HAPPY for one low price!

$85 (orch/front mezz seats) when you use code FEHAP1111

TO PURCHASE TICKETS:

Online:

Visit www.broadwayoffers.com and enter code FEHAP111

Phone:

Call Telecharge at 212.947.8844 and mention code FEHAP1111

In Person:

Take a print out of this offer to the Eugene O'Neill Theatre Box Office

*No E-tickets will be available with this code. Vouchers for the book will be mailed or can be picked up at the box office. Valid Now Through 12.4 only for the 12/4 matinee performance. No refunds or exchanges. All sales final. Cannot be used in combination with any other offer. Offer based on availability and can be withdrawn at anytime. Check Telecharge.com for Ms. LaBelle's performance dates.

AND SPEAKING OF OTHER OFFERS TO GO TO FELA! BEFORE IT CLOSES, READ ON:

 MEANWHILE, here is a DISCOUNT CODE to see: FELA: FENAS1110

$87 Saturday Evenings

$77 All other performances

Three easy ways to purchase tickets when you use code FENAS1110

Online:  Visit www.broadwayoffers.com and enter code FENAS1110

By Phone:  Call 212.947.8844 and mention code FENAS1110

In Person: Take a print out of this offer to the Eugene O'Neill Theatre Box Office, 230 West 49th Street between 8th Avenue and Broadway.

The price includes a $2 service charge and part of the proceeds will go to the National Association of Black Journalists. 

FELA! will play its final performance on Broadway January 2, 2011.

The offer is based on availability and cannot be used in combination with other offers. All sales are final. No refunds or exchanges.

Visit Telecharge.com for Ms. LaBelle's performance schedule.

Valid now through 1/2/11 for performances through 1/2/11. Blackout dates: 11/26, 11/28 and 1/2/11.

Limit 8 tickets per order/person/week.

www.felaonbroadway.com

JO THOMPSON

I’m always talking or blogging about my dear friend and Co-Chair for the NABJ Arts & Entertainment Task Force Greg Dunmore. Well, he was in town recently with good news that brings him back to town. His mom, jazzy cabaret pianist and singer, Ms. Jo Thompson – who Greg manages – is bringing her show to NYC. Musical Director Walt Szymanski will lead 8 of New York's hottest jazz musicians alongside Miss Jo and they all will be appearing in New York City this Saturday December 4th at the City Museum of New York which in on Fifth Ave. between East 103rd and 104th Streets. Showtime: 2:00PM in the afternoon. (I know, it’s the same time as my event… but these are the options that “… the life of Riley…” provides).

Jo Thompson’s show: Thank You Lena!!! is a complement to the museum’s current exhibition: Notorious & Notable (which is a salute to some of New York City’s most legendary ladies in which Lena Horne is one of the fabulous females being spotlighted!)

The show is free with admissions into the museum. Therefore, it is a wonderful yet inexpensive way to support the museum and spend a delightful Saturday in Manhattan!!!

Check out the following link:

http://www.womanaroundtown.com/sections/playing-around/jo-thompson-still-swinging

Please spread the word to anybody you know in New York City about Jo Thompson (with musical director Walt Szymanski leading 8 of New York's hottest jazz musicians) in “Thank You Lena!!!”  (a musical salute to  the late great Lena Horne conceived by Greg Dunmore) at the Museum of the City of New York ( 1220 Fifth Ave between East 103rd & 104th Streets. Phone: 212- 534-1672) Saturday, December 4, 2010 Showtime: 2:00PM.  The show is free with Museum admission.

BOYS & GIRLS CLUB

With my best girlfriend Nichole being a New Rochelle resident, I spend lots of time there with Nichole and her friends. Good girlfriend Michelle Sanchez-Boyce invited me to host “An Evening to Benefit The Boys & Girls Club of New Rochelle” at Top of The Roc II at Avalon on the Sound East. It was a GREAT NIGHT with many of my fabulous New Ro friends in the house. The food was delicious… and the wine was flowing. But most importantly, I got to turn our silent auction items into LIVE auction items, which brought the room to life and allowed me to do my part in raising a lot of money for the kids… and that’s just what we did! THANKS MICHELLE… for booking me. GREAT to see ALL OF YOU! www.bgnr.org WAS REALLY FUN… and all for a good cause!

MISS ROSS IN VEGAS

Miss Ross exclaims "IT'S MY HOUSE!" by throwing an AWESOME show at the Colosseum at Caesars Palace in Las Vegas - her first time performing at the entertainment mecca she helped build with her record-breaking shows in the '70s and the '80s. I should have better prepared and had this be my 40TH KICKOFF… but the RAVE REVIEWS Miss Ross got for her two sold-out shows was gift enough!

BIRTHDAY COUNT-DOWN

MEANWHILE, it’s always a CELEBRATION in “… the life of Riley…” We continue to have great ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURSDAY NIGHTs at NATIVE RESTAURANT from 9pm – 12 MIDNIGHT (LENOX AVENUE & 118^TH Street). One week , my favorite boutique N held a “For Colored Girls”-inspired pre-karaoke set. That same night, fellow Scorpio girlfriend Sonjiya came from Miami (with her friend Troy) to celebrate her birthday. Many other friends were in the house: Eric, Robert, Sidra, Bariek, Nichole, Brian, Jasmine, Turquoise, Charlie Brown, Dard, Craig, Trevor, Charlie T, Danielle, April, Nathan, Keith, Harlem’s Anthony, and a host of others. GREAT SINGING! GREAT SONGS!

EVE OF 40^TH BDAY

The next week was the big EVE OF THE 40^TH BDAY CELEBRATION!!!! The place was even more packed than usual! SO MUCH LOVE IN THE ROOM, I had to THANK EVERYONE… in song: http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=473226388736&saved. BIG THANKS to all who came out to celebrate my LAST DAY OF BEING 39 last night for ALL-STAR KARAOKE THURS...DAY NIGHT at NATIVE! It was a PACKED HOUSE - FILLED WITH LOVE! We had to stretch the night beyond MIDNIGHT's wrap to almost 2 A--M. TONIGHT, many of my NYC family & friends will take me out to CELEBRATE further! It's a 40TH BDAY EXTRAVAGANZA after all (LOL!) - poised to go through 2011 (pending when I can step foot off of these domestic shores for a vacation abroad. SOMEWHERE!).

THE BIRTHDAY

On my actual birthday, a small group of friends gathered at the Harlem home of my friends Mara Schiavocampo and Tommie Porter. It was a well-appointed and whimsical BDAY cocktail hour w/party hats & favors to boot; DIANA ROSS piping from the speakers; great spread – including my favorite pasta by Sidra who came by as did my Amazing Grace Nichole; Jamar; and MY Devon. They were my gifts. But there were also gifts – including the 25TH Anniversary DVD Collection of “The Cosby Show” – a staple when we often visit Mara & Tommie; Ant also provided them a pic of me that they framed (It’s of me cleaning MISS ROSS’ star on The Hollywood Walk of Fame from last year); etc.

Then, with some help from our friend Nikki, MY Ant pulled out all the stops at GRIFFIN. The FAB set - in the meatpacking district of Downtown Manhattan - had me feeling like a rock star... and partying like one too: champagne & Patron were flowing; we danced all night long; there was a lovely spread of appetizers. They were engineered by my friend Derek K. Corley’s company “Nadia’s SPICE KITCHEN” (www.NadiasSpiceKitchen.com); and a host of my family and friends came out to toast me. And everybody got in on the fun – including my nephew Herman. He came with an entourage of my little brothers and sisters. They are recent alums from my nephew’s and my alma mater Morehouse and its sister college Spelman. (By the way, ANT: THANK YOU! I LOVE YOU!) Here’s some video from the cake: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JIUd-Tgg4eM.

BIRTHDAY WEEKEND

On the Sunday of the weekend, I managed to get up for a FAB SUNDAY BDAY BRUNCH that Ant took me to at Monalito, our new favorite brunch spot (as owned by Cristina, nanny to Miss Ross’ three girls in the ‘80s). My buddies Robert & Dawn joined us along with my nephew (and fellow Morehouse brother) Herman (Noot I call him). From (black bean) soup to an awesome omelette to some tiramisu (and don’t forget the sangrias & the mojitos), we all loved our meal. Afterwards, Ant & I joined our girlfriend Dawn at her Brooklyn pad for champagne and Cake Man Raven red velvet cake (and You Tube clips of Miss Ross. Also, MISS “PRETTY GIRL ROCK” herself: Keri Hilson - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtXOVKNazYU. Brunch at Monalito was so good, we did it again the following Sunday. This time, with friends Sidra, Murphy, Eric, Tracy, Cynthia, Greg, and Ant. From there, more hanging in Harlem where Cynthia shared with us her new profile in Black Enterprise - promoting her work as a fledgling fine artist. Go Cynthia, Go!

AMERICA’S GOT TALENT

My passion for KARAOKE produced an interesting turn of events. Ant led us to Pulse Karaoke where a phantom scout from “America’s Got Talent” was to be present in the house. After I sang a few numbers, the scout approached me and said she is referring me to the “America’s Got Talent” folks. So with my karaoke persona in tow, I got a call from one of the producers to see if I could come in for a scheduled appointment during their Javitz-Convention-Center based audition. I made it through the two rounds that the NYC stop offered and am now to wait for a call that may come in March to signal me to L.A. The scout came up to me after I sang "And I Am Telling You I'm Not Going" (now a staple at karaoke for me) - so I performed that (with background instrumentation) and when asked to do an uptempo/current number, I did an a cappella "Paparazzi" by Lady Gaga. For the final round - in front of producers and the "America's Got Talent" backdrop, they requested the same. STAY TUNED. Meanwhile, business as usual. I'll only know I made it to next round if they call. If I didn't, I'll keep on truckin' - like I do...

THANK YOU FOR THE BEST YEARS OF MY LIFE!

Of course, the BDAY EXTRAVAGANZA continued into THANKSGIVING. I did a lovely and long-overdue lunch at Houston’s with my TaTa. BDAY cocktails at UNO in Yonkers with my childhood BFF and Spelman sister Tish brought a smile to my face. We also did a cocktail at The Hudson Terrace. Then, Japas 55 for karaoke. Then, “The Rocket” at Quo Nightclub. FUN TIMES!

And THANKSGIVING was special! Our HAPPY THANKSGIVING was hosted by our buddies Charlie T and Danielle. We invited our friends Toby and Sidra (and Paul) to join us. And what a GREAT TIME it was as we ate some tasty food and watched "The Wiz"; Beyonce's ABC special; a "Supremes" collection of performances; and more.  

P.S. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ZGy_frzN74&playnext=1&list=PL544403C996D2CF71&index=34 HAPPY THANKSGIVING: "In the ones you love... in the ones who love you..." XO

HAPPY HOLIDAYS, EVERYONE! Let this time underscore how important it is to hold on to your family & friends as we support each other to reach our DREAMS! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSzBvYCH0Fc 

THANKS TO ALL OF YOU FOR YOUR WELL WISHES! Chalk it up to being 40, but I've been quite MOVED this season as I've read each and everyone of your posts... and received many wonderful gifts - including this special gift from my friends Carl Nelson and FAB designer Myriam Belasse (www.asapsewingservice.com) whose fabulous men's designs take up a lot of room in my closet... and her many talents have been seen even on "Real Housewives of Atlanta" and beyond. Carl secured this awesome piece for me. THANKS CARL & BELASSE!

ONE MORE MILESTONE

It was five years ago today that Ant & I met at the opening night of “The Color Purple” on Broadway. Here five years later… well, you know the rest… the melody lingers on! LUV YA, ANT!

THANK YOU FOR THE BEST YEARS OF MY LIFE!!!! 

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